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Psychological Types of Relatives' Reactions to a Loved One's Illness

Psychological Types of Relatives' Reactions to a Loved One's Illness Test

In 5 minutes, see how family members emotionally respond when a loved one is seriously ill. With 25 items, it pinpoints key coping styles to guide support and ease tension.

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October 2, 2025

October 2, 2025
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October 2, 2025
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How the Scales are Structured

example score

54/100

Detachment (D)

Measures the degree to which a relative responds to a loved one’s illness with emotional distance and largely formal, low-involvement support.

Engaged

Somewhat detached

Strongly detached

0 – 43: Engaged | 44 – 63: Somewhat detached | 64 – 100: Strongly detached

A score of 54 falls in the “Somewhat detached” range, suggesting intermittent emotional distancing and a tendency toward more formal or limited involvement in support.

example score

51/100

Harmonious Reaction (HR)

Measures the degree to which a relative maintains a balanced, realistic, and constructive response to a loved one’s illness while combining care with self-care.

Low harmony

Moderate harmony

High harmony

0 – 43: Low harmony | 44 – 63: Moderate harmony | 64 – 100: High harmony

A score of 51 indicates a moderately harmonious reaction, suggesting generally balanced support and realistic appraisal with occasional strain or inconsistency under stress.

example score

80/100

Emotional Reaction (ER)

Measures the intensity of anxiety, worry, uncertainty, guilt, and related emotional strain in response to a loved one’s illness.

Low

Moderate

High

0 – 43: Low | 44 – 73: Moderate | 74 – 100: High

A score of 80 falls in the High range, indicating pronounced emotional tension with elevated worry and guilt that may be accompanied by irritability or fatigue.

example score

34/100

Overprotectiveness (O)

Measures the degree of excessive caregiving and self-sacrificing efforts to shield an ill loved one from difficulties, potentially limiting their independence.

Low

Moderate

High

0 – 33: Low | 34 – 63: Moderate | 64 – 100: High

A score of 34 falls in the Moderate range, suggesting a noticeable tendency toward increased protection and taking on extra responsibility, while not being consistently overinvolved.

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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Worried family caregivers

41%OF USERS

Relatives who are actively helping with treatment and daily care take it to understand their stress reactions and communicate better with the patient.

Anxious close relatives

34%OF USERS

Family members overwhelmed by fear, guilt, or uncertainty use it to name what they’re feeling and find a steadier way to support their loved one.

Counselors and psychologists

25%OF USERS

Professionals working with families in health crises use it to quickly map typical reaction styles and plan more effective guidance.

BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.

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Detachment (D)

Average

45.9

Normal range

33 — 58.8

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100

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Harmonic Reaction (HR)

Average

66.6

Normal range

52.9 — 80.2

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100

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Emotional Reaction (ER)

Average

48.1

Normal range

35.8 — 60.4

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100

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Overprotection (O)

Average

68.4

Normal range

53.2 — 83.7

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100

majority

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What does this questionnaire measure?

It identifies common patterns in how relatives think, feel, and act when a loved one has a serious illness. Results describe reaction styles that may influence communication and support in the family.

Who is this questionnaire intended for?

It is intended for adult relatives or close support persons of someone living with a serious illness. It may also be used by clinicians as part of counseling or family support work.

How should items be answered?

Rate each statement based on typical feelings and behavior during the recent period, not a single event. Use the first response that fits best and avoid overthinking.

How long does it take and how many items are included?

It contains 25 items and typically takes about 5 minutes to complete. Completion time may vary based on reading speed.

How should the results be interpreted?

Scores indicate which reaction style is most prominent and which are secondary. Results are descriptive and should be interpreted alongside clinical context rather than used as a diagnosis.

WHAT THE TEST MEASURES

About This Assessment

Psychological Types of Relatives' Reactions to a Loved One's Illness Test

attitude towards illness

Family responses to serious illness can vary widely in emotional and behavioral patterns. Psychological Types of Relatives' Reactions to a Loved One's Illness is a brief self-report measure designed to characterize common reaction styles when a family member is coping with a significant health condition. It was attributed to Elisabeth Kübler-Ross and Charles S. Carver.

The instrument contains 25 items and typically requires about 5 minutes to complete. Respondents rate feelings and behaviors related to the loved one’s illness; results are intended to support clinical formulation by highlighting predominant coping tendencies (e.g., caregiving orientation, anxiety or fear, distancing, or heightened control) and their potential impact on family communication and support.

In applied settings, Psychological Types of Relatives' Reactions to a Loved One's Illness may be used to guide discussion, identify areas for targeted psychoeducation or counseling, and inform treatment planning aimed at reducing caregiver strain and improving relational functioning during medical stressors. Interpretation should be integrated with clinical interview data and contextual factors such as illness severity, family roles, and current supports.

Author: Charles S. Carver, Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

Literature: Rolland, J. S. Families, illness, and disability: An integrative treatment model. Basic Books. 1987.

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