Gibson Attachment Style Test - the question form
Questions: 60 · 11 minutes
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1. I can be emotionally available to other people, but I need time to open up and show my vulnerable side.
Yes
No
2. I can take care of myself as well as my partner.
Yes
No
3. I often put my partner on a pedestal.
Yes
No
4. I get irritated easily or become impatient when I interact with my partner.
Yes
No
5. I feel comfortable with my partner and enjoy their company.
Yes
No
6. I feel a strong need for open, honest communication with a partner I love.
Yes
No
7. I get very upset when someone limits my freedom and does not let me be alone.
Yes
No
8. I do not like spending a lot of time alone.
Yes
No
9. I am not likely to make breakup decisions based on emotions.
Yes
No
10. I quite often lose touch with my emotions.
Yes
No
11. I am very sensitive to my partner’s needs and notice changes in her behavior.
Yes
No
12. I find it easy to express my emotions.
Yes
No
13. I constantly want emotional closeness with my partner.
Yes
No
14. I know how to manage my emotions effectively when I am upset.
Yes
No
15. I can easily tell when other people's mood changes from their facial expressions, gestures, and tone of voice.
Yes
No
16. I worry that my partner will stop loving me or become bored with me.
Yes
No
17. I find it easy to compromise and reach agreements.
Yes
No
18. In relationships, I experience strong emotions.
Yes
No
19. I really dislike feeling vulnerable when interacting with other people.
Yes
No
20. If I notice any signs that my partner is being distant, I panic and want to restore a sense of closeness as quickly as possible.
Yes
No
21. I am not prone to complain or to hold a grudge for a long time.
Yes
No
22. I openly express anger when I feel hurt, helpless, or betrayed.
Yes
No
23. I do not think there should be any boundaries between me and the person I love.
Yes
No
24. Conflicts do not scare me, and I believe I can handle problems.
Yes
No
25. It is not uncommon for me to experience "emotional ups and downs" in long-term romantic relationships.
Yes
No
26. I tend to be reserved around people I do not know very well.
Yes
No
27. I am often overly warm or, conversely, cold toward my partner or other people close to me.
Yes
No
28. I know I deserve healthy and happy relationships.
Yes
No
29. I want my partner to take care of her emotions and needs on her own, without my prompting.
Yes
No
30. If I feel hurt, I think about ending the relationship immediately.
Yes
No
31. I do not feel that I need anything from my romantic partner.
Yes
No
32. I find it easy to listen to other people talk about their needs, and to talk about my own needs.
Yes
No
33. I often worry that my partner may push me away.
Yes
No
34. I do not like being alone, without a partner.
Yes
No
35. If my partner's behavior upsets me, I tell her how I feel and try to understand why she behaved that way.
Yes
No
36. Relationships are often emotionally difficult for me.
Yes
No
37. I do not like making plans with other people.
Yes
No
38. At times, I feel that I am constantly demanding love and attention from my partner.
Yes
No
39. I find it hard to trust my partner and often feel suspicious.
Yes
No
40. I feel it is normal to set boundaries.
Yes
No
41. I have threatened to leave several times and then changed my mind.
Yes
No
42. I try to avoid conflict, and criticism hurts me a lot.
Yes
No
43. I am not afraid of commitment, but I do not rush into a relationship without first assessing the situation.
Yes
No
44. I am afraid that if I ask too much of my partner, she will leave me.
Yes
No
45. I pay more attention to my relationships than to myself.
Yes
No
46. I fall in love quickly, but I constantly doubt my partner and check up on them when we become truly close.
Yes
No
47. Sometimes the thought of commitment makes me feel afraid or weighed down, as if I am trapped.
Yes
No
48. I often defend my territory, personal space, and belongings.
Yes
No
49. I am emotionally stable in romantic relationships.
Yes
No
50. I tend to go to extremes: at times I am overly open, and at other times I need personal space and time to myself.
Yes
No
51. I find it easy to open up to people, and sometimes I share too much about myself.
Yes
No
52. I find it difficult to show my feelings to others.
Yes
No
53. I do not talk a lot about myself, but I am not afraid to share my feelings with my partner.
Yes
No
54. I feel pressured if my partner expects too much physical affection.
Yes
No
55. I crave closeness, but I often fear appearing vulnerable with my partner.
Yes
No
56. It is much easier for me to sort out my emotions on my own than with someone else.
Yes
No
57. I would like to spend most of my free time with my partner.
Yes
No
58. I find it easy to express my needs in the presence of my partner.
Yes
No
59. My partner usually recovers emotionally from conflict faster than I do.
Yes
No
60. I am very afraid that someone I love will leave me.
Yes
No
1. I can be emotionally available to other people, but I need time to open up and show my vulnerable side.
Yes
No
2. I can take care of both myself and my partner.
Yes
No
3. I often put my partner on a pedestal.
Yes
No
4. I get irritated easily or become impatient when interacting with my partner.
Yes
No
5. I feel comfortable with my partner and enjoy their company.
Yes
No
6. I have a strong need for open and honest communication with my loved one.
Yes
No
7. I get very upset when someone limits my freedom and does not let me be alone.
Yes
No
8. I do not like spending a lot of time alone.
Yes
No
9. I am not likely to make a decision to break up based on emotions.
Yes
No
10. I often lose touch with my emotions.
Yes
No
11. I am very sensitive to my partner’s needs and notice changes in their behavior.
Yes
No
12. I find it easy to express my emotions.
Yes
No
13. I constantly want emotional closeness with my partner.
Yes
No
14. I know how to manage my emotions effectively when I get upset.
Yes
No
15. I can easily tell when someone’s mood has changed from their facial expressions, gestures, and tone of voice.
Yes
No
16. I worry that my partner will stop loving me or become bored with me.
Yes
No
17. I find it easy to compromise and reach agreement.
Yes
No
18. In relationships, I experience strong emotions.
Yes
No
19. I strongly dislike feeling vulnerable when interacting with other people.
Yes
No
20. If I notice any signs that my partner is being emotionally distant, I panic and want to restore a sense of closeness as quickly as possible.
Yes
No
21. I am not prone to complain or hold a grudge for a long time.
Yes
No
22. I openly express anger when I am hurt or feel helpless or betrayed.
Yes
No
23. I do not think there should be any boundaries between me and my loved one.
Yes
No
24. Conflicts do not frighten me, and I feel able to cope with problems.
Yes
No
25. It is not uncommon for me to experience "emotional ups and downs" in long-term romantic relationships.
Yes
No
26. I tend to be reserved around people I do not know very well.
Yes
No
27. I am often overly affectionate or, on the contrary, emotionally distant toward my partner or other people close to me.
Yes
No
28. I know I deserve a healthy, happy relationship.
Yes
No
29. I want my partner to manage their own emotions and needs without my prompting.
Yes
No
30. If I feel hurt or offended, I think about ending the relationship immediately.
Yes
No
31. I do not feel that I need anything from the person I love.
Yes
No
32. I find it easy to listen to other people talk about their needs, and to talk about my own.
Yes
No
33. I often worry that my partner may reject me.
Yes
No
34. I do not like being alone, without a partner.
Yes
No
35. If my partner's behavior upsets me, I tell them how I feel and try to understand why they acted that way.
Yes
No
36. Relationships are often emotionally difficult for me.
Yes
No
37. I do not like making plans together.
Yes
No
38. Sometimes I feel that I am constantly demanding love and attention from my partner.
Yes
No
39. I find it difficult to trust my partner and often feel suspicious.
Yes
No
40. I feel it is normal to set boundaries.
Yes
No
41. I have threatened to leave more than once, and then changed my mind.
Yes
No
42. I try to avoid conflict, and criticism hurts me a lot.
Yes
No
43. I am not afraid of commitment, but I do not rush into relationships without first assessing the situation.
Yes
No
44. I am afraid that if I ask too much of my partner, they will leave me.
Yes
No
45. I pay more attention to my relationships than to myself.
Yes
No
46. I fall in love quickly, but I often doubt my partner and check up on them when we become truly close.
Yes
No
47. Sometimes the idea of commitment makes me feel afraid or weighed down, as if I were being trapped.
Yes
No
48. I often protect my territory, personal space, and belongings.
Yes
No
49. I am emotionally stable in romantic relationships.
Yes
No
50. I tend to go to extremes: at times I am very open, and at other times I need personal space and time for myself.
Yes
No
51. I find it easy to open up to people, and sometimes I share too much about myself.
Yes
No
52. I find it hard to show my feelings to other people.
Yes
No
53. I do not share much about myself, but I am not afraid to share my feelings with my partner.
Yes
No
54. I feel pressured when my partner expects too much physical affection.
Yes
No
55. I long for closeness, but I often fear seeming vulnerable with my partner.
Yes
No
56. It is much easier for me to sort out my emotions on my own than with someone else.
Yes
No
57. I would like to spend most of my free time with the person I love.
Yes
No
58. I find it easy to express my needs in the presence of my partner.
Yes
No
59. My partner usually recovers emotionally from conflict faster than I do.
Yes
No
60. I am very afraid that my loved one will leave me.
Yes
No