Scale of Personality and Interpersonal Functioning, SIFS Test - the question form

1. I can tolerate most of my emotions and manage them well.

2. My self-esteem is strongly affected by my failures or disappointments.

3. I feel a deep emptiness inside.

4. I tend to confuse my own emotions with other people’s emotions.

5. I feel confused about who I really am.

6. I recognize myself in how other people describe me.

7. I often feel that my life has no meaning.

8. I set reasonable goals and take practical steps to achieve them.

9. Sometimes I do not understand why I behaved in a certain way or why I made certain decisions.

10. In my actions and decisions, I am guided by my immediate needs, regardless of everything else.

11. I often change my plans and life goals.

12. My actions and decisions are consistent with my values and beliefs.

13. People often react negatively to what I say or do, and I do not fully understand why.

14. People criticize me for being insensitive to others.

15. I am often confused about why people behave toward me in certain ways.

16. I am not very interested in other people's feelings or problems.

17. In conversation, I am curious and interested in learning other people's perspectives.

18. When someone thinks differently than I do or disagrees with me, I tend to react negatively or angrily, even if the other person was respectful.

19. I have many satisfying interpersonal relationships that are satisfying for both me and the other person.

20. In general, my friendships or romantic relationships do not last very long.

21. When I am in relationships with other people, it is primarily because I want them to meet some of my needs.

22. I do not really feel any desire or interest in maintaining relationships with other people.

23. I do not trust others and prefer to keep some distance from them to avoid being harmed.

24. There are many people in my life whom I feel close to and maintain relationships with, based on respect, affection, and mutual support.