Self-Report Jealousy Scale, SRJS Test - the question form
Questions: 25 · 5 minutes
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1. Your partner says she would like both of you to be able to pursue romantic relationships with other people.
1 – Willingly accepted it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
2. Your partner is spending an increasing amount of time at work with a coworker whom you feel your partner might find sexually attractive.
1 – Noted it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
3. Your partner suddenly becomes interested in going to a party after finding out that someone she previously had a romantic relationship with will be there.
1 - Noted it
2 - Slightly upset
3 - Upset
4 - Very upset
5 - Extremely upset
4. At a party, your partner is hugging someone else closely.
1 – Took note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
5. You repeatedly notice that your partner is glancing at someone else.
1 – Took note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
6. Your partner spends an increasing amount of time away from home, doing activities or hobbies that do not interest you.
1 – Took note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
7. At a party, your partner is kissing someone you do not know.
1 – Noted it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
8. Your supervisor, with whom you previously had a good working relationship, now seems more interested in a coworker’s work.
1 – Took it in stride
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
9. Your partner goes to a bar in the evenings several times without you.
1 – Accepted it as a fact
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
10. Your partner has recently received a promotion, and the new position requires spending a significant amount of time traveling, attending business lunches and parties, and you are not invited to most of them.
1 – Not bothered; took note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
11. At a party, your partner is dancing with someone you do not know.
1 – Noted it without concern
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
12. You and a coworker have both worked very hard on an extremely important project. However, your boss gives all the credit to your coworker.
1 – Took note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
13. Someone flirts with your partner.
1 – I took note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
14. At a party, your partner repeatedly kisses someone you do not know.
1 – Accepted it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
15. Your partner has sexual relations with someone else.
1 – I would take note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
16. Your brother or sister was given more freedom than you (for example, allowed to stay up later or trusted to drive the family car).
1 – Willing to accept it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
17. Your partner tells you her opinion about how attractive another man is.
1 – Took note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
18. At a get-together with a group of friends, your partner spends very little time talking with you but is constantly engaged in lively conversations with others.
Accept it and take note of it
Slightly upset
Upset
Very upset
Extremely upset
19. Your grandparents come to stay with your family, and it seems they give almost all their attention to your brother or sister rather than to you.
1 – Took notice
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
20. Your partner flirts with someone else.
1 – Noted it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
21. You feel that your brother or sister receives more love and/or attention from your parents.
1 – I take note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
22. You have just found out that your partner is having an affair with someone at work.
1 – Took note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
23. A person who has been your assistant at work for several years decides to take a similar position at another company.
1 – Accepted it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
24. A group you belong to clearly leaves you out of shared plans, activities, etc.
1 – Took note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
25. Your best friend suddenly shows interest in spending time with someone else.
1 – Barely bothered
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
1. Your partner expresses a desire for each of you to be able to pursue romantic relationships with other people (outside the relationship).
1 – Accepted it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
2. Your partner is spending an increasing amount of time at work with a colleague whom you feel your partner could find sexually attractive.
Willing to take note of it
Slightly upset
Upset
Very upset
Extremely upset
3. Your partner suddenly becomes interested in going to a party after learning that a woman your partner previously had a romantic relationship with will be there.
1 – Took note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
4. At a party, your partner is hugging someone else closely.
1 – Noted it without concern
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
5. You repeatedly notice your partner looking at another woman.
1 – Took note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
6. Your partner is spending an increasing amount of time away from home, doing tasks or hobbies that do not interest you.
1 – Took note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
7. At a party, your partner is kissing a woman you do not know.
1 – Noted it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
8. Your supervisor, with whom you previously had a good working relationship, now seems more interested in a coworker’s work.
Would accept it
Slightly upset
Upset
Very upset
Extremely upset
9. Your partner goes to a bar several evenings without you.
1 – Noted it and accepted it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
10. Your partner has recently been promoted, and the new position requires spending a significant amount of time traveling, attending business lunches and parties, most of which you are not invited to.
1 – Took note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
11. At a party, your partner is dancing with a woman you do not know.
1 – Noted it without concern
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
12. You and a coworker have both worked very hard on an extremely important project. However, your supervisor gives all the credit to your coworker.
1 - Would accept it
2 - Slightly upset
3 - Upset
4 - Very upset
5 - Extremely upset
13. Someone flirts with your partner.
1 – Took note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
14. At a party, your partner repeatedly kisses a woman you do not know.
1 – Noted it without concern
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
15. Your partner has sexual relations with someone else.
1 – Was willing to take note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
16. Your brother or sister was given more freedom than you (for example, allowed to stay up later or trusted to drive the family car).
1 – Noted it and accepted it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
17. Your partner tells you how attractive another woman is.
1 – Took note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
18. At a social gathering with a group of friends, your partner spends very little time talking with you but is constantly engaged in lively conversations with others.
1 – Took note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
19. Your grandparents come to stay with your family, and it seems they give almost all their attention to your brother or sister rather than to you.
1 – Noted it and accepted it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
20. Your partner flirts with someone else.
1 – Noted it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
21. You feel that your brother or sister receives more love and/or attention from your parents than you do.
1 – Noted it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
22. You have just found out that your partner is having an affair with someone at work.
1 – Took note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
23. A person who has been your assistant at work for several years decides to take a similar position at another company.
1 – I would take note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
24. A group you belong to clearly leaves you out of shared plans, activities, etc.
1 – Noted it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset
25. Your best friend suddenly shows interest in doing things with someone else.
1 – Took note of it
2 – Slightly upset
3 – Upset
4 – Very upset
5 – Extremely upset