Does My Ex Miss Me Quiz
Questions: 15 · 10 minutes
1. Compared with how your ex interacts with casual friends, how personal does their communication with you seem?
It appears similarly polite and general.
It is somewhat warmer, but the difference is subtle.
It often includes noticeably personal attention or emotional warmth.
It sometimes feels more personal, especially in longer conversations.
2. Your ex says it would be nice to see you sometime. What tends to happen next?
They suggest a specific plan and reliably follow through or reschedule.
The idea remains vague and is not revisited.
They later say they would rather not meet.
A plan is discussed, but their follow-through is inconsistent.
3. If the breakup itself is mentioned, what emotional tone does your ex usually show?
They can acknowledge feelings or regrets and reflect on the experience.
They speak about it briefly and mostly in factual terms.
They show some feeling but keep the discussion fairly guarded.
They avoid the subject or indicate that they do not want to revisit it.
4. During the past six to eight weeks, who has usually started conversations that were not required for practical reasons?
I have started nearly all of them.
We have started them about equally often.
My ex has started most of them.
I have started more, though my ex has initiated once or twice.
5. When something important happens in your life, how does your ex tend to respond if they know about it?
They usually reach out directly and later follow up.
They do not usually contact me about it.
They acknowledge it briefly, often through a reaction or short message.
They sometimes send a personal message, though follow-up varies.
6. If you suggest moving slowly and seeing whether trust can be rebuilt, how does your ex respond?
They accept the idea but make few concrete efforts afterward.
They say they are not interested in rebuilding the relationship.
They respect the pace and consistently take mutually agreed steps.
They respect the pace and take some steps, though momentum varies.
7. When shared memories come up, how does your ex usually engage with them?
They discuss them mainly as neutral facts when prompted.
They often bring them up and describe what those moments meant to them.
They generally avoid or quickly move past them.
They sometimes recall them warmly or add details of their own.
8. After a practical matter—such as returning an item—is resolved, what does your ex typically do?
They sometimes add a personal comment or question.
They usually end the exchange once the matter is settled.
They often keep the conversation going with personal topics.
They continue if I introduce another topic, but rarely do so themselves.
9. During a conversation, you mention a challenge you are facing. How is your ex most likely to respond?
They acknowledge it politely but do not explore it further.
They ask thoughtful questions and check back later.
They listen and ask a question, but usually do not follow up.
They keep the conversation brief or redirect it to practical matters.
10. Suppose you stop carrying a conversation and leave room for your ex to decide whether to continue. What usually happens?
They often introduce another topic or contact me again later.
They sometimes continue, depending on the conversation.
The exchange usually ends unless I restart it.
They may send one more response, but rarely build on it.
11. Looking at the overall pattern rather than one message, how regularly has your ex checked in without needing something?
They have checked in once, but it did not become a pattern.
They have checked in repeatedly and fairly consistently.
They have not checked in on their own.
They have checked in occasionally, with long or unpredictable gaps.
12. Which description best matches the relationship between your ex’s words and actions?
Their affectionate words are followed by occasional effort, but not reliably.
They consistently follow warm or hopeful words with respectful action.
They have not expressed or acted on an interest in reconnecting.
They sometimes sound nostalgic, but their behavior remains unchanged.
13. How much curiosity does your ex show about the person you are now, rather than relying on what they knew during the relationship?
They frequently ask specific questions and remember my answers.
They occasionally ask personal questions but do not explore much further.
They show little curiosity beyond basic updates.
They show genuine curiosity in some conversations, though not consistently.
14. How directly has your ex talked about the possibility of rebuilding a relationship?
They have clearly said they do not want to revisit the relationship.
They have hinted at wondering about us without saying what they want.
They have acknowledged ongoing feelings but remain uncertain about action.
They have clearly asked to explore reconnecting together.
15. When past relationship problems are discussed, what does your ex contribute?
They can name specific changes and show those changes through behavior.
They acknowledge that problems existed but stay fairly general.
They discuss what they learned and suggest how things could be different.
They prefer not to examine the problems or future implications.