Relationship Feelings Profile Test

Understand what you truly feel toward someone and why in about 9 minutes. Get clear, nuanced insight to improve communication across dating, family, or work relationships.

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How the Scales are Structured

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23/70

Hedonistic Feelings (HF)

This scale measures the degree of pleasure, joy, and overall satisfaction experienced in the relationship.

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0 – 23: Low | 24 – 46: Moderate | 47 – 70: High

A score of 23 falls in the Low range, suggesting relatively limited pleasure and joy reported in interactions with this person at the moment.

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33/63

Distancing (D)

Measures the degree of emotional numbing and detachment a person experiences toward someone in a relationship.

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Moderate

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0 – 21: Low | 22 – 42: Moderate | 43 – 63: High

A score of 33 falls in the Moderate range, suggesting a noticeable but not pervasive tendency to distance emotionally or feel less engaged in interactions with this person.

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44/63

Affiliative Feelings (AF)

This scale measures the intensity of feelings that motivate seeking emotional closeness, connection, and supportive contact with another person.

Low closeness-seeking

Moderate closeness-seeking

High closeness-seeking

0 – 21: Low closeness-seeking | 22 – 42: Moderate closeness-seeking | 43 – 63: High closeness-seeking

A score of 44 falls in the High closeness-seeking range, suggesting a strong current tendency to move toward the other person for emotional connection and support.

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38/49

Melancholic (M)

Measures the degree of sadness and low mood you experience toward a specific person in your relationship or interaction.

Low

Moderate

High

0 – 16: Low | 17 – 33: Moderate | 34 – 49: High

A score of 38 falls in the High range, suggesting melancholic feelings (sadness or low mood) are relatively prominent in your current experience with this person.

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24/63

Asthenic Feelings (AF)

Measures the degree of low-energy, fatigued, and passive feelings experienced in relation to another person.

Low

Moderate

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0 – 21: Low | 22 – 42: Moderate | 43 – 63: High

A score of 24 falls in the Moderate range, suggesting some tiredness or reduced emotional energy in this relationship while still retaining overall engagement.

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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Couples in a tough spot

41%OF USERS

People in romantic relationships use it to clarify what they truly feel toward their partner during conflict, distance, or big decisions.

Therapy and coaching clients

34%OF USERS

Individuals in counseling take it to map their emotional tone toward someone important and bring clearer material into sessions.

Team and work relationships

25%OF USERS

Professionals use it to understand feelings toward a colleague or manager and adjust communication in high-stakes collaborations.

BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.

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hedonistic (h)

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deleting (d)

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20.8

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bringing closer (bc)

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28.5

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19.8 — 37.2

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melancholic (m)

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asthenic (a)

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CLEAR ANSWERS TO COMMON QUESTIONS

Frequently Asked Questions

What does this questionnaire measure?

It measures current emotions and attitudes toward a specific person. Results summarize the emotional tone and dominant feelings in that relationship.

Who should be selected as the target person?

Select one specific person who is currently important or frequently involved in interaction. Use the same person for all items to keep responses consistent.

What time frame should be used when answering?

Answer based on feelings that are present now or during recent interactions. Avoid relying on early history or rare events unless they affect current feelings.

How should items be answered when multiple feelings are present?

Rate each item as it applies, even if other emotions are also present. Do not try to make answers mutually exclusive.

How long does it take and how many items are included?

It includes 44 items and typically takes about 9 minutes to complete. Completion time may vary with reading speed and reflection.

WHAT THE TEST MEASURES

About This Assessment

Relationship Feelings Profile Test - Symptoms and Signs

communication style

This measure is designed to characterize the emotional tone a person experiences in relation to a specific significant other. The Relationship Feelings Profile is used to obtain a structured snapshot of feelings that are consciously recognized during contact or interaction.

The respondent is asked to consider their relationship with another person and endorse feelings that reflect their current experience. The Relationship Feelings Profile includes 44 items and typically takes about 9 minutes to complete.

Developed by Susan S. Hendrick and Clyde Hendrick, it may be used in clinical, counseling, or organizational contexts to support discussion of dominant emotions, underrepresented feelings, and areas of emotional strain or connection. Results are generally interpreted descriptively to inform case conceptualization and communication-focused intervention planning.

Author: Clyde Hendrick, Susan S. Hendrick

Literature: Reis, H. T., & Shaver, P. R. Intimacy as an interpersonal process. In S. Duck (Ed.), Handbook of personal relationships: Theory, research and interventions. Wiley. 1988.; Hendrick, S. S. A generic measure of relationship satisfaction. Journal of Marriage and the Family. 1988.

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