Social and Emotional Loneliness Scale, SELSA-S Test - the question form
Questions: 19 · 4 minutes
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1. I feel lonely in my family.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
2. I feel like part of a group of friends.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
3. I have a romantic partner with whom I share my most intimate thoughts and feelings.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
4. There is no one in my family I can count on when I need help and support, but I would like there to be.
Disagree
Rather disagree
Not sure
Rather agree
Agree
5. My friends understand my motives and the way I think.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
6. I have a romantic or marital partner who provides the support and help I need.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
7. I do not have friends who share my views, but I would like to have some.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
8. I feel that my family members are close to me.
1 - Disagree
2 - Somewhat disagree
3 - Not sure
4 - Somewhat agree
5 - Agree
9. I can turn to my friends for help.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Unsure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
10. I would like to have more satisfying intimate relationships.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
11. I feel like I am part of my family.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Unsure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
12. My family really cares about me.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
13. I do not have friends who understand me, but I would like to have them.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
14. I have a close partner whom I make happy.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
15. I have an unmet desire for a warm, romantic relationship.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
16. In my family, I feel alone.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
17. I can rely on my friends when I need help.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
18. I feel close to my family.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
19. I have an unmet need for close romantic relationships.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
1. I feel lonely in my family.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
2. I feel like I am part of a group of friends.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
3. I have a romantic partner with whom I share my most intimate thoughts and feelings.
Disagree
Somewhat disagree
Not sure
Somewhat agree
Agree
4. There is no one in my family I can count on when I need help and support, but I would like there to be.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
5. My friends understand my motives and the way I think.
Disagree
Somewhat disagree
Not sure
Somewhat agree
Agree
6. I have a romantic or marital partner who provides me with the support and help I need.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
7. I do not have friends who share my views, but I would like to have them.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
8. I feel that my family members are close to me.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
9. I can turn to my friends for help.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
10. I would like to have more satisfying intimate relationships.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
11. I feel like I am part of my family.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Unsure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
12. My family really cares about me.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Unsure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
13. I do not have friends who understand me, but I would like to have them.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
14. I have a close partner whom I make happy.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
15. I have an unmet desire for a close, romantic relationship.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Unsure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
16. In my family, I feel alone.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
17. I can rely on my friends when I need help.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
18. I feel close to my family.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree
19. I have an unfulfilled need for a close romantic relationship.
1 – Disagree
2 – Somewhat disagree
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat agree
5 – Agree