Am I Good Enough for My Parents Quiz

Example Questions From the Test

• 1After receiving sharp criticism from a parent, what is your inner response once the conversation ends?
  • I consider what is useful while remembering that one judgment does not define me
  • I feel shaken at first, then gradually regain my own perspective
  • I replay it for a long time and question whether I can trust my judgment
  • I take it as evidence that I am fundamentally disappointing
• 2You achieve something meaningful, but your parents show little enthusiasm. How does that affect the achievement?
  • It loses much of its meaning because their reaction was the part that mattered most
  • I still value it, though their muted response overshadows the satisfaction
  • I feel disappointed but can also appreciate what the achievement means to me
  • I would have welcomed their enthusiasm, yet the achievement remains meaningful on its own
• 3When making a major personal decision, whose judgment ultimately carries the most weight?
  • My parents’ judgment, because going against it makes the choice feel wrong
  • Usually my parents’ judgment, even when my preference points elsewhere
  • My own judgment, after seriously considering their perspective
  • A balance, although their disapproval can still change my decision