Trent Relationship Scales, T-RSQ Test - the question form
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1. I find it difficult to depend on others.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Slightly not like me
4 – Neither true nor untrue of me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
2. It is very important to me to feel independent of others.
1 – Not at all true of me
2 – Mostly untrue of me
3 – Somewhat untrue of me
4 – Neither true nor untrue of me
5 – Somewhat true of me
6 – Mostly true of me
7 – Very true of me
3. I find it easy to become emotionally close to people.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
4. I worry that I will get hurt if I let myself get too close to someone.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like me nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
5. I am comfortable without close emotional relationships.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like me nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
6. I want complete emotional closeness with others.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
7. I worry that I will end up alone.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
8. I am comfortable depending on other people.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
9. I find it difficult to trust others completely.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like me nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
10. I am comfortable when others depend on me.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
11. I worry that other people do not value me as much as I value them.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Somewhat not like me
4 – Neither true nor untrue
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
12. It is very important for me to feel self-sufficient.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Somewhat not like me
4 – Neither like me nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
13. I prefer that no one depend on me.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like me nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
14. I feel somewhat uncomfortable with closeness with others.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Somewhat not like me
4 – Neither like me nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
15. I notice that others are reluctant to become as close to me as I would like.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Somewhat not like me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
16. I prefer not to depend on others.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like me nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
17. I worry about whether others will accept me.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Somewhat not like me
4 – Neither like me nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
18. I usually let problems build up before I deal with them.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
19. I would like to spend more time with people close to me, but they do not have enough time for me.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like me nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
20. It takes me a long time to become close to a new person.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
21. I tend to become attached in relationships.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Somewhere in between
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
22. I am too busy to develop close relationships.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Somewhat not like me
4 – Neither like me nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
23. I am usually emotionally expressive in relationships.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
24. I am honest and open in relationships.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Somewhat not like me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
25. I am shy in social situations.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Somewhat not like me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
26. I notice that when I disagree with someone, people become defensive.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Rather unlike me
4 – Somewhere in between
5 – Rather like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
27. I do not share personal information with people close to me.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
28. I find it hard to accept advice from others because their views are too different from mine.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Somewhat not like me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
29. I prefer to resolve conflicts right away, regardless of how long it takes.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Slightly not like me
4 – Somewhere in between
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
30. I usually understand other people’s feelings well.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Somewhat not like me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
31. I can cry easily.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Rather not like me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Rather like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
32. I handle conflicts differently depending on the issue and the people involved.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
33. I do not express my feelings openly because I am afraid others may disagree with me.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
34. I feel that disagreeing or arguing with other people is a waste of time.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like me nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
35. I feel comfortable crying in front of other people.
1 – Not at all true of me
2 – Mostly not true of me
3 – Rather not true of me
4 – Neither true nor untrue of me
5 – Somewhat true of me
6 – Mostly true of me
7 – Very true of me
36. Many of my relationship problems are mostly my fault.
1 – Not at all true of me
2 – Mostly untrue of me
3 – Somewhat untrue of me
4 – Neither true nor untrue of me
5 – Somewhat true of me
6 – Mostly true of me
7 – Very true of me
37. When I am upset, I turn to people close to me for comfort or support.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Somewhat not like me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
38. I do not seek support from others when I am upset because I prefer to deal with my problems on my own.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
39. Although I want to be accepted, I sometimes feel that I do not fit in.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
40. I would like to be more open in relationships, but I do not know how to change in order to do that.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
1. I find it difficult to depend on others.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Somewhat not like me
4 – Neither like me nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
2. It is very important to me to feel independent of others.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Rather unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Rather like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
3. I find it easy to become emotionally close to other people.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Somewhat not like me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
4. I worry that I will get hurt if I let myself get too close to someone.
1 – Not at all true of me
2 – Mostly untrue of me
3 – Somewhat untrue of me
4 – Neither true nor untrue of me
5 – Somewhat true of me
6 – Mostly true of me
7 – Very true of me
5. I am comfortable without close emotional relationships.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like me nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
6. I want complete emotional closeness with others.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Rather not like me
4 – Somewhere in between
5 – Rather like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
7. I worry that I will end up alone.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like me nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
8. I feel comfortable depending on others.
1 – Not at all true of me
2 – Mostly untrue of me
3 – Somewhat untrue of me
4 – Neither true nor untrue of me
5 – Somewhat true of me
6 – Mostly true of me
7 – Very true of me
9. I find it difficult to trust others completely.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
10. I feel comfortable when others depend on me.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Somewhat like me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
11. I worry that other people do not value me as much as I value them.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Somewhat not like me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
12. It is very important for me to feel self-sufficient.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Somewhat not like me
4 – Neither like me nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
13. I prefer that no one depends on me.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Somewhat not like me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
14. I feel somewhat uncomfortable with closeness with others.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Somewhat not like me
4 – Somewhere in between
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
15. I notice that other people are reluctant to get as close to me as I would like.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Somewhat in between
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
16. I prefer not to depend on others.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
17. I worry about whether other people will accept me.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
18. I usually let problems build up before I deal with them.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like me nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
19. I would like to spend more time with people close to me, but they do not have enough time for me.
1 – Not at all true
2 – Mostly untrue
3 – Rather untrue
4 – Somewhat true
5 – Rather true
6 – Mostly true
7 – Very true
20. It takes me a long time to become close to a new person.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
21. I tend to be clingy in relationships.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Rather not like me
4 – Somewhat in between
5 – Rather like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
22. I am too busy to form close relationships.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
23. In relationships, I am usually emotionally expressive.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
24. I am honest and open in my relationships.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
25. I am shy in social situations.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
26. I notice that when I disagree with someone, people become defensive.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
27. I do not share personal information with people close to me.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Somewhat not like me
4 – Somewhere in between
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
28. I find it difficult to accept advice from others because their views are too different from mine.
1 – Not at all true of me
2 – Mostly untrue of me
3 – Somewhat untrue of me
4 – Neither true nor untrue of me
5 – Somewhat true of me
6 – Mostly true of me
7 – Very true of me
29. I prefer to resolve conflicts right away, no matter how long it takes.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Rather not like me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
30. I usually understand other people’s feelings well.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Somewhat not like me
4 – Neither like me nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
31. I can cry easily.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
32. I handle conflict differently depending on the issue and the people involved.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
33. I do not express my feelings openly because I am afraid others may disagree with me.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Somewhat not like me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
34. I feel that disagreeing or arguing with other people is a waste of time.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Slightly not like me
4 – Neither like me nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
35. I feel comfortable crying in front of other people.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like me nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
36. Many of my relationship problems are mostly my fault.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
37. When I am upset, I turn to people close to me for comfort or support.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
38. I do not seek support from others when I am upset because I prefer to deal with my problems on my own.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
39. Although I want to be accepted, I sometimes feel that I do not fit in.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Slightly not like me
4 – Neither like me nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
40. I would like to be more open in relationships, but I do not know how to change to do that.
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly unlike me
3 – Somewhat unlike me
4 – Neither like nor unlike me
5 – Somewhat like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me