Levin-Heller Attachment Style Test - the question form
Questions: 42 · 8 minutes
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1. I often fear that the woman I love will stop loving me.
Yes
No
2. I find it easy to show affection to the woman I love.
Yes
No
3. I feel that if someone saw the real me, they would never love me.
Yes
No
4. I recover quickly after a breakup. It is surprisingly easy for me to stop thinking about the person.
Yes
No
5. When I am alone, I feel afraid and inadequate.
Yes
No
6. I find it hard to provide emotional support to my female partner when she is in a bad mood.
Yes
No
7. When the woman I love is not with me, I suspect she is being unfaithful to me.
Yes
No
8. I am comfortable being dependent on the woman I love.
Yes
No
9. Independence is more important to me than relationships.
Yes
No
10. I do not like sharing my private thoughts with my partner.
Yes
No
11. I am afraid that the woman I love will not return my feelings when I show affection.
Yes
No
12. I am satisfied with my relationship.
Yes
No
13. I do not feel the need to pretend to be someone else in my relationship.
Yes
No
14. I think about the relationship a lot.
Yes
No
15. I feel uncomfortable depending on the woman I love.
Yes
No
16. I become attached too quickly in relationships.
Yes
No
17. I find it easy to tell my partner about my needs and desires.
Yes
No
18. Sometimes my partner irritates me for no clear reason.
Yes
No
19. I am sensitive to my partner's mood.
Yes
No
20. Most people are honest and trustworthy.
Yes
No
21. I prefer casual relationships with different people rather than closeness with one person.
Yes
No
22. I feel comfortable sharing my thoughts and feelings with the woman I love.
Yes
No
23. If my partner leaves me, I will never find anyone else.
Yes
No
24. I feel uneasy when someone gets too close to me.
Yes
No
25. During an argument, instead of talking things through, I say or do things in the heat of the moment that I later regret.
Yes
No
26. Arguments are not a reason to doubt the relationship.
Yes
No
27. People I date try to get closer to me, and I do not like it.
Yes
No
28. I am afraid that nobody likes me.
Yes
No
29. Some people find me boring because I do not like to make a big deal out of things.
Yes
No
30. I miss them when we are apart, but when we are together I feel like running away.
Yes
No
31. I find it easy to express disagreement with anyone.
Yes
No
32. I cannot stand it when someone depends on me.
Yes
No
33. If a woman I am interested in looks at other men, it does not bother me. I may feel a little jealous, but it passes quickly.
Yes
No
34. If a woman I am interested in looks at other men, I feel relieved because it means she is not planning a serious relationship.
Yes
No
35. If a woman I am interested in looks at other people, I feel depressed.
Yes
No
36. If we have just started dating and she becomes cold and distant, I would ask what is wrong, but it would not occur to me that it is because of me.
Yes
No
37. If we have only just started dating and the woman I love is cold and pulls away, it does not bother me; I would even feel glad.
Yes
No
38. If we have only just started dating and the woman I love is cold and distant, it is definitely my fault.
Yes
No
39. If the woman I love leaves me, I will make her see what she has lost (make her jealous).
Yes
No
40. If we have been dating for a few months and my partner tells me we are breaking up, I would be upset, but not for long.
Yes
No
41. When I finally get what I want in a relationship, I lose interest.
Yes
No
42. I have a good (purely platonic) relationship with my ex-partners, because we have so much in common.
Yes
No
1. I often fear that the person I love will stop loving me.
Yes
No
2. I find it easy to show affection toward a loved one.
Yes
No
3. I feel that if someone saw my true self, they would never love me.
Yes
No
4. I recover quickly after a breakup. It is surprisingly easy for me to get someone out of my mind.
Yes
No
5. When I have no one, I feel afraid and inadequate.
Yes
No
6. I find it difficult to provide emotional support to a loved one when they are in a bad mood.
Yes
No
7. When my loved one is not with me, I suspect that they are being unfaithful to me.
Yes
No
8. I am comfortable depending on a loved one.
Yes
No
9. Independence is more important to me than relationships.
Yes
No
10. I do not like to share my private thoughts with a loved one.
Yes
No
11. I am afraid that the person I love will not return my feelings when I show affection.
Yes
No
12. I am satisfied with my relationship.
Yes
No
13. I do not feel the need to pretend to be someone else in my relationships.
Yes
No
14. I think about my relationship a lot.
Yes
No
15. I feel uncomfortable depending on someone I love.
Yes
No
16. I become attached too quickly in relationships.
Yes
No
17. It is not at all difficult for me to tell a loved one about my needs and desires.
Yes
No
18. Sometimes, without any clear reason, my partner irritates me.
Yes
No
19. I am sensitive to my loved one’s mood.
Yes
No
20. Most people are honest and reliable.
Yes
No
21. I prefer casual relationships with different people rather than closeness with one person.
Yes
No
22. I feel comfortable sharing my thoughts and feelings with my loved one.
Yes
No
23. If my partner leaves me, I will never meet anyone else.
Yes
No
24. I feel uncomfortable when someone gets too close to me.
Yes
No
25. In an argument, instead of talking things through, I say or do things in the heat of the moment that I later regret.
Yes
No
26. Arguments are not a reason to doubt the relationship.
Yes
No
27. People I date try to become closer to me, and I find that uncomfortable.
Yes
No
28. I am afraid that nobody likes me.
Yes
No
29. Some people find me boring because I do not like to make a big deal out of things.
Yes
No
30. I miss them when we are apart, but when we are together I want to get away.
Yes
No
31. I find it easy to express disagreement with others.
Yes
No
32. I cannot stand it when someone depends on me.
Yes
No
33. If someone I am interested in looks at other people, it does not bother me. I may feel a little jealous, but it passes quickly.
Yes
No
34. If a person I am interested in pays attention to other people, I feel relieved, because it means they are not planning a serious relationship.
Yes
No
35. If someone I am interested in looks at other people, I feel depressed.
Yes
No
36. If we have only just started dating and he becomes distant and emotionally cold, I would ask what is wrong, but it would not occur to me that it is because of me.
Yes
No
37. If we have only just started dating and my loved one is distant and withdrawing, it does not bother me; I may even feel pleased.
Yes
No
38. If we have only just started dating and my loved one is cold and distant, it must be my fault.
Yes
No
39. If a loved one left me, I would try to make them see what they have lost (make them jealous).
Yes
No
40. If we have been dating for several months and my loved one tells me we are breaking up, I would feel upset, but not for long.
Yes
No
41. When I finally get what I want in a relationship, I lose interest.
Yes
No
42. I remain on good (purely platonic) terms with my ex-partners because we have so much in common.
Yes
No