Should I Call Off My Wedding Quiz
In 10 minutes, get clarity on whether to move forward, pause, or rethink your wedding. It covers safety, trust, repair after conflict, and shared future goals in 15 free questions.
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Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Commitment to the Shared Future (CttSF)
Commitment to the Shared Future (CttSF)
Average
5
Normal range
2.9 — 7.2
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15
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Safety and Freedom to Choose (SaFtC)
Safety and Freedom to Choose (SaFtC)
Average
6.8
Normal range
4.1 — 9.5
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15
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Trust and Conflict Repair (TaCR)
Trust and Conflict Repair (TaCR)
Average
8.2
Normal range
5.6 — 10.8
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- I can say no, and disagreement does not lead to punishment or retaliation.
- I can say no, but I sometimes face guilt, sulking, or repeated pressure afterward.
- Saying no can lead to monitoring, financial consequences, isolation, or intimidation.
- I have been threatened, restrained, hit, injured, or prevented from leaving after saying no.
- It feels like my own choice, including the option to postpone or cancel.
- It is mostly my choice, though disappointing people weighs heavily on me.
- Financial, family, cultural, housing, or immigration consequences make postponing feel extremely difficult.
- Someone has used threats, force, blackmail, or threats of self-harm to make me proceed.
- I could arrange space and contact supportive people without needing permission.
- I could go, but I would expect intense questioning, guilt, or repeated messages.
- Access to money, transport, documents, or supportive people could be restricted.
- I believe someone might block me, follow me, confine me, or hurt me if I tried to leave.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment
Should I Call Off My Wedding Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
This free, no-sign-up 15-question reflection can help you examine whether to proceed, postpone, or reconsider your wedding. It looks separately at safety and freedom, trust and conflict repair, and commitment to a shared future. It cannot decide for you or predict your marriage, and its score bands are not clinical or legal cutoffs. If anyone is threatening, forcing, restraining, or hurting you, prioritize immediate safety and contact emergency services, a local relationship-abuse service, or a trusted person. Harm or pressure can come from a partner, relative, friend, or peer.
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