Parental Reflective Functioning, PRFQ Test - the question form
Questions: 16 · 3 minutes
Select Questionnaire Type
Male form
Female form
1. I am certain that my child loves me only when he/she smiles at me.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
2. I always know what my child wants.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
3. I think about the reasons why my child feels and behaves the way they do.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
4. When we are among strangers, my child might cry (fuss, misbehave) to embarrass me.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
5. I am very good at reading my child's mind.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
6. I am very interested in what my child is thinking and feeling.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
7. Often, my child's behavior is too confusing to try to make sense of.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
8. I can always predict what my child will do.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
9. I am often curious about what my child is feeling.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
10. Sometimes my child starts to feel unwell (gets sick) in order to stop me from doing what I want to do.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
11. Sometimes I may misinterpret my child’s reactions.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
12. I try to see situations from my child's point of view.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
13. When my child is being difficult, he/she does it just to make me angry.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Undecided
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
14. I always know why I behave toward my child in the way that I do.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
15. I try to understand why my child behaves badly.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
16. I always know why my child behaves the way he or she does.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
1. I am sure my child loves me only when he or she smiles at me.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Undecided
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
2. I always know what my child wants.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Not sure
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
3. I think about the reasons why my child feels and behaves the way he or she does.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
4. When we are around strangers, my child might cry (become fussy or misbehave) to embarrass me.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
5. I am very good at reading my child’s mind.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Undecided
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
6. I am very interested in what my child thinks and feels.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
7. I often find my child’s behavior too confusing to try to explain.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Undecided
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
8. I can always predict what my child will do.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
9. I am often curious about what my child is feeling.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Undecided
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
10. Sometimes my child starts to feel unwell (gets sick) to stop me from doing what I want to do.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
11. Sometimes I may misinterpret my child's reactions.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Undecided
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
12. I try to see the situation through my child's eyes.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
13. When my child is being difficult, he or she does it only to make me angry.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Undecided
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
14. I always know why I behave toward my child in the way that I do.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
15. I try to understand why my child behaves badly.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree
16. I always know why my child behaves the way he or she does.
1 – Strongly disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Somewhat disagree
4 – Neither agree nor disagree
5 – Somewhat agree
6 – Agree
7 – Strongly agree