Is Family the Top Priority? Test

In 4 minutes, see how strongly family truly guides your choices and sacrifices. Get clear takeaways to strengthen support, balance time and energy, and build healthier relationships.

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October 2, 2025

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49/60

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This scale measures how strongly you prioritize family interests over personal preferences and independence in daily life decisions.

More independent

Balanced priority

Family-first

20 – 39: More independent | 40 – 51: Balanced priority | 52 – 60: Family-first

A score of 49 falls in the Balanced priority range, suggesting you generally value family highly while still maintaining some personal boundaries and independent goals.

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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Busy parents under pressure

41%OF USERS

Parents juggling work, chores, and kids take it to see whether their daily choices truly put family first or just feel that way.

Couples in transition

33%OF USERS

People moving in, getting married, or preparing for a baby use it to check if their priorities match the commitment they’re making.

Career-focused providers

26%OF USERS

Those working long hours to support loved ones take it to understand if providing stability is balanced with emotional presence and time.

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What does this questionnaire measure?

It estimates how strongly family needs influence decisions, time use, and follow-through on responsibilities. It also reflects willingness to make trade-offs to support stability and well-being.

How long does it take and how many items are included?

Completion time is about 4 minutes. The questionnaire includes 20 items.

How should responses be selected?

Select the option that best matches typical behavior, not ideal intentions. Use a general pattern over the past several months rather than a single recent event.

Does prioritizing family mean spending the most time at home?

Not necessarily. The scoring considers practical support and sustained responsibility in addition to time spent together.

How should results be interpreted?

Results describe relative emphasis on family responsibilities compared with other priorities and may highlight areas for adjustment. They are not a diagnosis and should be combined with other information when used in counseling.

WHAT THE TEST MEASURES

About This Assessment

Is Family the Top Priority? Test

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This self-report screening tool examines perceived priorities and behaviors related to family commitment. Is Family the Top Priority? prompts respondents to reflect on how they allocate time, effort, and resources in relation to family responsibilities.

The measure includes 20 items and typically takes about 4 minutes to complete. Items ask respondents to rate their actions and choices in everyday situations, supporting a brief review of alignment between stated values and actual decision-making. Interpretation is intended to be descriptive and may help identify areas for further discussion in clinical or counseling contexts.

Is Family the Top Priority? is attributed to David H. Olson.

Author: David H. Olson

Literature: Olson, D. H. Circumplex model of marital and family systems. Journal of Family Therapy. 2000.

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