Positive Parental Feelings Test - the question form
Questions: 36 · 7 minutes
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1. Overall, I believe I am raising my child well.
1 – Yes, that is true
2 – Probably
3 – Unlikely
4 – No, not at all
2. I feel that my child loves me.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is probably not true
4 – No, this is not true at all
3. When I am wrong, I always apologize to my child.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is probably not true
4 – No, this is not true at all
4. I am respected by other parents.
1 – Yes, that is true
2 – Probably true
3 – Probably not true
4 – No, that is not true at all
5. I feel confident in my role as a parent.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is probably not true
4 – No, this is not true at all
6. I do everything I can to make my child happy.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is probably not true
4 – No, this is not true at all
7. I feel that having a child has opened up new opportunities for my self-fulfillment and for my family’s development.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is unlikely to be true
4 – No, this is not true at all
8. I feel joy when I am with my child.
1 – Yes, true
2 – Probably true
3 – Probably not true
4 – No, not at all
9. I enjoy spending my free time with my child.
1 – Yes, true
2 – Probably true
3 – Probably not true
4 – Not at all true
10. I believe that a child is the greatest joy in a person’s life.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is probably not true
4 – No, this is not at all true
11. I enjoy being a father.
1 – Yes, that is true
2 – Probably true
3 – Probably not true
4 – No, that is not true at all
12. I enjoy carrying out my parenting responsibilities.
1 – Yes, that is true
2 – That is probably true
3 – That is unlikely to be true
4 – No, that is not true at all
13. My child often elicits positive feelings from other people.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – Probably true
3 – Probably not true
4 – No, this is not true at all
14. I feel grateful to my child for their efforts and achievements.
Yes, that is true
That is probably true
That is probably not true
No, that is not true at all
15. I often praise my child.
1 – Yes, that is true
2 – Probably true
3 – Hardly true
4 – No, not at all
16. Because of my child's high abilities, my child will achieve a lot in life.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is unlikely
4 – No, not at all
17. I often feel proud of my child.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is unlikely to be true
4 – No, this is not true at all
18. I often tell my child that I highly value their strengths and achievements.
1 – Yes, that is true
2 – Probably true
3 – Unlikely to be true
4 – No, that is not true at all
19. No matter what my child does, I will love them.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is probably not true
4 – No, this is not true at all
20. I find my child pleasant.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is unlikely to be true
4 – No, this is not true at all
21. Most of the time, my child tells me about everything that happens to them.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – Probably true
3 – Probably not true
4 – No, this is not true at all
22. I am aware of my child's strengths and weaknesses and do not try to change them.
1 – Yes, that is true
2 – Probably true
3 – Probably not true
4 – No, that is not true at all
23. I like my child just as he or she is.
1 – Yes, true
2 – Probably true
3 – Hardly true
4 – Not at all true
24. I often forgive my child, recognizing their right to make mistakes and to have weaknesses and imperfections.
Yes, that is true
That is probably true
That is unlikely to be true
No, that is not true at all
25. For my child, I am willing to make any sacrifice.
1 – Yes, true
2 – Probably true
3 – Probably not true
4 – No, not at all true
26. I admire my child.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is probably not true
4 – No, this is not true at all
27. I try to give my child more love than I receive from them.
1 – Yes, that is true
2 – That is probably true
3 – That is unlikely to be true
4 – No, that is not true at all
28. My child can be relied on in important matters.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is probably not true
4 – No, this is not true at all
29. I love my child even when he or she behaves badly.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – Probably true
3 – Probably not true
4 – No, not at all true
30. I forgive my child a lot because I love them.
1 – Yes, that is true
2 – That is probably true
3 – That is probably not true
4 – No, that is not true at all
31. In any situation involving the child, I can rely on my spouse.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is probably not true
4 – No, this is not true at all
32. I feel supported by my spouse in raising our child.
1 – Yes, that is true
2 – Probably true
3 – Probably not true
4 – No, that is not true at all
33. I trust my spouse to take responsibility for raising our child.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is probably not true
4 – No, this is not true at all
34. I believe my spouse’s and my views on how to raise our child are aligned.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is probably not true
4 – This is not true at all
35. I like my spouse in their role as a parent.
1 – Yes, that is true
2 – Probably
3 – Unlikely
4 – No, not at all
36. My spouse does everything to ensure that my child and I feel calm and comfortable.
1 – Yes, that is true
2 – That is probably true
3 – That is unlikely to be true
4 – No, that is not true at all
1. I believe that, overall, I am raising my child well.
1 – Yes, true
2 – Probably true
3 – Unlikely to be true
4 – Not true at all
2. I feel that my child loves me.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is probably not true
4 – No, this is not true at all
3. When I am in the wrong, I always apologize to my child.
1 – Yes, that is true
2 – That is probably true
3 – That is unlikely
4 – No, that is not true at all
4. I am respected by other parents.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is unlikely to be true
4 – No, this is not at all true
5. I feel confident in my role as a parent.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – Probably true
3 – Probably not true
4 – Not at all true
6. I do everything I can to make my child happy.
1 – Yes, true
2 – Probably true
3 – Probably not true
4 – Not true at all
7. I feel that having a child has opened up new opportunities for my personal fulfillment and for our family’s development.
1 – Yes, true
2 – Probably true
3 – Probably not true
4 – No, not at all
8. I feel joy when I am with my child.
1 – Yes, true
2 – Probably true
3 – Probably not true
4 – No, not at all
9. I enjoy spending my free time with my child.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is probably not true
4 – No, this is not true at all
10. I believe that a child is the greatest joy in a person's life.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is unlikely to be true
4 – No, this is not true at all
11. I enjoy being a mother.
Yes, that is true
That is probably true
That is probably not true
No, that is not true at all
12. I enjoy carrying out my parental responsibilities.
1 – Yes, true
2 – Probably true
3 – Probably not true
4 – Not true at all
13. My child often elicits positive feelings from other people.
1 - Yes
2 - Probably
3 - Unlikely
4 - Not at all
14. I feel grateful to my child for their efforts and achievements.
1 – Yes, true
2 – Probably true
3 – Probably not true
4 – No, not at all true
15. I often praise my child.
Yes, true
Probably true
Probably not true
Not true at all
16. Because of my child's high abilities, my child will achieve a lot in life.
1 – Yes, that is true
2 – Probably yes
3 – Probably not
4 – No, not at all
17. I often feel proud of my child.
1 – Yes, true
2 – Probably true
3 – Probably not true
4 – No, not at all
18. I often tell my child that I greatly value their strengths and achievements.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is unlikely to be true
4 – No, this is not true at all
19. No matter what my child does, I will love them.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is unlikely to be true
4 – No, this is not true at all
20. I find my child pleasant.
1 – Yes, that is true
2 – That is probably true
3 – That is unlikely
4 – No, that is not true at all
21. Most of the time, my child tells me about everything that happens to them.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is probably not true
4 – No, this is not true at all
22. I know my child's strengths and weaknesses and do not try to change them.
1 – Yes, that is true
2 – That is probably true
3 – That is probably not true
4 – No, that is not true at all
23. I like my child just the way he or she is.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is probably not true
4 – No, this is not true at all
24. I often forgive my child, recognizing their right to make mistakes and to have weaknesses and imperfections.
1 – Yes, true
2 – Probably true
3 – Probably not true
4 – Not true at all
25. I am willing to make any sacrifices for my child.
Yes, that is true
It is probably true
It is unlikely to be true
No, that is not true at all
26. I admire my child.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is probably not true
4 – No, this is not true at all
27. I try to give my child more love than I receive from them.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is unlikely to be true
4 – No, this is not true at all
28. I can rely on my child in a serious matter.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is probably not true
4 – No, this is not true at all
29. I love my child, even when they behave badly.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is unlikely to be true
4 – No, this is not true at all
30. Because I love my child, I forgive them a lot.
Yes, that is true
That is probably true
That is probably not true
No, that is not true at all
31. In any situation involving my child, I can rely on my spouse/partner.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is probably not true
4 – Not true at all
32. I feel supported by my spouse in raising the child.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is probably not true
4 – No, this is not true at all
33. I trust my spouse to be involved in raising our child.
1 – Yes, that is true
2 – Probably true
3 – Not really true
4 – No, not true at all
34. I believe that my spouse and I share the same views on how to raise our child.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is probably not true
4 – No, this is not true at all
35. I like my spouse in the role of a parent.
1 – Yes, that is true
2 – Probably true
3 – Probably not true
4 – No, not at all
36. My spouse does everything to ensure that my child and I feel safe and comfortable.
1 – Yes, this is true
2 – This is probably true
3 – This is unlikely to be true
4 – No, this is not true at all