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Intensive Parenting Attitudes Questionnaire (IPAQ)

Intensive Parenting Attitudes Questionnaire (IPAQ) Test

Understand how strongly you prioritize your child’s needs over your own in just 5 minutes. Get a quick 25 item profile that can flag stress drivers and perfectionism for healthier balance.

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How the Scales are Structured

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12/18

Child-Centeredness (C)

Measures the extent to which a parent prioritizes a child’s needs and interests over other family or personal priorities.

Lower child-first focus

Balanced child focus

Strong child-first focus

3 – 8: Lower child-first focus | 9 – 13: Balanced child focus | 14 – 18: Strong child-first focus

A score of 12 indicates a generally balanced tendency to put the child’s needs first while still allowing space for other priorities.

example score

21/36

Difficulties (D)

Measures the extent to which the parental role is perceived as difficult and requiring substantial effort.

Low difficulty

Moderate difficulty

High difficulty

6 – 17: Low difficulty | 18 – 29: Moderate difficulty | 30 – 36: High difficulty

A score of 21 falls in the Moderate difficulty range, suggesting parenting is experienced as fairly demanding at times but not consistently overwhelming.

example score

12/24

Stimulation (S)

Measures how strongly a parent believes in actively stimulating a child’s cognitive, emotional, and physical development from an early age.

Lower emphasis

Moderate emphasis

High emphasis

4 – 12: Lower emphasis | 13 – 21: Moderate emphasis | 22 – 24: High emphasis

A score of 12 falls in the Lower emphasis range, suggesting a comparatively lower tendency to prioritize structured, active stimulation of the child’s development.

example score

16/24

Satisfaction (S)

Measures how much parenting is experienced as emotionally rewarding and a source of joy and fulfillment.

Lower satisfaction

Moderate satisfaction

High satisfaction

4 – 15: Lower satisfaction | 16 – 21: Moderate satisfaction | 22 – 24: High satisfaction

A score of 16 indicates moderate satisfaction, suggesting parenting is generally rewarding while not consistently experienced as highly fulfilling.

example score

20/48

Essentialism (E)

Measures the extent to which a person believes mothers are naturally uniquely suited for caregiving and primarily responsible for raising the child.

Low

Moderate

High

8 – 17: Low | 18 – 29: Moderate | 30 – 48: High

A score of 20 falls in the Moderate range, suggesting a moderate endorsement of the idea that mothers have a unique natural role and primary responsibility in caregiving.

example score

120/150

Intensive Parenting (IP)

Measures how strongly a parent endorses intensive parenting beliefs that prioritize substantial investment and the child’s needs over their own.

Lower endorsement

Moderate endorsement

High endorsement

25 – 89: Lower endorsement | 90 – 119: Moderate endorsement | 120 – 150: High endorsement

A score of 120 falls in the High endorsement range, suggesting a strong tendency to view parenting as requiring extensive time, energy, and high standards that may place the child’s needs first.

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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Stressed, high-achieving moms

41%OF USERS

Mothers who feel pressure to do everything “right” take it to see whether their standards and self-sacrifice are driving stress or guilt.

New and expecting parents

34%OF USERS

People preparing for a baby or navigating early parenthood use it to check how strongly they believe parenting should be all-consuming.

Counselors and researchers

25%OF USERS

Professionals in family support or studies use it to quickly profile parenting beliefs and connect them to burnout, perfectionism, or wellbeing.

BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.

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Child-Centeredness (C)

Average

9.1

Normal range

7.1 — 11.2

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Difficulties (D)

Average

26.5

Normal range

20.8 — 32.1

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Stimulation (S)

Average

Normal range

15.3 — 20.6

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Satisfaction (S)

Average

18.9

Normal range

15.2 — 22.7

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Essentialism (E)

Average

31.3

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24.1 — 38.4

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Intensive Parenting (IP)

Average

94.2

Normal range

74.2 — 114.3

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150

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CLEAR ANSWERS TO COMMON QUESTIONS

Frequently Asked Questions

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What does this questionnaire measure?

It measures attitudes that reflect an intensive approach to parenting, including high standards, constant involvement, and prioritizing the child’s needs. It focuses on beliefs about effort, responsibility, and personal sacrifice in parenting.

Who is this questionnaire intended for?

It is intended for adults who have a parenting role or who are preparing for one. It may also be used in research settings to study parenting beliefs.

How long does it take and how many items are included?

Completion usually takes about 5 minutes. The questionnaire includes 25 items.

How should items be answered?

Select the response that best reflects typical beliefs, not isolated situations. Answer all items using first impressions rather than extended reflection.

How should results be interpreted?

Scores describe the strength of intensive parenting beliefs and can highlight areas linked to stress or perfectionism. Results are not a clinical diagnosis and should be interpreted in context.

WHAT THE TEST MEASURES

About This Assessment

Intensive Parenting Attitudes Questionnaire (IPAQ) Test

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This measure assesses attitudes consistent with an intensive parenting orientation. The Intensive Parenting Attitudes Questionnaire (IPAQ) is used to describe the extent to which individuals endorse beliefs that parenting should be highly effortful, closely managed, and prioritized over personal needs.

It is a self-report instrument consisting of 25 items and typically requires about 5 minutes to complete. Item responses are used to characterize the degree to which respondents emphasize extensive time, energy, and responsibility in childrearing, which may be relevant for understanding parenting-related expectations and potential sources of stress.

In clinical and research contexts, the Intensive Parenting Attitudes Questionnaire (IPAQ) can support case formulation by clarifying parenting standards and role demands that may influence daily decision-making, emotional burden, and perceived balance between caregiving, personal wellbeing, and work or other responsibilities.

Author: diana-baumrind, eleanor-e-maccoby

Literature: Bornstein, M. H. Handbook of parenting: Volume 3. Being and becoming a parent. Lawrence Erlbaum Associates. 2002.; Belsky, J. The determinants of parenting: A process model. Child Development. 1984.; Liss, M., Schiffrin, H. H., Mackintosh, V. H., Miles-McLean, H., & Erchull, M. J. Development and validation of a quantitative measure of intensive parenting attitudes. Journal of Child and Family Studies. 2013.

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