Is He the One Quiz

Example Questions From the Test

• 1You become absorbed in a personal goal that matters to you but does not directly involve him. How does he tend to respond?
  • He supports the goal while maintaining his own interests and needs.
  • He is encouraging, though he sometimes needs reassurance about the time it takes.
  • He accepts it but shows limited interest or becomes noticeably distant.
  • I tend to reduce or hide my ambitions to prevent strain between us.
• 2How aligned are your understandings of commitment in this relationship?
  • We have discussed what commitment means and our expectations are closely aligned.
  • We seem to want similar commitment, but much of that understanding is assumed.
  • One or both of us tends to postpone defining what we expect.
  • We want clearly different levels or forms of commitment.
• 3How well do your views align on major family choices, such as children, caregiving, or the role of extended family?
  • We are both still exploring these choices and can do so openly without forcing an answer.
  • We know we want incompatible things on at least one non-negotiable family issue.
  • We have compatible preferences and understand what they could require in practice.
  • The topic has surfaced, but one or both of us avoids making our position clear.