Definition of Socio-Psychological Distance, SPD Test - the question form

1. When resolving conflicts with this person, I always try to reach mutual understanding with him/her.

2. I find it quite difficult to tell him/her about my problems.

3. I feel a sense of closeness and shared connection when I am with this person.

4. I am always willing to be there for him/her.

5. I often praise people I hardly know.

6. Mutual understanding is a central feature of our relationship.

7. In my relationship with this person, I prefer to keep my emotions to myself.

8. I respect him/her.

9. I try to spend all my free time with this person.

10. I often gossip with someone.

11. I always try to understand his/her feelings, mood, and state.

12. I have no secrets from him/her.

13. My relationship with this person brings me joy and pleasure.

14. If I had the opportunity, I would try to spend more of my free time with this person.

15. My table manners at home are usually not as good as when I am a guest.

16. When difficulties arise in my relationship with this person, I make every effort to reach mutual understanding.

17. I trust this person even when others say something bad about them or something that is unpleasant for me to hear.

18. I have a constant interest in this person.

19. When I am near him/her for a long time, I feel quite comfortable.

20. When I do not feel well, I am irritable.

21. I always clearly understand his/her attitude toward me.

22. I believe everything this person tells me.

23. I often feel nervous, unsettled, and worried when I am with him/her.

24. Spending time together does not make me feel internally tense, nervous, or worried.

25. I often find an indecent or even obscene joke funny.

26. I always try to understand this person.

27. In our relationship, situations often arise when I cannot consult with him or talk about my problems.

28. I often feel hurt or offended by this person.

29. Spending time together (for example, on vacation or at home) rarely leads to conflicts, arguments, or disagreements between us.

30. I often have unpleasant thoughts that I would rather not tell anyone about.

31. I feel that there is mutual understanding in my relationship with him/her.

32. I try not to discuss stressful events in my life with this person.

33. When I am with him/her, I feel lonely.

34. I can always suggest an enjoyable shared activity or something we can do together.

35. At times, I find it hard to understand this person.

36. I always try to be honest in my relationship with this person.

37. We often feel hurt by each other.

38. I can not only spend leisure time (relax) with this person, but also work together with them to resolve various practical matters (work-related and everyday issues).

39. This person often misinterprets and misunderstands my mood and emotional state.

40. I always try to share my joy with this person.

41. Our relationship is friendly.