Do I Have Commitment Issues Quiz
Understand whether relationship hesitation reflects commitment concerns or your situation in 10 minutes. Get three clear scores to spot patterns and guide next steps without judgment or diagnosis.
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Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Emotional Closeness (EC)
Emotional Closeness (EC)
Average
4.4
Normal range
2.1 — 6.6
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15
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Future Investment (FI)
Future Investment (FI)
Average
10.5
Normal range
8.3 — 12.6
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15
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Staying Engaged Through Discomfort (SETD)
Staying Engaged Through Discomfort (SETD)
Average
10.4
Normal range
7.6 — 13.1
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- I focus heavily on it until my attraction and investment begin to fade.
- I decide the imperfection means I chose the wrong person and look for an exit.
- I assess whether it is manageable, discuss it if needed, and keep the larger relationship in view.
- I feel disappointed at first but give myself time to see how important it really is.
- I want substantial distance and may start searching for reasons the relationship will fail.
- I maintain normal contact and let the connection develop naturally.
- I take some solo time while remaining warm and clear about it.
- I become noticeably less available without explaining why.
- I decline mainly because putting it on the calendar feels too binding.
- I consider practical details and make a straightforward decision.
- I agree, but the distant date makes me mildly uneasy for a while.
- I treat the invitation as a threat to my freedom and reconsider the whole relationship.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment
Do I Have Commitment Issues Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
Wondering whether hesitation in relationships reflects commitment concerns or simply your circumstances? This free 15-question quiz explores how you respond to emotional closeness, future planning, relationship definition, conflict, and routine. Your three scores offer a structured reflection on patterns—not a diagnosis, validated screening result, or judgment about whether you should stay in any relationship. Consider safety, compatibility, culture, and timing too. If these patterns repeatedly cause distress, a licensed therapist or relationship specialist can help you explore them.
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