Do I Hate My Boyfriend Quiz

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July 22, 2026
July 22, 2026
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8/NaN
Accumulated Resentment (AR)
Measures how much unresolved hurt or perceived imbalance is building into ongoing resentment in the relationship.
Limited buildup
Resentment accumulating
Resentment dominating
0NaNLimited buildup6NaNResentment accumulating11NaNResentment dominating
A score of 8 suggests resentment is accumulating, meaning past issues may be influencing how you react in the present even if the current situation is minor.
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12/15
Commitment and Repair Doubt (CaRD)
Measures how strongly you doubt continuing the relationship versus feeling motivated to commit and try repair.
Repair orientation
Genuine ambivalence
Strong continuation doubt
05Repair orientation610Genuine ambivalence1115Strong continuation doubt
A score of 12 falls in Strong continuation doubt, suggesting you currently have limited interest in repair or often imagine leaving, and may benefit from clarifying your options and needed changes.
example score
9/NaN
Emotional Disconnection (ED)
Emotional Disconnection measures how consistently emotionally close versus detached you feel in your relationship right now.
Connection available
Uneven connection
Strong disconnection
0NaNConnection available6NaNUneven connection11NaNStrong disconnection
A score of 9 falls in the Uneven connection range, suggesting emotional closeness may feel inconsistent or effortful and may fluctuate depending on context.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Resentment After Repeats
41%OF USERS
They feel irritated and drained by the same arguments or broken promises and want to know if it’s normal frustration or deeper dislike.
Emotionally Checked Out
34%OF USERS
They notice numbness, avoidance, or less affection and take the quiz to see whether they’ve emotionally detached from the relationship.
Guilt and Mixed Feelings
25%OF USERS
They still care about their boyfriend but feel angry or disappointed and want clarity on why their feelings seem contradictory.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Accumulated Resentment (AR)
Average
5.5
Normal range
3.27.9
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Commitment and Repair Doubt (CaRD)
Average
9.4
Normal range
7.411.3
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Emotional Disconnection (ED)
Average
7.9
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5.610.2
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Frequently Asked Questions

What does this quiz measure?
It screens for patterns often linked to resentment, emotional distance, and relationship doubt. Results summarize which pattern appears most prominent based on responses.
How should items be answered?
Answer based on typical experiences in the current relationship, not a single event. Select the option that fits best, even if none fits perfectly.
How long does it take and how many questions are included?
The quiz has 15 questions and usually takes about 10 minutes to complete.
What do the scores mean?
Scores provide three brief summaries that reflect different clusters of reactions rather than a definitive conclusion. They are not a diagnosis and cannot determine whether to stay or leave.
What if the relationship involves fear, threats, coercion, or violence?
Treat safety as the priority and seek support from a trusted person or a local service. If immediate danger is present, contact emergency help.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
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Do I Hate My Boyfriend Quiz - Symptoms and Signs

Wondering whether you hate your boyfriend may point to resentment, emotional distance, relationship doubt, or a difficult mix of all three. This free 15-question reflection quiz explores those patterns separately and offers three score-based summaries. It cannot diagnose your feelings, judge your partner, or decide whether you should stay or leave. No sign-up is needed. If the relationship involves fear, coercion, threats, or violence, prioritize safety and contact a trusted person, a local support service, or emergency help if danger is immediate.

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