Love Language Test

Learn how you prefer to give and receive love in about 20 minutes. Get clear results across five styles to improve communication and strengthen your relationship.

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July 14, 2025

July 14, 2025
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How the Scales are Structured

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3/11

Acts of Service (AoS)

This scale measures how strongly you value practical, helpful actions from a partner as an expression of care.

Low emphasis

Moderate emphasis

High emphasis

0 – 3: Low emphasis | 4 – 7: Moderate emphasis | 8 – 11: High emphasis

A score of 3 suggests you place relatively low importance on a partner showing love through concrete, task-oriented help compared with other expressions.

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6/12

Words of Affirmation (WoA)

This scale measures how important verbal praise, reassurance, and supportive comments are to you as expressions of love.

Lower emphasis

Moderate emphasis

Higher emphasis

0 – 4: Lower emphasis | 5 – 8: Moderate emphasis | 9 – 12: Higher emphasis

A score of 6 suggests you have a moderate preference for receiving love through encouraging and affirming words.

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5/12

Time (T)

This scale reflects how strongly you value shared time, focused attention, and mutual commitment in a relationship.

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0 – 4: Lower | 5 – 8: Moderate | 9 – 12: Higher

A score of 5 suggests you place a moderate level of importance on spending quality time and having dedicated attention from your partner.

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6/10

Gifts (G)

This scale measures how meaningful receiving thoughtful gifts is as a way of feeling loved and valued.

Low

Moderate

High

0 – 3: Low | 4 – 7: Moderate | 8 – 10: High

A score of 6 suggests gifts are a moderately important expression of care for you, especially when they feel thoughtful or symbolic.

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8/10

Physical Touch (PT)

Measures how strongly you value physical contact (e.g., hugs, kisses, and touch) as a primary expression of love.

Low

Moderate

High

0 – 3: Low | 4 – 6: Moderate | 7 – 10: High

A score of 8 falls in the High range, suggesting physical touch is a particularly important way you feel cared for and connected in relationships.

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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Couples improving communication

41%OF USERS

Partners take it to understand how each person best feels loved and reduce misunderstandings.

New daters and crushes

34%OF USERS

People early in dating use it to learn what to look for and how to show care in a new relationship.

Self-growth and reflection

25%OF USERS

Individuals take it to clarify their own needs and boundaries in relationships and friendships.

BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.

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Specific tasks (St)

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3.6 — 7.3

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Words of Encouragement (WoE)

Average

8.6

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7 — 10.1

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Time (T)

Average

7.4

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5.9 — 9

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Gifts (G)

Average

3.1

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1.5 — 4.7

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Touch (T)

Average

5.9

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4.2 — 7.7

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CLEAR ANSWERS TO COMMON QUESTIONS

Frequently Asked Questions

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What does this questionnaire measure?

It measures which forms of expressing care and affection are most meaningful to an individual in a relationship. It provides separate scores for Acts of Service, Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, and Physical Touch.

How is the questionnaire structured?

It contains 30 paired statements. For each pair, one statement must be selected as more meaningful.

How long does it take to complete?

Most respondents finish in about 20 minutes. Completion time may vary depending on reading pace and decision time.

How should responses be chosen if both statements seem accurate?

Select the statement that would matter more in a typical situation. If uncertainty remains, choose the option that would have a greater emotional impact.

How should the results be interpreted?

Higher scores indicate stronger preferences for that form of expression. Similar scores across scales may reflect a broader range of valued expressions rather than a single dominant preference.

WHAT THE TEST MEASURES

About This Assessment

Love Language Test

romantic relationships

This self-report measure is designed to clarify interpersonal preferences for giving and receiving affection in close relationships. The Love Language Test uses paired-choice items to identify which expressions of care the respondent tends to value most. It is attributed to Susan S. Hendrick and Clyde Hendrick.

The instrument includes 30 items and typically takes about 20 minutes to complete. Responses are organized into five domains commonly described as acts of service, words of affirmation, quality time, gift giving, and physical touch, yielding domain scores that can be compared to indicate relative priorities. Results from the Love Language Test are generally interpreted descriptively to support discussion of relationship expectations and communication patterns.

Author: Clyde Hendrick, Susan S. Hendrick

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