Attachment Questionnaire for Parents for Older Teens Test - the question form
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1.
My mother rarely shows her love for me.
I am confident that, no matter what happens, my mother will love me.
Sometimes I am afraid that my mother does not love me.
2. Which statement best describes your relationship with your mother?
My mother supports and approves of my own decisions.
My mother lets me make my own decisions and does not take an interest in them.
My mother sometimes strongly controls my decisions and at other times hardly controls them; I often cannot understand why.
3.
often makes me angry when I do not receive the help I need.
rarely helps me and leaves me to deal with it on my own.
is someone I can always count on for help.
4. My mother has very little understanding of my goals and interests.
My mother values and respects my personal goals and interests.
My mother is skeptical about my personal goals and interests.
My mother has very little understanding of my goals and interests.
5. Which statement best describes your relationship with your mother?
My mother's involvement in my life varies from a lot to very little.
My mother respects my privacy.
My mother does not get involved in my life deeply enough.
6.
When I need help and support, I prefer not to burden my mother with my problems.
I often turn to my mother for help and support.
I feel a strong need for help and support from my mother, and I often do not get enough of it.
7. Which statement best describes your relationship with your mother?
I am not always sure that if I ask my mother for advice I will get what I want, but I hope so each time.
I rarely ask my mother for advice.
My mother is always willing to give me advice when I ask her.
8. My mother gives me the freedom to decide how I spend my free time.
My mother shows little interest in how I spend my free time.
My mother often changes the limits of my freedom for reasons that are unclear to me.
My mother gives me the freedom to decide how I spend my free time.
9.
I often share my joys and sorrows with my mother about what is happening.
When I share my feelings with my mother, I often worry that I will not get the response I am hoping for.
I usually tell my mother mainly about what is happening, rather than how I feel about it.
10. I would describe my relationship with my mother as:
unstable.
distant.
close.
1. Select the statement that best describes your relationship with your mother.
My mother rarely shows her love for me.
I am sure that, no matter what happens, my mother will love me.
Sometimes I am afraid that my mother does not love me.
2. My mother and my decision-making
My mother supports and approves of my own decisions.
My mother lets me make decisions on my own and does not take an interest in them.
My mother sometimes controls my decisions very strictly and other times hardly at all; I often cannot understand why.
3. In a difficult situation, my mother...
I often get angry when I do not receive the help I need from her.
rarely helps me and leaves me to handle it on my own.
is someone I can always count on for help.
4. My mother...
My mother values and respects my personal goals and interests.
My mother is skeptical about my personal goals and interests.
My mother has very little understanding of my goals and interests.
5. My mother’s involvement in my life is:
My mother’s involvement in my life varies from very involved to hardly involved at all.
My mother respects my personal privacy.
My mother does not take a deep enough interest in my life.
6.
When I need help and support, I prefer not to burden my mother with my problems.
I often turn to my mother for help and support.
I really need help and support from my mother, and I often feel I do not get enough.
7. When I need advice from my mother:
I am not always sure that if I ask my mother for advice I will get what I want, but each time I hope that I will.
I rarely ask my mother for advice.
My mother is always willing to give me advice when I ask her.
8. My mother...
My mother shows little interest in how I spend my free time.
My mother often changes the limits of my freedom for reasons that are unclear to me.
My mother lets me decide how to spend my free time.
9.
I often share my joys and troubles about what is happening with my mother.
When I share my feelings with my mother, I often worry that I will not get the response I am hoping for.
I mostly tell my mother about what is happening, rather than how I feel about it.
10. How would you describe your relationship with your mother?
I would describe my relationship with my mother as unstable.
I would describe my relationship with my mother as distant.
I would describe my relationship with my mother as close.