Ineffective Conflict Resolution Questionnaire, IAI Test - the question form
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1. By the end of an argument, we have both listened to each other fully and equally.
1 – Does not apply at all
2 – Does not apply
3 – Sometimes applies, sometimes does not
4 – Applies
5 – Fully applies
2. When we start to argue or fight, I think, "Here we go again."
1 – Completely untrue
2 – Not true
3 – Sometimes true, sometimes not
4 – True
5 – Completely true
3. Overall, I would say that we handle our problems fairly well.
1 – Does not describe us at all
2 – Does not describe us
3 – Sometimes describes us, sometimes does not
4 – Describes us
5 – Describes us completely
4. Our arguments remain unfinished and unresolved.
1 – Does not describe at all
2 – Does not describe
3 – Sometimes describes, sometimes does not describe
4 – Describes
5 – Describes completely
5. We are unable to resolve our disagreements for several days.
1 – Does not describe at all
2 – Does not describe
3 – Sometimes describes, sometimes does not
4 – Describes
5 – Completely describes
6. Our arguments seem to end in a frustrating deadlock.
1 – Does not describe us at all
2 – Does not describe us
3 – Sometimes describes us, sometimes does not
4 – Describes us
5 – Describes us completely
7. We need to improve how we resolve our disagreements.
1 – Does not apply at all
2 – Does not apply
3 – Sometimes applies, sometimes does not
4 – Applies
5 – Completely applies
8. Overall, our arguments are brief and are quickly forgotten.
1 – Not at all true
2 – Not true
3 – Sometimes true, sometimes not
4 – True
5 – Completely true
1. By the end of an argument, we have both listened to each other fully and equally.
1 – Does not describe at all
2 – Does not describe
3 – Sometimes describes, sometimes does not
4 – Describes
5 – Describes completely
2. When we start arguing or disagreeing, I think, "Here we go again."
1 – Does not describe at all
2 – Does not describe
3 – Sometimes describes, sometimes does not
4 – Describes
5 – Completely describes
3. Overall, I would say that we handle our problems fairly well.
1 – Completely untrue
2 – Not true
3 – Sometimes true, sometimes not
4 – True
5 – Completely true
4. Our arguments remain unfinished and unresolved.
1 – Does not describe at all
2 – Does not describe
3 – Sometimes describes, sometimes does not
4 – Describes
5 – Describes completely
5. We cannot resolve our disagreements for several days.
1 – Does not describe our relationship at all
2 – Does not describe our relationship
3 – Sometimes describes our relationship, sometimes does not
4 – Describes our relationship
5 – Completely describes our relationship
6. Our arguments seem to end in a frustrating stalemate.
1 – Not at all true
2 – Not true
3 – Sometimes true, sometimes not
4 – True
5 – Completely true
7. We need to improve how we resolve our disagreements.
1 – Does not describe at all
2 – Does not describe
3 – Sometimes describes, sometimes does not
4 – Describes
5 – Completely describes
8. Overall, our arguments are brief and are quickly forgotten.
1 – Does not describe our relationship at all
2 – Does not describe our relationship
3 – Sometimes describes our relationship, sometimes does not
4 – Describes our relationship
5 – Describes our relationship completely