Emotional Abuse Questionnaire, EAQ Test - the question form
Questions: 52 · 10 minutes
1. I have to be careful and use tactics to avoid my partner's jealousy.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
2. My partner tries to control who I spend time with.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
3. Does not approve of any of my friends
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
4. Does not believe me when I say where I have been.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
5. Complains that I spend too much time with other people.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
6. Accuses me of flirting with other people.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
7. In conversations with other people, complains that I am ignoring them.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
8. Suspects me of being unfaithful.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
9. Acts like a detective, looking for evidence that I have done something wrong.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
10. Regularly monitors or checks up on me.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
11. Interferes with my ability to go where I want.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
12. Interferes with my ability to do what I want.
1 - Never
2 - Rarely
3 - Sometimes
4 - Very often
13. Says that I behave too seductively.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
14. Prevents me from spending time on things I enjoy.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
15. Threatens to take my car keys away if I do not do what he demands.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
16. Threatens to take away money if I do not do what is demanded.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
17. Threatens to take away my bank card if I do not do what he demands.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
18. Does not allow me to leave the house when I want to.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
19. Blocks my phone to prevent me from using it.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
20. Damages or disables the car to prevent me from using it.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
21. Threatens to take my phone away and hide it.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
22. Tries to physically restrict my movements.
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Very often
23. Acts jealous.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
24. Interferes with my spending time with the people I choose.
1 - Never
2 - Rarely
3 - Sometimes
4 - Very often
25. Tries to catch me in contradictions to make it seem like I am lying.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
26. Tries to convince other people that I am crazy.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
27. Tells other people that there is something wrong with me.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
28. Says things out of spite that hurt me.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
29. Tells me that I am sexually unattractive.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
30. Tells me that I am sexually inadequate.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
31. Insults my religion and beliefs.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
32. Insults or disparages my ethnic background.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
33. Insults my family.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
34. Pressures me to do things that later make me feel bad.
1 - Never
2 - Rarely
3 - Sometimes
4 - Very often
35. Says that no one else would want to be with me.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
36. Humiliates me in front of other people.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
37. Makes me do humiliating things.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
38. Questions my sanity.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
39. Shares my personal information and secrets with others.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
40. Swears at me.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
41. Expresses dissatisfaction with my personal qualities.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
42. Insults me by saying that I am incompetent (stupid).
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
43. Makes fun of me.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
44. Makes me do things against my will.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
45. Questions whether I love them.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
46. Compares me unfavorably to other partners.
1 - Never
2 - Rarely
3 - Sometimes
4 - Very often
47. Intentionally tries to frighten me.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
48. During arguments, threatens to physically harm me.
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Very often
49. Warns that they will use force if I keep doing something.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
50. Our arguments often get out of control.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
51. I worry most when my partner is silent.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often
52. When angry, drives too carelessly or too fast.
1 – Never
2 – Rarely
3 – Sometimes
4 – Very often