Is He Losing Interest Quiz
Questions: 15 · 10 minutes
1. When you tell him about something personally important, how does he tend to respond afterward?
He listens politely in the moment but rarely asks about it later.
He often remembers details and follows up without prompting.
He listens and sometimes follows up, depending on the subject.
He regularly redirects the conversation or closes the topic quickly.
2. When plans for the next few weeks come up, how does he usually participate?
He readily commits when his schedule allows, even if I raised the idea.
He stays vague and rarely turns possibilities into actual plans.
He proposes ideas or helps choose specific dates.
He repeatedly avoids or declines plans without suggesting alternatives.
3. During a busy week, how does he usually approach making time to communicate?
He repeatedly avoids choosing a time or lets proposed plans lapse.
He accepts a time, though I usually handle the coordination.
He identifies a realistic time or offers an alternative that works.
He says he is busy and leaves the timing unresolved.
4. When you share good news, what response do you most often receive from him?
He responds warmly, though sometimes only briefly.
He usually responds minimally or changes the subject without engaging.
He shows interest and celebrates in a way that feels genuine to your relationship.
He acknowledges it, but his reaction often feels emotionally neutral.
5. You spend time together after he has had a stressful day. Which pattern is most typical?
He explains that his energy is low but still makes some room to connect.
He seems detached and uninterested across many meetings, not just stressful days.
He remains engaged enough to share, listen, or enjoy the time together.
He is mostly distracted, with only occasional moments of engagement.
6. Suppose he misses a call or cannot make an agreed time to talk. What is his usual response?
He acknowledges it, but leaves rescheduling fairly open-ended.
He responds warmly if I suggest another time, but rarely proposes one himself.
He explains and suggests another specific time reasonably soon.
He gives little acknowledgment and usually does not revisit the plan.
7. Relative to your established comfort level, what has happened to affectionate behavior?
It fluctuates in understandable ways but returns naturally.
It has noticeably decreased without much discussion.
It feels similar to before and remains mutually comfortable.
He consistently withdraws from familiar affection and avoids addressing the change.
8. Over the past four weeks, who has usually started your meaningful conversations?
He has started them at least as often as I have.
I have started almost all of them.
I have started somewhat more of them.
The effort has been fairly balanced, with small week-to-week changes.
9. Compared with your own earlier baseline, how has his communication changed recently?
It has become somewhat less frequent or less engaged.
It has stayed broadly similar overall.
There has been a clear, sustained drop in both frequency and engagement.
It has become more frequent, warmer, or more proactive.
10. How does he include you in relevant parts of his everyday life?
He includes me naturally when it makes sense for our type of relationship.
He keeps more areas separate than before, while offering practical reasons.
He includes me selectively, depending on the setting and timing.
He consistently excludes me from relevant situations or avoids acknowledging the connection.
11. When a text conversation pauses unexpectedly, what most often happens next?
He usually returns later and continues the conversation naturally.
He replies eventually, although the original conversation may not fully resume.
I generally have to begin a new topic before we talk again.
His later replies are often shorter, with little attempt to pick things back up.
12. What best describes his follow-through on plans he has agreed to?
He often lets plans drop and does not try to reschedule.
He occasionally changes plans but gives notice and explains.
He is generally reliable and communicates promptly when something changes.
Changes happen repeatedly, although he sometimes attempts to rearrange them.
13. How clear do his words and actions make the current direction of your relationship?
His words and actions send noticeably mixed messages.
The direction is generally clear, with a few open questions.
He avoids clarifying what he wants even after calm attempts to discuss it.
His words and actions are consistent enough that we understand where we stand.
14. During quiet or unstructured time together, how would you describe the emotional atmosphere?
There are occasional distant moments, but connection usually returns.
He often seems emotionally elsewhere even when distractions are limited.
The quiet generally feels comfortable or connected.
Detachment feels sustained, with little attempt to reconnect.
15. You calmly mention that the relationship feels different lately. How does he respond?
He asks for time to think and returns to the conversation as agreed.
He repeatedly shuts the discussion down or refuses to revisit it.
He engages with the concern and shares his perspective, even if it is difficult.
He offers brief reassurance but avoids discussing the pattern itself.