Relationships with the interlocutor Test - the question form
Questions: 21 · 4 minutes
1. My conversation partner considers the topic from multiple perspectives and does not insist on their own position.
1 – Exactly so
2 – Almost so
3 – Seems so
4 – Hardly so
2. My conversation partner considers me worthy of respect.
1 – Exactly so
2 – Almost so
3 – It seems so
4 – Unlikely
3. When different viewpoints are discussed, my interlocutor and I focus on the main issue. Details do not concern us.
1 – Exactly so
2 – Almost so
3 – It seems so
4 – Unlikely
4. I am confident that the person I am speaking with understands my intention to build a good relationship with them.
1 – Exactly true
2 – Mostly true
3 – Seems true
4 – Unlikely true
5. The person I am talking to always gives my comments the credit they deserve.
1 – Exactly so
2 – Almost so
3 – Seems so
4 – Hardly so
6. My conversation partner senses when to listen and when to speak during a conversation.
1 – Exactly true
2 – Mostly true
3 – Seems true
4 – Probably not true
7. I am confident that, when discussing a conflict situation, I remain self-controlled.
1 – Exactly so
2 – Almost so
3 – Seems so
4 – Unlikely so
8. I can sense when the person I am talking to may become interested in what I am saying.
1 – Exactly so
2 – Almost so
3 – Seems so
4 – Unlikely
9. I enjoy spending time talking with the person I am interacting with.
1 – Exactly true
2 – Almost true
3 – Seems true
4 – Hardly true
10. When my interlocutor and I reach an agreement, we clearly understand what each of us needs to do.
1 – Exactly true
2 – Mostly true
3 – Seems true
4 – Hardly true
11. If the situation calls for it, the person I am speaking with is willing to keep discussing the problem until it is clarified.
1 – Exactly so
2 – Almost so
3 – Seems so
4 – Unlikely
12. I try to accommodate my conversation partner’s requests.
1 – Exactly so
2 – Mostly so
3 – Seems so
4 – Unlikely
13. I believe what the person I am talking to promises.
1 – Exactly so
2 – Almost so
3 – Seems so
4 – Hardly so
14. Both my conversation partner and I try to please each other.
1 – Exactly so
2 – Almost so
3 – Seems so
4 – Hardly so
15. The person I am talking to usually gets to the point, without unnecessary words.
1 – Exactly so
2 – Almost so
3 – It seems so
4 – Unlikely
16. After discussing different points of view with the person I am talking with, I feel that it benefits me.
1 – Exactly like that
2 – Mostly like that
3 – It seems like that
4 – Hardly like that
17. Even when I am upset, I avoid using overly harsh language.
1 – Exactly like that
2 – Almost like that
3 – Seems like that
4 – Hardly like that
18. I try to genuinely understand the intentions of the person I am speaking with.
1 – Exactly so
2 – Almost so
3 – Seems so
4 – Hardly so
19. I can count on the other person being sincere.
1 – Exactly true
2 – Mostly true
3 – Seems true
4 – Unlikely to be true
20. I believe that good relationships depend on effort from both people.
1 – Exactly true
2 – Mostly true
3 – Seems true
4 – Unlikely to be true
21. After a disagreement with the other person, we usually try to be considerate toward each other. We do not hold grudges.
1 – Exactly so
2 – Almost so
3 – It seems so
4 – Unlikely