Do I Hate My Boyfriend Quiz
In 10 minutes, clarify whether resentment, emotional distance, or doubt is driving your feelings. Free 15 questions, no sign-up, with three score summaries and a safety-first reminder.
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Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
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Accumulated Resentment (AR)
Accumulated Resentment (AR)
Average
5.5
Normal range
3.2 — 7.9
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15
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Commitment and Repair Doubt (CaRD)
Commitment and Repair Doubt (CaRD)
Average
9.4
Normal range
7.4 — 11.3
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15
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Emotional Disconnection (ED)
Emotional Disconnection (ED)
Average
7.9
Normal range
5.6 — 10.2
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- I would clearly want to remain in the relationship.
- I would probably want to stay, while watching whether the improvement lasts.
- I would still be uncertain about whether the relationship fits me.
- I would still want the relationship to end.
- Affection usually feels natural and welcome.
- My response varies with mood, timing, and recent interactions.
- I often participate mainly because it seems expected.
- I regularly recoil, tense up, or look for a way to avoid the contact.
- I feel concern and want to understand what he is experiencing.
- I care, although my available attention depends on my own energy.
- I respond supportively on the surface but feel mostly detached inside.
- His need for support feels intrusive, and I resent being asked to engage.
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Do I Hate My Boyfriend Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
Wondering whether you hate your boyfriend may point to resentment, emotional distance, relationship doubt, or a difficult mix of all three. This free 15-question reflection quiz explores those patterns separately and offers three score-based summaries. It cannot diagnose your feelings, judge your partner, or decide whether you should stay or leave. No sign-up is needed. If the relationship involves fear, coercion, threats, or violence, prioritize safety and contact a trusted person, a local support service, or emergency help if danger is immediate.
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