Should I Get an Abortion Quiz
Questions: 15 · 10 minutes
1. How does the idea of continuing the pregnancy without taking on the long-term parenting role feel to you?
It has some appeal, although I am unsure whether I could go through pregnancy and placement.
It does not fit; I would prefer either abortion or parenting.
It fits my wish to continue the pregnancy while having another family parent the child.
I would consider it, but it currently feels less aligned than another option.
2. Which statement best reflects how abortion fits your personal values in this pregnancy?
It conflicts with values that are central to the choice I would make.
It could fit my values, but another option presently feels somewhat closer.
It fits my values clearly enough that I would seriously prefer it.
Some of my values support it while others pull me toward continuing the pregnancy.
3. Picture yourself a few years from now raising a child from this pregnancy. What stands out most?
The picture feels meaningful and closely connected to the future I want.
I can see some rewarding elements, but the overall future does not feel like my preferred one.
The picture does not fit how I want my life to develop.
The picture has genuine appeal alongside serious concerns about what it would require.
4. Looking realistically at the support available to you, which statement comes closest?
There are gaps, but enough support and personal willingness that parenting feels workable.
Available support does not change that I would prefer not to parent from this pregnancy.
Support is uncertain, and I am not sure whether my wish to parent is strong enough.
I can identify realistic support and have a strong wish to take on the parenting role.
5. Imagine meeting with an independent professional to learn about open, semi-open, and closed adoption arrangements. What would you most likely do?
I would attend mainly to confirm whether adoption is unsuitable for me.
I would engage seriously because choosing an adoption arrangement feels personally plausible.
I would not explore adoption because carrying and placing the pregnancy is not an option I want.
I would explore the arrangements with genuine interest while remaining uncertain about placement.
6. Imagine that reliable emotional and financial support became available for any option. What would happen to your preference for abortion?
I would still prefer abortion because the preference is not mainly about missing support.
I would probably choose to continue the pregnancy instead.
I would remain genuinely divided between abortion and continuing the pregnancy.
I would still lean toward abortion, though the added support would make me reconsider.
7. When you imagine the ordinary routines of caring for a baby—feeding, disrupted sleep, appointments, and daily responsibility—how do you respond?
The routines seem demanding, but I can picture choosing them with adequate support.
I feel a meaningful willingness to build my life around those responsibilities.
I can picture parts of it, although I currently lean away from becoming a parent now.
I do not want to take on the parenting role arising from this pregnancy.
8. When you consider the possibility of ongoing contact with the child and adoptive family, which response fits best?
Choosing an appropriate level of contact could make adoption strongly compatible with my wishes.
Contact questions matter, but my main preference remains not to choose adoption.
The possibility makes adoption somewhat more imaginable, though I still lean elsewhere.
I would need detailed discussion about boundaries and expectations before knowing whether adoption fits.
9. Which statement best reflects the emotional meaning of adoption for you?
It could express values important to me while allowing someone else to take on parenting.
I can understand its value, but choosing it myself feels emotionally incompatible with what I want.
It has some personal meaning, although the emotional impact of placement gives me serious pause.
I have some openness to it, but another path currently feels more consistent with my values.
10. Suppose you concluded that parenting was not workable, but part of you still wanted to continue the pregnancy. How would adoption fit?
I would seriously pursue adoption as the path that best connects those two realities.
I would gather information, but I would remain torn between adoption and abortion.
I would probably choose abortion rather than pregnancy and placement.
I might briefly consider adoption, though it would not be my likely choice.
11. Suppose obtaining an abortion would require arranging an appointment, transportation, or time away from responsibilities. How would that affect your interest?
I would probably explore the steps, then decide whether the practical demands felt manageable.
I would not pursue those arrangements because continuing the pregnancy fits me better.
I would consider abortion mainly if my circumstances became more difficult.
I would make the arrangements because abortion would remain my preferred path.
12. When you imagine yourself several months after an abortion, which description feels most plausible?
I might have complex feelings, but I would likely view it as the decision that fit me best.
I mainly imagine wishing I had continued the pregnancy.
I can imagine some relief or fit, but also substantial uncertainty about the decision.
I find it difficult to picture, and continuing the pregnancy currently feels somewhat more fitting.
13. When you picture receiving confirmation that you are pregnant, which response feels closest to your own preference?
I would want time to consider abortion, but I would initially lean toward continuing the pregnancy.
Continuing the pregnancy would feel more aligned with what I want.
I would feel a clear personal pull toward ending the pregnancy.
I would lean toward ending the pregnancy while still feeling significant conflict.
14. Suppose parenting required substantial changes to work, education, housing, or relationships. Which response fits best?
I would rather protect my current direction than reorganize it around parenting.
I would consider a few changes, but major changes would make me lean toward another option.
I would work through major changes because parenting would remain my preferred path.
I would explore concrete adjustments before deciding whether parenting was workable.
15. If abortion, parenting, and adoption were equally accessible and supported, how would parenting compare?
Parenting would be my clear preference.
Parenting would remain a possibility, but another option would probably fit better.
I would not choose parenting even with strong practical support.
Parenting would be one of two options I would seriously consider.