Is He Flirting with Me Quiz
Questions: 15 · 10 minutes
1. You catch his eye from across the room. What most often follows?
He holds the look briefly, smiles, and later finds a reason to approach me.
He acknowledges me with the same quick expression he gives other acquaintances.
He smiles or holds eye contact a little longer, but nothing else usually follows.
We make brief eye contact without a clear change in his behavior.
2. You enter a room where he is already talking with other people. What is most typical?
He notices me if I join his immediate conversation.
He acknowledges me much as he would anyone else arriving.
He visibly brightens, makes room for me, or soon seeks me out.
He gives me a warm acknowledgment and reconnects when there is an opening.
3. How does he behave when the subject of dating or relationships comes up?
He discusses it generally without connecting the topic to either of us.
He seems interested but keeps his comments broad or indirect.
He asks about my dating situation or lightly tests how I respond to the idea of us dating.
He brings up my relationship status or his own availability in a way that could be intentional.
4. When an agreed plan becomes difficult for him, how does he handle it?
He explains and actively offers another specific time.
He lets me know but leaves any rescheduling for later.
He usually follows through, so this situation rarely arises.
The plan tends to fade without a clear attempt to revive it.
5. When the two of you joke together, which description fits best?
Our humor is mostly about the situation or things happening around us.
There is occasional playful teasing or an inside joke between us.
He joins in when I start joking but rarely creates a special tone himself.
He frequently creates affectionate banter, callbacks, or playful tension specifically with me.
6. Compared with the way he treats other people, how distinctive is his manner with you?
He is somewhat warmer with me, although he is naturally expressive with many people.
His friendliness toward me appears consistent with his usual style.
There are small differences, but they are subtle and inconsistent.
He repeatedly uses a more playful, attentive, or personally charged tone with me.
7. He mentions an activity you both enjoy. What does he usually do next?
He treats it as a shared interest without suggesting plans.
He says that doing it together could be fun but leaves the idea open.
He agrees enthusiastically if I suggest going together.
He proposes a specific time or follows up to turn the idea into a one-on-one plan.
8. Across several weeks—not just one especially good interaction—what pattern do you see?
His interest appears in brief bursts and then becomes hard to detect.
His contact and effort remain steady, with repeated attempts to deepen the connection.
There is some continuing momentum, though it rises and falls with circumstances.
Most interactions depend on coincidence, routine, or my initiative.
9. How do his compliments toward you usually sound?
They are mainly practical acknowledgments, such as praising work I did.
They are personal and specific, and he delivers them with noticeably warm or suggestive energy.
He gives me friendly compliments much like those he gives other people.
They sometimes focus on my appearance, personality, or qualities he seems to notice closely.
10. How often does he create opportunities to spend time with you beyond your usual shared setting?
He occasionally joins or suggests group activities where we can talk.
He regularly suggests one-on-one time or extends an interaction so we can stay together longer.
We mainly interact where work, school, friends, or routine already place us together.
He sometimes looks for extra time with me, though the plans are not always clearly one-on-one.
11. What tends to happen after you mention a small personal detail, such as a favorite snack or an upcoming plan?
He may recognize the topic later but does not seem to remember the detail.
He remembers it and later uses it to start another personal conversation.
He rarely refers to it again.
He remembers some details and occasionally asks how things turned out.
12. When you share an opinion or story, what kind of response does he usually give?
He listens but keeps his response centered on the broader topic.
He asks specific follow-up questions and seems curious about how I think or feel.
He responds warmly but does not often explore it further.
His response is similar to the general courtesy he shows other people.
13. When you exchange messages, how much interest does he show in extending the conversation?
He answers and sometimes adds a related comment or question.
His replies are usually brief and close the topic naturally.
He regularly introduces new topics, asks follow-ups, or finds reasons to keep talking.
He responds politely but usually leaves me to continue the exchange.
14. During a group conversation, how does he usually engage with you?
He interacts with me about as much as he interacts with everyone else.
He repeatedly looks for my reaction and brings me back into the conversation.
He focuses on me mainly when the topic directly involves me.
He gives me somewhat more attention than others, though not throughout the conversation.
15. If you stop initiating contact for a while, what tends to happen?
He eventually checks in or starts a fresh conversation on his own.
Contact usually pauses until circumstances bring us together again.
He sometimes reaches out, but the timing and effort vary considerably.
He responds warmly when we reconnect but rarely initiates first.