The level of secure attachment between mother and child aged 2-4 years Test - the question form
Questions: 38 · 7 minutes
1. I believe I need to teach my child to comply with society’s expectations, whether they want to or not.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
2. I try to ask my child what they think or want in a given situation.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
3. I plan the daily sequence of activities myself because my child is too young to take part in this.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
4. I believe that a child should obey the mother's demands without question.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
5. I try to pay attention to my child when their behavior changes for some reason.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
6. I do not understand why my child behaves in certain ways.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
7. It is important for the child to learn to go for walks without getting their clothes dirty.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
8. I offer my child only what is healthy for lunch, not what they want.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
9. I try not to give in to my child’s wishes when buying toys, and I buy them without my child present.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
10. I feel very sorry for my child when they cry in a public place, and I try to comfort them.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
11. If I have to be with my child all day, I become irritable.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
12. I would like my child to be more obedient.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
13. I am confident that my child will be successful in the future.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
14. I think it will be easy for my child to get along with other people.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
15. I feel that my child shows my own negative traits.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
16. I feel irritated when my child shows traits that remind me of relatives I do not like.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
17. To correct a child's behavior, punishment is more effective than encouragement.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
18. I love my child just as he or she is.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
19. I believe that a young child needs to be controlled.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
20. I prefer to dress my child myself rather than wait for them to do it on their own.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
21. When I buy my child a new toy, I first show them how to use it.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
22. I believe there is one best way to do all household tasks.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
23. If my child cannot do something, I immediately show them how to do it.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
24. I allow my child to choose what to wear on their own.
Always
Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never
25. I believe a child should do everything well.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
26. The child can be left alone at home.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
27. It is beneficial for the child to play alone.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
28. My child does not leave me time for my personal life.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
29. A child should deal with the problems that come up on their own.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
30. I do not have time to listen to my child's complaints.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
31. When my child has a tantrum in a public place, I feel embarrassed.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
32. If my child behaves aggressively toward other people, I prefer to ignore it.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
33. When someone speaks poorly about my child, I prefer to pretend I did not hear it.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
34. If my child cries, I try to comfort them.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
35. A parent should teach a child to cope with their problems on their own.
1 - Always
2 - Often
3 - Sometimes
4 - Rarely
5 - Never
36. I would like my child to continue the family traditions when choosing a profession.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
37. My child does not yet know how to match clothes properly, so I choose their clothes for them every day.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never
38. My child's drawings are impossible to make out, so I always help my child draw the shapes clearly.
1 – Always
2 – Often
3 – Sometimes
4 – Rarely
5 – Never