Assessment of Marital Conflict in the Family Role Structure Test

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Cognitive Needs (CN)
Measures conflict in the couple related to unmet cognitive needs and differences in interests, including possible national-cultural distinctions.
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A score of 2 suggests moderate tension around cognitive needs, where differences in interests may sometimes contribute to misunderstandings but are not consistently disruptive.
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Self-Concept Defense (SD)
Assesses how strongly marital conflicts are linked to protecting each partner’s self-concept in the context of national differences.
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A score of 2 falls in the Moderate range, suggesting occasional tension around self-esteem or identity when national differences come into play, but not a dominant conflict theme.
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Mutual Understanding (MU)
Assesses how well spouses understand each other’s perspectives and needs, including differences related to national or cultural background.
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A score of 2 indicates a moderate level of mutual understanding, suggesting some shared perspective alongside recurring gaps that may contribute to tensions.
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Personality Traits (PT)
Measures how much marital conflict is linked to spouses’ personality traits in the context of national or cultural differences.
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A score of 2 indicates a moderate level of conflict related to personality differences, suggesting these traits sometimes contribute to tensions alongside national or cultural factors.
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Roles (R)
Assesses how aligned partners are in their expectations and division of family roles, including the influence of national traditions.
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A score of 2 suggests a mixed level of agreement on roles, with some mismatches that may contribute to tension if left unaddressed.
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Material Needs (MN)
Assesses the degree of conflict related to spouses’ material needs and expectations in the context of national differences.
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A score of 3 indicates a moderate level of tension where differing material expectations may occasionally fuel disagreements, particularly when shaped by cultural or national norms.
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2/5
Communication Culture (CC)
Measures how much couple conflict is linked to differences in communication norms and etiquette shaped by national traditions.
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A score of 2 suggests a moderate level of tension where some communication-culture differences may occasionally lead to misunderstandings but are not consistently disruptive.
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Relationships With Parents (RWP)
Measures the degree of conflict in a couple related to relationships with parents and relatives, including the impact of culturally shaped family involvement.
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A score of 2 indicates a moderate level of tension around parents or relatives, suggesting occasional interference or disagreements that can contribute to conflicts.
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Leisure (L)
Measures how closely spouses align in planning and enjoying leisure activities, including consideration of national traditions.
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A score of 2 suggests moderate alignment, where some shared leisure preferences exist but differences may still create occasional tension.
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Awareness (A)
Assesses how well spouses understand each other's national and cultural characteristics that can influence everyday expectations and conflict triggers.
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A score of 3 indicates moderate awareness, suggesting some knowledge of each other's national characteristics but with potential gaps that may still contribute to ethnicity-related misunderstandings.
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Cognitive Needs (CN)
Measures the degree of relationship tension linked to how well partners’ cognitive needs and interests are understood and supported.
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A score of 3 suggests a moderate level of conflict where differences in interests or ways of thinking sometimes lead to misunderstandings but are not consistently disruptive.
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Self-Concept Defense (SD)
Measures how much marital conflict is linked to protecting personal boundaries and self-esteem in the relationship.
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A score of 3 falls in the Moderate range, suggesting a noticeable but not pervasive tendency for disagreements to involve issues of self-respect and boundary protection.
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Mutual Understanding (MU)
Measures how well spouses understand each other in communication and alignment of interests.
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A score of 2 falls in the Moderate range, suggesting partial mutual understanding with some communication or interest-alignment difficulties likely present.
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Personal Qualities (PQ)
Assesses how much relationship conflict is linked to differences in the partners’ personality traits and character styles.
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A score of 2 suggests a moderate level of conflict related to personal qualities, where character differences sometimes complicate interaction but are not consistently dominant.
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Roles (R)
Measures how much spouses agree on the distribution of family roles and responsibilities.
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A score of 3 indicates moderate agreement on family roles, suggesting some shared understanding alongside areas that may still cause friction.
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2/5
Material Needs (MN)
Measures the degree of couple conflict related to meeting and aligning material and financial needs.
Low tension
Moderate tension
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01Low tension23Moderate tension45High tension
A score of 2 suggests a moderate level of tension around material expectations, indicating occasional disagreements that may benefit from clearer alignment of priorities.
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3/5
Communication Culture (CC)
Measures the degree of relationship tension linked to how constructively and respectfully spouses communicate.
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A score of 3 indicates moderate tension related to communication culture, suggesting recurring misunderstandings or lapses in constructive dialogue.
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Relationships With Parents (RWP)
Measures how much tension and conflict in the marriage is linked to interactions with parents and other relatives.
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A score of 2 falls in the Moderate range, suggesting occasional or situational strain related to parents or relatives that may sometimes affect the couple’s interactions.
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3/5
Leisure (L)
Measures how well spouses’ preferences and expectations align when planning and spending shared leisure time.
Low alignment
Moderate alignment
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A score of 3 suggests a moderate level of leisure alignment, with some shared activities but noticeable differences that may require negotiation.
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3/5
Awareness (A)
Assesses how well spouses are informed about each other and their interactions, where higher scores suggest information gaps that can fuel conflict.
Well-informed
Some gaps
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A score of 3 falls in the “Some gaps” range, suggesting there may be noticeable areas where partners lack information about each other that could contribute to misunderstandings.
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National Conflict Index (K'zh) (NCI()
Assesses how strongly marital conflicts are influenced by differences in the spouses’ national and cultural backgrounds.
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A score of 24 falls in the Moderate range, suggesting cultural or ethnic differences sometimes contribute to disagreements but are not the predominant driver of conflict.
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Personal Conflict Proneness (Wife) (Kzh) (PCP(()
Measures the intensity of marital conflicts driven by personal traits and mismatched individual needs between spouses.
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A score of 37 falls in the High range, suggesting that personality-related incompatibilities and conflicting needs are a prominent source of tension in the relationship.
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Couples in escalating conflict
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Couples from different cultural or ethnic backgrounds who want to separate personal incompatibilities from culture-related misunderstandings.
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21%OF USERS
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Cognitive Needs (CN)
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Protection of the Self-Concept (PotS)
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Mutual Understanding (MU)
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Personal qualities (Pq)
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Roles (R)
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Material Needs (MN)
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Communication Culture (CC)
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Relationships with Parents (RwP)
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Leisure (L)
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Awareness (A)
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Cognitive Needs (CN)
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1.53
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Protection of the Self-Concept (PotS)
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Mutual Understanding (MU)
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Personal qualities (Pq)
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Roles (R)
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34.3
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Material needs (Mn)
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2.2
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1.52.9
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Communication Culture (CC)
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1.3
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0.62
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Relationships with Parents (RwP)
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2.7
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23.4
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Leisure (L)
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1.4
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0.52.3
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Awareness (A)
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2.54.4
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National Conflictiness Index K'zh (NCIK)
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33.2
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50
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Personal Conflictiveness Indicator Kzh (PCIK)
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20.5
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Frequently Asked Questions

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What does this questionnaire measure?
It assesses the level of tension in a couple’s relationship and identifies common sources of recurring conflict. It distinguishes disagreements linked to personal factors from those linked to cultural or interethnic differences.
Who is this questionnaire intended for?
It is intended for adult partners in an ongoing intimate relationship. It may be used in counseling settings or in research that examines relationship conflict.
How long does it take to complete and how many items are included?
The standard form includes 100 items and usually takes about 19 minutes to complete. An extended form may take longer due to additional content on interethnic factors.
How should items be answered?
Each item should be answered based on typical patterns in the relationship rather than a single recent incident. Responses should be consistent, using the same criteria across all items.
How should results be interpreted?
Scores indicate relative areas of strain and the likely domains contributing to conflict. Interpretation should consider context and should not be treated as a stand-alone diagnosis.
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Methodology for Diagnosing Marital Conflicts in the CNS Test

Assessment of Marital Conflict in the Family Role Structure Test

This measure is designed to characterize patterns of disagreement and perceived tension within intimate partnerships. The Assessment of Marital Conflict in the Family Role Structure provides a structured self-report format to help identify areas of recurrent conflict and the family-role contexts in which they arise.

The instrument includes 100 items and typically requires about 19 minutes to complete. It may be used in clinical or research settings to support case formulation, inform interview follow-up, and monitor change over time when interpreted alongside other assessment data.

In bibliographic terms, it is attributed to John M. Gottman. Results from the Assessment of Marital Conflict in the Family Role Structure should be interpreted within the individual’s relational, cultural, and situational context and are not, by themselves, diagnostic.

Author: John M. Gottman
Literature: Gottman, J. M. What predicts divorce? The relationship between marital processes and marital outcomes. Lawrence Erlbaum Associates. 1994.
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