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Am I Obsessive Quiz

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In 10 minutes, learn whether your feelings for someone are becoming intrusive or disruptive. Free 15 questions, no sign-up, with reflective results and a safety note if anyone is in danger.
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July 22, 2026
July 22, 2026
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How the Scales are Structured

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6/15
Boundaries and Control (BaC)
Measures the extent to which your behavior or urges reflect pressure, monitoring, intrusion, or difficulty respecting another person’s boundaries.
Not endorsed
Worth addressing
Action warranted
0: Not endorsed | 12: Worth addressing | 315: Action warranted
A score of 6 falls in the “Action warranted” range, suggesting repeated boundary-crossing or controlling tendencies that are meaningfully impacting how you relate to the other person.
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11/15
Daily Wellbeing Impact (DWI)
Measures how much intrusive romantic thoughts or behaviors are affecting daily functioning and emotional stability.
Not endorsed
Worth noticing
Action warranted
0: Not endorsed | 12: Worth noticing | 315: Action warranted
A score of 11 falls in the “Action warranted” range, suggesting a substantial impact on daily life or the presence of a notable red-flag experience, independent of the total.
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12/15
Intrusive Romantic Preoccupation (IRP)
Measures how often romantic thoughts about someone feel intrusive, hard to control, or disruptive to daily functioning and boundaries.
Not endorsed here
Worth noticing
Action warranted
0: Not endorsed here | 12: Worth noticing | 315: Action warranted
A score of 12 falls in the “Action warranted” range, suggesting persistent or disruptive intrusive preoccupation (or a red-flag response) that may be impacting your focus, routines, or ability to step back from triggers.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Stuck on someone
41%OF USERS
People who can’t stop thinking about a specific person and want to know if it’s normal crush energy or something that’s starting to interfere with their life.
New relationship spirals
34%OF USERS
People dating or reconnecting who notice intense longing, overanalyzing messages, or jealousy and want a reality check on their behavior.
Concerned about boundaries
25%OF USERS
People worried they’re crossing lines—checking up, reaching out too much, or feeling entitled to attention—and want to reflect before it harms anyone.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Boundaries and Control (BaC)
Boundaries and Control (BaC)
Average
9.3
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6.811.8
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Daily Wellbeing Impact (DWI)
Daily Wellbeing Impact (DWI)
Average
8.3
Normal range
6.310.3
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15
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Intrusive Romantic Preoccupation (IRP)
Intrusive Romantic Preoccupation (IRP)
Average
3.8
Normal range
1.16.6
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS

Example Questions From the Test

    • I describe my feelings without trying to make their choices for them.
    • I repeatedly ask them to change a harmless plan to ease my jealousy.
    • I pressure them to reduce contact, change clothing, or report their activities to me.
    • I intimidate, physically block, restrain, or punish them for making their own choice.
    • I can tolerate the uncertainty without repeatedly reviewing it.
    • I replay a conversation longer than I want to.
    • I repeatedly search for signs or ask others for reassurance.
    • I feel unable to settle until I have certainty, even after receiving reassurance.
    • I continue meeting my important responsibilities.
    • I delay minor tasks because I am thinking, checking, or waiting.
    • I miss deadlines, classes, shifts, or essential duties because of it.
    • My job, education, housing, or another essential responsibility has been seriously jeopardized.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
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Am I Obsessive Quiz - Symptoms and Signs

This free 15-question romantic desire self-check explores whether thoughts about someone feel intrusive, affect your daily life, or lead to difficulty respecting boundaries. It cannot diagnose obsession, OCD, or any mental health condition, and its score bands are reflective rather than clinical or legal cutoffs. No sign-up is needed. If you feel at risk of harming yourself or someone else, or another person may be in immediate danger, contact local emergency services or a crisis resource now.

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