Was I Abused as a Child Quiz
Understand childhood safety, boundaries, and unmet care in about 10 minutes. Free, no sign-up, 15 questions that support clear reflection and next steps if concerns come up.


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Emotional Control and Unmet Care (ECaUC)
Emotional Control and Unmet Care (ECaUC)
Average
6.4
Normal range
4.3 — 8.4
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15
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Physical Force and Safety (PFaS)
Physical Force and Safety (PFaS)
Average
6.2
Normal range
4.2 — 8.1
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15
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Sexual Boundaries (SB)
Sexual Boundaries (SB)
Average
5.9
Normal range
3.6 — 8.2
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- Discipline did not involve pain, dangerous exertion, or withholding basic bodily needs.
- A punishment sometimes caused avoidable physical discomfort that felt excessive.
- I was repeatedly made to hold painful positions, perform exhausting tasks, or go without sleep, food, water, or bathroom access.
- A punishment caused injury, collapse, serious deprivation, or an immediate threat to my physical safety.
- Someone requested or shared sexual material in a way that felt inappropriate, but stopped when I declined.
- Someone pressured me repeatedly to view, make, send, or keep sexual material secret.
- Nothing sexual involving pictures, recordings, messages, or secrecy was requested of me.
- Someone coerced, threatened, exploited, or secretly recorded me in connection with sexual material.
- An older or more powerful person introduced it as a game or request that left me uncertain or uncomfortable.
- No one expected or asked this of me.
- Someone pressured me through guilt, persistence, rewards, or misuse of trust.
- Someone used force, threats, blackmail, authority, or fear of harm to make me do it.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment
Was I Abused as a Child Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
This free, no-sign-up self-check supports reflection on childhood sexual boundaries, physical safety, emotional control, and unmet care. This quiz is not a diagnostic tool: it cannot confirm or rule out abuse or provide a clinical, severity, or legal conclusion. Harm can involve adults or peers. Poverty, unavailable care, disability, culture, and family crisis can affect neglect-like experiences without erasing their impact. Consider a trusted person or trauma-informed professional if anything concerns you. If you or a child may be in immediate danger, contact local emergency or child-protection services.
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