Can I Trust Him Quiz
Questions: 15 · 10 minutes
1. If he realizes that he gave you inaccurate information, what usually follows?
He acknowledges it clearly, corrects the record, and takes responsibility for its impact.
He corrects it, although he may minimize why it mattered.
He admits only the parts that I can already demonstrate.
He continues denying or rewriting events despite clear inconsistencies.
2. How well do his interactions with former partners or potential romantic interests match your exclusivity agreement?
The interactions regularly seem to cross what we agreed, and my concerns remain unresolved.
Most interactions fit our agreement, but one or two patterns still feel ambiguous.
He stays within the boundaries we discussed and addresses gray areas openly.
I have noticed repeated loopholes or technical excuses around the agreement.
3. You learn an important detail about his recent dating life from someone else. Which response would best resemble his usual pattern?
He would likely explain the context, answer questions, and recognize why hearing it elsewhere affected me.
He would probably discuss some of it while insisting the rest should not matter.
He would be more focused on who told me than on giving a clear account.
He would likely offer shifting versions or pressure me to disregard what I learned.
4. When you want time with friends, family, or by yourself, how does he respond?
He generally supports it, although he occasionally needs reassurance about our connection.
He respects my independence and does not frame ordinary time apart as disloyalty.
He often makes the choice emotionally costly through guilt, suspicion, or repeated checking.
He tries to prevent it, retaliates afterward, or insists on controlling where I go and whom I see.
5. Looking across the relationship rather than at one especially good or bad week, how predictable is his treatment of you?
It changes so sharply that I often cannot anticipate which version of him I will encounter.
It is mostly steady, with occasional shifts that we can usually address.
It is fairly unpredictable, especially when commitment or accountability comes up.
It remains reliably caring and engaged across ordinary and stressful periods.
6. How openly does he discuss his expectations for exclusivity and commitment?
His position stays vague enough that I am unsure whether we mean the same thing.
We have discussed it clearly, including what exclusivity means in practical situations.
We have a general understanding, but some details have not been explored.
He avoids defining it while expecting me to behave as though the rules are settled.
7. After promising to handle something important to the relationship, how does he typically respond?
He may need reminders, and the promise sometimes remains unfinished.
His follow-through varies depending on the issue or how busy he is.
He takes ownership and follows through, including updating me if there is a delay.
He tends to avoid the topic or acts as though the promise was never made.
8. Imagine someone openly flirts with him while you are not present. Based on his demonstrated behavior, what do you expect?
He would likely enjoy the attention while avoiding any clear statement about being exclusive.
I am not fully sure; his response seems to depend on the person or setting.
He would respond in a way that clearly maintains the commitment we made.
Past behavior suggests he would conceal or pursue the interaction despite our agreement.
9. When he makes plans with you several days ahead, what usually happens?
He usually confirms and follows through, or gives timely notice if something genuinely changes.
Plans happen more often than not, though confirmation or timing can be inconsistent.
I often have to chase him for confirmation or prepare for a last-minute change.
Plans are frequently abandoned, denied, or changed after I have arranged my time around them.
10. After you clearly say that you are not comfortable with something, what most often happens?
He accepts the limit without repeatedly bargaining, sulking, or making affection conditional.
He respects it, though he may need a brief conversation to understand my perspective.
He stops for the moment but brings pressure back in other ways later.
He treats my limit as something to overcome or ignores it altogether.
11. How closely do his affectionate words match his everyday effort?
The match is unpredictable; strong words may be followed by long periods of little effort.
His care is visible in regular actions, not only in what he says.
There is a general match, although certain situations leave me uncertain.
His words and actions repeatedly point in opposite directions.
12. Suppose he is unusually unavailable for a day. What best matches the larger pattern afterward?
He reconnects naturally and offers enough context for the change to make sense.
He reconnects, but I am left with a few unanswered questions.
I get a vague explanation only after repeatedly asking.
His account changes, or he dismisses me for noticing the unexplained absence.
13. When you ask a reasonable question about something that does not add up, how does he tend to react?
He answers directly and is willing to clarify without turning the question into an attack on me.
He answers eventually, but may first become guarded or defensive.
He gives partial answers that leave me doing most of the detective work.
He regularly changes the subject, attacks my character, or contradicts basic facts.
14. During a disagreement, how possible is it for both of you to speak honestly about uncomfortable feelings?
Some honesty is possible, but certain subjects quickly become tense or closed.
I often edit myself because openness leads to deflection or prolonged withdrawal.
We can usually be frank, listen, and return to unresolved points without punishing each other.
Honest discussion rarely feels possible because facts or feelings are routinely distorted or dismissed.
15. A new situation exposes a gap in your exclusivity agreement. How is it usually handled?
We discuss the gray area and make a mutual decision before either person assumes permission.
We can usually reach an understanding, though one of us may initially make assumptions.
He tends to act first and argue afterward that the exact behavior was never prohibited.
He uses ambiguity to disregard the spirit of the agreement and refuses a shared boundary.