Gottman Relationship Quiz
Understand your relationship in 10 minutes with 15 research-informed questions on connection, conflict, and trust. Get clear scores fast, free and no sign-up, for helpful reflection not diagnosis.
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BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Conflict and Repair (CaR)
Average
11
Normal range
8.1 — 13.8
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15
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Emotional Connection and Friendship (ECaF)
Average
4.5
Normal range
2.6 — 6.5
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15
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Trust and Shared Meaning (TaSM)
Average
10.7
Normal range
8.2 — 13.3
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15
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Once you complete the test, your result will appear on the scale so you can see how you compare.
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CLEAR ANSWERS TO COMMON QUESTIONS
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the purpose of this quiz?
It supports structured reflection on relationship patterns using 15 questions informed by widely discussed research principles. It provides summary scores to guide discussion and self-review.
What areas are scored?
Results include separate scores for emotional connection, conflict and repair, and trust and shared meaning. Scores summarize responses and do not diagnose relationship health.
How long does it take and how many questions are included?
Estimated completion time is about 10 minutes. The quiz includes 15 questions.
Is this a clinical assessment or professional advice?
No; it is a reflective tool and not a clinical assessment. For mental health or relationship concerns, consult a qualified professional.
What should be done if the relationship involves fear, coercion, threats, or violence?
Do not use results to manage immediate risk or safety concerns. Prioritize safety and seek trusted support or specialist services.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment
Gottman Relationship Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
Reflect on your relationship through 15 original questions informed by widely discussed principles from Gottman relationship research. You will receive separate scores for emotional connection, conflict and repair, and trust and shared meaning. This free, independent quiz is not affiliated with or endorsed by the Gottman Institute, and no sign-up is needed. It is a reflective tool, not a clinical assessment. If your relationship involves fear, coercion, threats, or violence, prioritize safety and seek trusted or specialist support.
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