Am I the Problem in My Relationship Quiz
Understand how your habits may affect relationship tension in about 10 minutes. Get clear, nonjudgmental insight on conflict, boundaries, and repair with 15 quick questions.
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Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Accountability and Repair (AaR)
Average
11
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8.3 — 13.7
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15
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Communication During Conflict (CDC)
Average
5.3
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2.8 — 7.7
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15
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Respect for Autonomy and Boundaries (RfAaB)
Average
9.4
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7.5 — 11.3
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15
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CLEAR ANSWERS TO COMMON QUESTIONS
Frequently Asked Questions
What does this quiz measure?
It assesses patterns that may contribute to relationship tension, including accountability, conflict responses, repair efforts, autonomy, and boundary-setting. Results are intended for reflection and do not assign blame.
How should the results be interpreted?
Scores indicate areas that may warrant attention, not a verdict about who is at fault. A complex relationship cannot be reduced to a single cause or one person.
Can this quiz diagnose a mental health condition or determine who is “the problem”?
No; it is not a diagnostic tool and cannot determine responsibility for another person’s behavior. Harmful behavior by another person is not caused or justified by these results.
What if there is intimidation, coercion, stalking, forced contact, or violence?
Prioritize safety and seek immediate help through local emergency services or a relationship-abuse resource. Consider contacting a trusted person for support.
How long does it take and how many questions are included?
It includes 15 questions and typically takes about 10 minutes to complete.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment
Am I the Problem in My Relationship Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
This free, no-sign-up quiz helps you reflect on habits that may contribute to tension with a partner or family member. Explore how you handle accountability, conflict, repair, autonomy, and boundaries without reducing a complex relationship to a blame-based verdict. It cannot diagnose either person or determine who is “the problem.” Another person’s harmful behavior is not your responsibility. If there are threats, coercion, stalking, forced contact, or violence, prioritize safety and contact local emergency services, a relationship-abuse resource, or someone you trust.
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