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Do I Have a Crush on My Friend Quiz

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In about 10 minutes, the Do I Have a Crush on My Friend Quiz presents 77 questions about your feelings toward a friend. Your result highlights emotional intimacy, jealousy and preoccupation, and romantic attraction, supporting thoughtful self-reflection about whether the connection feels platonic, deeply close, or crush-like.
Questions: 7710 minutes
Do I Have a Crush: sample question card
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How the Scales are Structured

Emotional IntimacyEI
Measures how emotionally bonded and attached you feel to your friend, including desire for closeness, sharing feelings, and feeling uniquely understood.
example score14/30
14/30Growing closenessexample score
0 – 10Casual connection
11 – 20Growing closeness
21 – 30Deep emotional bond
A score of 14 falls in the Growing closeness range, suggesting a meaningful emotional connection that could reflect a strong friendship and may also align with emerging romantic interest.
Jealousy & PreoccupationJ&P
This scale measures how much you ruminate about your friend and feel uneasy or competitive when they spend time with others.
example score14/30
14/30Moderateexample score
0 – 10Low
11 – 20Moderate
21 – 30High
A score of 14 falls in the Moderate range, suggesting occasional preoccupation or jealousy that shows up in certain situations but isn’t constant.
Romantic AttractionRA
Measures the strength of romantic or physical attraction you feel toward your friend, such as wanting to date them or imagining romantic moments.
example score5/30
5/30Mostly Platonicexample score
0 – 10Mostly Platonic
11 – 20Some Romantic Interest
21 – 30Strong Crush-Like Attraction
A score of 5 suggests your feelings toward this friend are mostly platonic, with little romantic or physical pull right now.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Best friends feeling different
41%OF USERS
They’ve started thinking about their friend romantically and want to know if the butterflies and daydreaming mean something real.
Jealousy and mixed signals
34%OF USERS
They feel weirdly jealous or protective and are trying to figure out whether it’s attraction, insecurity, or just closeness.
Afraid to risk friendship
25%OF USERS
They suspect a crush but worry about awkwardness or losing the friendship, so they want low-pressure clarity and next steps.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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See How You Compare

Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Shaded area — where most people score
Dot — the average
You — your score lands on each curve after the test— your score, after the test
Emotional IntimacyEI
You?
Average12.5
Typical rangeTypical7.6 – 17.5
Possible0 – 30
Jealousy & PreoccupationJ&P
You?
Average21.8
Typical rangeTypical18 – 25.6
Possible0 – 30
Romantic AttractionRA
You?
Average17.4
Typical rangeTypical12.5 – 22.2
Possible0 – 30
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS

Example Questions From the Test

    • Strongly disagree
    • Disagree
    • Not sure
    • Agree
    • Strongly disagree
    • Disagree
    • Not sure
    • Agree
    • Strongly disagree
    • Disagree
    • Not sure
    • Agree
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES

Do I Have a Crush on My Friend Quiz - Description and methodology of the test

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People drawn to a friend can use the Do I Have a Crush on My Friend Quiz to organize signals without forcing a label. It is intended for personal reflection when affection, closeness, jealousy, and daydreaming overlap. The questionnaire can turn vague reactions into areas to consider when you have a crush on a friend. The result separates emotional bonding from romantic interest, giving you a clearer starting point.

What This Assessment Explores

Closeness does not automatically mean romance, so the questionnaire separates experiences that can overlap. It suits anyone considering whether a friendship feels platonic, emotionally intense, or potentially romantic. The result offers a profile rather than a single yes-or-no verdict.

The displayed scales capture these dimensions:

  • Emotional Intimacy (0-30) measures emotional bonding and attachment: Casual connection (0-10), Growing closeness (11-20), Deep emotional bond (21-30).
  • Jealousy & Preoccupation (0-30) measures fixation and reactions to competition: Low (0-10), Moderate (11-20), High (21-30).
  • Romantic Attraction (0-30) measures romantic or physical pull: Mostly Platonic (0-10), Some Romantic Interest (11-20), Strong Crush-Like Attraction (21-30).

Together, the profile addresses the question behind this do i like my friend quiz: whether you feel romantic interest, friendship-based closeness, or a mixture. High intimacy can still describe friendship alone.

Methodology and Scientific Basis

The demonstrated statements use four response options: Strongly disagree, Disagree, Not sure, and Agree. Items sample reading into tone, imagining couple-like activities, noticing physical closeness, monitoring dating situations, replaying interactions, and wanting one-to-one time. The result presents three scale scores.

This format lets you judge each situation and compare patterns across dimensions. It can show strong closeness with little romantic pull or attraction with preoccupation, while helping sort romantic feelings for a friend.

Reeder (2000) is the closest conceptual reference because it examined attraction within cross-sex friendship. Hatfield and Sprecher's passionate-love measure helps frame intensity and preoccupation, while Aron, Aron, and Smollan's closeness model offers a conceptual reference for perceived closeness without validating this questionnaire's separation of bonding and romance. The questionnaire is conceptually consistent with these works, not a direct adaptation or validation of them.

Read scores as structured self-reflection because circumstances and honesty can influence answers; the profile has no stated diagnostic cutoff or population norm. Differing patterns matter more than one area: closeness may be high without romance, while attraction and preoccupation may rise together or diverge.

Literature:
  • Reeder, Heidi M. (2000). 'I Like you... as a Friend': The Role of Attraction in Cross-Sex Friendship. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 17(3), 329-348. DOI 10.1177/0265407500173002
  • Hatfield, Elaine, and Susan Sprecher. (1986). Measuring passionate love in intimate relationships. Journal of Adolescence, 9(4), 383-410. DOI 10.1016/S0140-1971(86)80043-4
  • Aron, Arthur, Elaine N. Aron, and Danny Smollan. (1992). Inclusion of Other in the Self Scale and the structure of interpersonal closeness. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 63(4), 596-612. DOI 10.1037/0022-3514.63.4.596

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