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Was I Abused as a Child Quiz

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With 15 questions, the Was I Abused as a Child Quiz takes about 10 minutes to complete. It helps you reflect on experiences involving emotional care, physical safety, sexual boundaries, and coercion, then highlights areas that may deserve attention, support, or further personal understanding.
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How the Scales are Structured

Emotional Control and Unmet CareECaUC
This scale reflects endorsed experiences related to emotional control, coercion, or significant unmet care needs during childhood.
example score12/15
12/15Act on the concernexample score
0No items selected
1 – 2Worth exploring
3 – 15Act on the concern
A score of 12 falls in the “Act on the concern” range, indicating multiple endorsed experiences related to emotional control or unmet care that may warrant further reflection and support.
Physical Force and SafetyPFaS
Assesses endorsed experiences involving physical force, threats, restraint, or feeling unsafe during childhood interactions with adults or peers.
example score7/15
7/15Act on concernexample score
0None endorsed
1 – 2Worth exploring
3 – 15Act on concern
A score of 7 falls in the "Act on concern" range, indicating multiple physical-safety concerns were endorsed and merit attention regardless of the total.
Sexual BoundariesSB
Assesses whether any childhood experiences suggest concerns about sexual boundaries or safety with adults or peers.
example score6/15
6/15Act on the concernexample score
0No experiences endorsed
1 – 2Worth exploring
3 – 15Act on the concern
A score of 6 falls in the “Act on the concern” range, meaning multiple sexual-boundary concerns were endorsed on these items and may warrant supportive follow-up.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Healing and making sense
41%OF USERS
Adults noticing anxiety, shame, dissociation, or relationship patterns use it to reflect on whether early boundary violations, control, or neglect may have played a role.
Unclear memories, big questions
34%OF USERS
People with gaps in childhood memories or confusing “not sure if it counts” experiences take it to organize what happened and validate their feelings.
Supporting someone close
25%OF USERS
Partners, friends, or caregivers use it to understand signs of childhood trauma and approach sensitive conversations with more care.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Shaded area — where most people score
Dot — the average
You — your score lands on each curve after the test— your score, after the test
Emotional Control and Unmet CareECaUC
You?
Average6.4
Typical rangeTypical4.3 – 8.4
Possible0 – 15
Physical Force and SafetyPFaS
You?
Average6.2
Typical rangeTypical4.2 – 8.1
Possible0 – 15
Sexual BoundariesSB
You?
Average5.9
Typical rangeTypical3.6 – 8.2
Possible0 – 15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS

Example Questions From the Test

    • Discipline did not involve pain, dangerous exertion, or withholding basic bodily needs.
    • A punishment sometimes caused avoidable physical discomfort that felt excessive.
    • I was repeatedly made to hold painful positions, perform exhausting tasks, or go without sleep, food, water, or bathroom access.
    • A punishment caused injury, collapse, serious deprivation, or an immediate threat to my physical safety.
    • Someone requested or shared sexual material in a way that felt inappropriate, but stopped when I declined.
    • Someone pressured me repeatedly to view, make, send, or keep sexual material secret.
    • Nothing sexual involving pictures, recordings, messages, or secrecy was requested of me.
    • Someone coerced, threatened, exploited, or secretly recorded me in connection with sexual material.
    • An older or more powerful person introduced it as a game or request that left me uncertain or uncomfortable.
    • No one expected or asked this of me.
    • Someone pressured me through guilt, persistence, rewards, or misuse of trust.
    • Someone used force, threats, blackmail, authority, or fear of harm to make me do it.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES

Was I Abused as a Child Quiz - Description and methodology of the test

For adults and older teens revisiting confusing childhood experiences, this childhood experiences assessment offers a structured way to examine safety, care, boundaries, and coercion. The Was I Abused as a Child Quiz organizes memories without forcing an immediate label. Its sexual-boundary questions address pressure, secrecy, sexual material, and unwanted contact while keeping emotional and physical context visible.

What This Assessment Explores

Questions cover controlling care, unmet emotional support, painful discipline, deprivation, threats, peer harm, sexualized material, secrecy, pressure, and unwanted contact involving adults or powerful peers. An emotional care assessment considers caregiver responses, without reducing the instrument to parental abuse.

The result organizes the material into three displayed dimensions:

  • Emotional Control and Unmet Care (0-15) measures unmet emotional care or controlling/coercive responses: No items selected (0), Worth exploring (1-2), Act on the concern (3-15).
  • Physical Force and Safety (0-15) measures harmful force or inadequate protection: None endorsed (0), Worth exploring (1-2), Act on concern (3-15).
  • Sexual Boundaries (0-15) measures sexualized exposure or boundary violations: No experiences endorsed (0), Worth exploring (1-2), Act on the concern (3-15).

Rather than giving a childhood verdict, the questionnaire narrows concerns into care, safety, and boundary dimensions; a zero means only that listed experiences were not endorsed.

Methodology and Scientific Basis

This structured self-report uses response descriptions ranging from appropriate care or no relevant experience through uncertainty, pressure, coercion, danger, or harm. The respondent chooses wording closest to memory, and answers are grouped into displayed dimensions. Because point contributions are not stated, ranges should not be reverse-engineered into severity.

Sexual-boundary items address unwanted touching, sexualisation, pressure, secrecy, and coercion. This sexual boundary assessment considers those experiences without reducing the result to one label.

CECA.Q is the closest conceptual comparison for combined childhood care and abuse themes; this questionnaire is conceptually consistent with those domains, not an adaptation of it. The broader Juvenile Victimization Questionnaire and Childhood Trauma Questionnaire organize related victimization and adversity domains. These published instruments are comparison frameworks, not evidence of standardized administration or validation for this online questionnaire.

The bands are unvalidated reflective summaries, not clinical or legal cutoffs, and the questionnaire cannot confirm or rule out abuse. Memory gaps, current distress, family context, self-awareness, and response bias can affect self-report; a single red-flag response overrides the total and warrants qualified support or an appropriate protection service.

Literature:
  • Finkelhor, D., Hamby, S. L., Ormrod, R., & Turner, H. (2005). The Juvenile Victimization Questionnaire: Reliability, validity, and national norms. Child Abuse & Neglect, 29(4), 383-412. 10.1016/j.chiabu.2004.11.001
  • Bernstein, D. P., Stein, J. A., Newcomb, M. D., Walker, E., Pogge, D., Ahluvalia, T., Stokes, J., Handelsman, L., Medrano, M., Desmond, D., & Zule, W. (2003). Development and validation of a brief screening version of the Childhood Trauma Questionnaire. Child Abuse & Neglect, 27(2), 169-190. 10.1016/S0145-2134(02)00541-0
  • Bifulco, A., Bernazzani, O., Moran, P. M., & Jacobs, C. (2005). The childhood experience of care and abuse questionnaire (CECA.Q): Validation in a community series. British Journal of Clinical Psychology, 44(4), 563-581. 10.1348/014466505X35344

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