Relationship Profile Test, RPT - the question form
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1. Other people seem more confident than I am.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
2. I am easily hurt by criticism.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
3. Having to be responsible for something makes me feel worried.
1 – Not at all true of me
2 – Rather not true of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather true of me
5 – Very true of me
4. I feel much more comfortable when someone else takes responsibility.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
5. Others do not realize how much their words can hurt me.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
6. It is important to me that other people like me.
1 – Not at all true of me
2 – Rather not true of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather true of me
5 – Very true of me
7. I would rather give in and keep a peaceful relationship with my partner than stand my ground and win an argument.
1 – Not at all true of me
2 – Mostly not true of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat true of me
5 – Very true of me
8. I am happy when someone else is in charge.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
9. When I argue with someone, I worry that our relationship could be damaged for a long time.
1 – Not at all true of me
2 – Somewhat untrue of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat true of me
5 – Very true of me
10. I sometimes agree with things I do not really believe in order to be liked by others.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather not characteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
11. Other people expect too much of me.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
12. When someone gets too close to me, I try to distance myself.
1 – Not at all true of me
2 – Mostly not true of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Mostly true of me
5 – Very true of me
13. From time to time, I need to withdraw from everything around me.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
14. I would like to have more time to myself.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
15. I prefer to make decisions on my own, without relying on other people's opinions.
1 - Not at all characteristic of me
2 - Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 - Not sure
4 - Somewhat characteristic of me
5 - Very characteristic of me
16. I do not like to share too much personal information about myself.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very strongly characteristic of me
17. I sometimes worry about other people's motives.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
18. I feel happy when I work independently.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
19. It is very important to me to be independent and self-sufficient.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
20. When things are not going very well, I try to hide my feelings and be strong.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
21. I believe that most people are good at heart and have good intentions.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – I don't know
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
22. I am able to share my deepest thoughts and feelings with people I know well.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
23. I feel comfortable asking others for help.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
24. I do not worry about how other people see me.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
25. I often compromise with people who are cooperative.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
26. My relationships with others are exactly as I would like them to be—even if I could, I would not change anything.
1 – Not at all true of me
2 – Somewhat untrue of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat true of me
5 – Very true of me
27. I see myself as someone who can cope well with disappointments and setbacks.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
28. In my relationships with others, I feel comfortable both offering help to people who need it and asking others for support when I need it.
1 – Not at all true of me
2 – Mostly not true of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Mostly true of me
5 – Very true of me
29. When I argue with someone, I am confident that our relationship will be repaired.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
30. I find it easy to trust other people.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
1. Other people seem more confident than I am.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
2. I am easily hurt by criticism.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very strongly characteristic of me
3. Having to be responsible for something makes me feel anxious.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
4. I feel much more comfortable when someone else takes responsibility.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
5. Others do not realize how much their words can hurt my feelings.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
6. It is important to me that other people like me.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Unsure
4 – Rather characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
7. I would rather give in and maintain a peaceful relationship with my partner than stand my ground and win an argument.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
8. I am happiest when someone else is in charge.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
9. When I argue with someone, I worry that our relationship may be damaged for a long time.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
10. I sometimes agree with things I do not truly believe in so that others will like me.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
11. Other people expect too much of me.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
12. When someone gets too close to me, I tend to pull away.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
13. From time to time, I need to distance myself from everything around me.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
14. I would like to have more time to myself.
1 - Not at all characteristic of me
2 - Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 - Not sure
4 - Rather characteristic of me
5 - Very characteristic of me
15. I prefer to make decisions on my own, without relying on other people's opinions.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
16. I do not like to share too much personal information about myself.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
17. I sometimes worry about other people's motives.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
18. I am happy when I work independently.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
19. Being independent and self-sufficient is very important to me.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very strongly characteristic of me
20. When things are not going very well, I try to hide my feelings and be strong.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
21. I believe that most people are good at heart and have good intentions.
1 - Not at all characteristic of me
2 - Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 - Not sure
4 - Rather characteristic of me
5 - Very characteristic of me
22. I can share my most private thoughts and feelings with people I know well.
1 – Not at all true of me
2 – Mostly not true of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Mostly true of me
5 – Very true of me
23. I feel comfortable asking others for help.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
24. I do not worry about how other people perceive me.
1 - Not at all characteristic of me
2 - Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 - Not sure
4 - Rather characteristic of me
5 - Very characteristic of me
25. I often compromise with people who are cooperative.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Rather uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
26. My relationships with other people are exactly as I would like them to be—even if I could, I would not change anything.
1 – Not at all true of me
2 – Rather untrue of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Rather true of me
5 – Very much true of me
27. I see myself as someone who can cope well with disappointments and obstacles.
1 – Not at all true of me
2 – Somewhat untrue of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat true of me
5 – Very true of me
28. In my relationships with others, I feel comfortable both offering help to people who need it and asking others for support when I need it.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
29. When I have an argument with someone, I am confident that our relationship will recover.
1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
30. I find it easy to trust people.
1 – Not at all uncharacteristic of me
2 – Somewhat uncharacteristic of me
3 – Not sure
4 – Somewhat characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me