Long Distance Relationship Quiz

Example Questions From the Test

• 1How included do you feel in the ordinary parts of your partner's life—not just major updates?
  • I know little about their routines, friends, or everyday experiences.
  • I hear occasional details, although much of daily life feels separate.
  • We regularly exchange everyday stories, photos, or observations.
  • We naturally involve each other in both mundane moments and meaningful events.
• 2What tends to happen after an argument or tense conversation?
  • The subject is usually dropped, but the tension often lingers.
  • We reconnect, although the underlying concern may remain unclear.
  • We revisit what happened and usually reach some understanding.
  • We clarify the issue, acknowledge each person's impact, and agree on what to try next.
• 3A text message sounds colder than expected. How do you usually respond?
  • I treat the wording as evidence of how my partner feels and react accordingly.
  • I avoid the subject and hope the uneasy feeling passes.
  • I ask what they meant, though I may begin by explaining why it upset me.
  • I seek context in a suitable format and describe my reaction without declaring their intent.