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Does My Boyfriend Love Me Quiz

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For a clearer look at your relationship patterns, the Does My Boyfriend Love Me Quiz takes about 10 minutes and includes 84 questions. Your result explores care, emotional responsiveness, commitment, respect, and safety, offering a structured starting point for self-reflection and more focused conversations about what you need.
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How the Scales are Structured

Care & CommitmentC&C
Measures how consistently your boyfriend shows care, prioritizes the relationship, and follows through with time, effort, and reliability.
example score18/30
18/30Mixed signalsexample score
0 – 10Inconsistent
11 – 20Mixed signals
21 – 30Consistent commitment
A score of 18 suggests moderate care and commitment, with some reliable effort but noticeable inconsistency or follow-through gaps at times.
Emotional AvailabilityEA
Measures how open, empathetic, and willing he is to engage in feelings-and-needs conversations, especially during stress or conflict.
example score19/30
19/30Moderate availabilityexample score
0 – 14Low availability
15 – 22Moderate availability
23 – 30High availability
A score of 19 suggests moderate emotional availability, meaning he may be supportive at times but can also be inconsistent or hesitant in deeper emotional conversations under pressure.
Respect & SafetyR&S
Measures how consistently the relationship feels respectful and emotionally safe, including boundaries, fairness in conflict, and absence of controlling or dismissive behavior.
example score28/30
28/30Respectful & Safeexample score
0 – 14Red Flags
15 – 23Mixed/Watchouts
24 – 30Respectful & Safe
A score of 28 suggests you generally experience strong respect for your boundaries and a reliable sense of emotional safety, with few signs of controlling or belittling dynamics.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Feeling Uncertain Lately
44%OF USERS
People noticing mixed signals or inconsistency want clarity on whether his actions match his words and what to ask next.
New or Defining Relationship
33%OF USERS
People early in dating or about to become exclusive use the quiz to gauge emotional availability, effort, and long-term intent.
After Conflict or Distance
23%OF USERS
People coming off a fight, stressful period, or emotional pullback take it to sort out red flags versus normal rough patches and plan a conversation.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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See How You Compare

Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Shaded area — where most people score
Dot — the average
You — your score lands on each curve after the test— your score, after the test
Care & CommitmentC&C
You?
Average8.5
Typical rangeTypical3.1 – 13.9
Possible0 – 30
Emotional AvailabilityEA
You?
Average12.8
Typical rangeTypical7.6 – 18
Possible0 – 30
Respect & SafetyR&S
You?
Average12.9
Typical rangeTypical8.4 – 17.4
Possible0 – 30
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS

Example Questions From the Test

    • Strongly disagree
    • Disagree
    • Not sure
    • Agree
    • Strongly disagree
    • Disagree
    • Not sure
    • Agree
    • Strongly disagree
    • Disagree
    • Not sure
    • Agree
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES

Does My Boyfriend Love Me Quiz - Description and methodology of the test

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People who are uncertain whether a partner’s affection is reflected in everyday conduct may use the Does My Boyfriend Love Me Quiz to examine recurring patterns. It works as a boyfriend love quiz with a broader focus, considering effort, emotional responsiveness, communication, boundaries, and safety across the relationship rather than isolated moments.

What This Assessment Explores

The questionnaire looks at whether affection appears in dependable action, emotional presence, and respectful treatment. Statements address planning, follow-through, listening in conflict, emotional sharing, responses to distress, acceptance of space, and boundaries. The result from this boyfriend relationship quiz summarizes recurring relationship behavior across these situations, rather than treating one reassuring moment as decisive.

The three displayed dimensions are:

  • Care & Commitment (0-30) measures care, prioritization, time, effort, and reliability: Inconsistent (0-10), Mixed signals (11-20), or Consistent commitment (21-30).
  • Emotional Availability (0-30) measures openness, empathy, and engagement with feelings: Low availability (0-14), Moderate availability (15-22), or High availability (23-30).
  • Respect & Safety (0-30) measures boundaries, fairness, and supportive versus controlling treatment: Red Flags (0-14), Mixed/Watchouts (15-23), or Respectful & Safe (24-30).

Methodology and Scientific Basis

The statements shown are concrete descriptions of observable behavior, answered with Strongly disagree, Disagree, Not sure, or Agree. This format asks the respondent to judge recurring interactions rather than make a binary decision about love. Answers from this relationship patterns quiz are most informative when they reflect typical relationship patterns and repeated interactions rather than one unusually good or difficult week.

Responses are combined into the three dimensions. Because no point-by-point scoring formula is stated, interpret each result through its definition and displayed band rather than reverse-engineering the answer choices.

Conceptually, the questionnaire is consistent with work by Crasta et al. (2021), which examines responsiveness and insensitivity in close relationships. Its attention to harmful interaction patterns also relates to Murphy and Hoover (1999). These links do not make this questionnaire an adaptation of those instruments.

The displayed bands are descriptive, and the cited published instruments do not establish norms or clinical thresholds for this online questionnaire; scores may also shift with mood, recent conflict, memory, expectations, or openness. Use the profile to discuss needs, boundaries, and repair, especially when dimensions diverge.

Literature:
  • Crasta, D., Rogge, R. D., Maniaci, M. R., & Reis, H. T. (2021). Toward an optimized measure of perceived partner responsiveness: Development and validation of the perceived responsiveness and insensitivity scale. Psychological Assessment, 33(4), 338-355. 10.1037/pas0000986
  • Murphy, C. M., & Hoover, S. A. (1999). Measuring emotional abuse in dating relationships as a multifactorial construct. Violence and Victims, 14(1), 39-53. 10.1891/0886-6708.14.1.39
  • Hendrick, S. S. (1988). A generic measure of relationship satisfaction. Journal of Marriage and the Family, 50(1), 93-98. 10.2307/352430

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