Communicative Reactions to Jealousy, CRJ Test - the question form
Questions: 52 · 10 minutes
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1. Physically distance myself from my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
2. I give my partner a cold or contemptuous look.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
3. I try to become less emotionally attached to my partner (spouse).
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
4. I ignore my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
5. I give my partner the silent treatment.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
6. I stop my partner (spouse) from trying to communicate with me or from demanding communication.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
7. Show my distrust of my partner (wife).
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
8. I express my indignation when I am around my female partner (wife).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
9. I pretend to be ill when I am around my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
10. I express annoyance and sadness in my partner’s presence.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
11. I start to feel hurt (cry) when I am with my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
12. I show my displeasure on my face so that my partner (wife) can see it.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
13. I slam doors loudly.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
14. I explain my feelings to my partner (spouse).
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
15. I tell my partner (spouse) about my jealousy.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
16. I discuss the problems that are bothering me with my partner (spouse).
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
17. I try to talk with my partner (wife) about the problem and reach a mutual understanding.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
18. I begin to doubt my partner’s actions and feelings.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
19. Yell at or swear at my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
20. I act aggressively toward my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
21. I make hurtful or insulting remarks to my female partner (wife).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
22. I argue or quarrel with my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
23. I express hurt feelings and accusations to my partner (wife).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
24. I become quiet and withdrawn with my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
25. I try to stay calm.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
26. Act as if I do not care.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
27. I act as if nothing happened.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
28. I do not admit to myself that I feel jealous.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
29. Use physical force.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
30. I threaten to harm my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
31. I severely beat my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
32. I push or shove my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
33. Hit my partner (spouse) or throw something at her.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
34. I check my partner’s phone calls and text messages.
Never
Very rarely
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Very often
Always
35. I check up on my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
36. I monitor my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
37. I go through my partner's belongings.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
38. I prevent my partner (spouse) from having any opportunity to see the rival.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
39. I check my partner's exact location.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
40. I call my partner (spouse) frequently.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
41. I try to strengthen our relationship or do something special for my partner.
Never
Very rarely
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Very often
Always
42. I try to reassure my partner (spouse) that I really love her.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
43. I try to be a better partner for her.
Never
Very rarely
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Very often
Always
44. I spend more time with my female partner (wife) than usual.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
45. I try to be attractive or more attractive than my rival.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
46. I make my partner (spouse) feel jealous.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
47. I try to get back at my partner (spouse).
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
48. I check on my partner's fidelity.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
49. I try to make my partner (wife) feel guilty.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
50. I threaten the rival.
Never
Very rarely
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Very often
Always
51. I resist the rival.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
52. Tell the rival not to see my partner (spouse) anymore.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
1. Physically distance myself from my partner (spouse).
Never
Very rarely
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Very often
Always
2. I give my partner a cold or contemptuous look.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
3. I try to become less emotionally attached to my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
4. I ignore my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
5. I give my partner the silent treatment.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
6. I prevent my partner from trying to communicate with others or from asking to do so.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
7. I show my distrust of my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
8. I express my indignation when I am with my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
9. Pretend to be ill when I am around my partner (spouse).
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
10. I show annoyance and sadness in front of my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
11. I become upset (cry) when I am with my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
12. I show displeasure on my face so that my partner can see it.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
13. I slam doors loudly.
Never
Very rarely
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Very often
Always
14. I explain my feelings to my partner (spouse).
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
15. I tell my partner (spouse) about my jealousy.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
16. I discuss the issues that are bothering me with my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
17. I try to discuss the issue with my partner and reach mutual understanding.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
18. I begin to doubt my partner’s actions and feelings.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
19. Yell at or swear at my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
20. I act harshly toward my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
21. I make hurtful or insulting remarks to my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
22. Argue or quarrel with my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
23. I express hurt feelings and accusations to my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
24. I become quiet and less talkative with my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
25. I try to stay calm.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
26. I act as if I do not care.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
27. I act as if nothing happened.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
28. I do not admit to myself that I feel jealous.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
29. I use physical force.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
30. I threaten to harm my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
31. I physically assault my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
32. I push or shove my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
33. Hit my partner (spouse) or throw an object at them.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
34. I check my partner’s phone calls and text messages.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
35. I check up on my partner (spouse).
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
36. I keep track of my partner (spouse) to monitor what they are doing.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
37. I look through my partner's belongings.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
38. I prevent my partner (spouse) from having the opportunity to see the rival.
Never
Very rarely
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Very often
Always
39. I check my partner's exact whereabouts.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
40. I call my partner often.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
41. I try to strengthen our relationship or do something special for my partner (spouse).
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
42. I try to show my partner (spouse) that I really love them.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
43. I try to be a better partner (spouse) for him.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
44. Spend more time with my partner (spouse) than usual.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
45. I try to be attractive, or more attractive than the rival.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
46. I make my partner (spouse) feel jealous.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
47. I try to get back at my partner (spouse).
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
48. I check on my partner’s fidelity.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
49. Make my partner feel guilty.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
50. I threaten my romantic rival.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always
51. I resist the rival.
1 - Never
2 - Very rarely
3 - Rarely
4 - Sometimes
5 - Often
6 - Very often
7 - Always
52. Tell the rival not to see my partner (spouse) anymore.
1 – Never
2 – Very rarely
3 – Rarely
4 – Sometimes
5 – Often
6 – Very often
7 – Always