Attachment Questionnaire for Parents for Older Teenagers Test - the question form
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1. Which statement best describes your relationship with your father?
My father rarely shows his love for me.
I am sure that, no matter what happens, my father will love me.
Sometimes I am afraid that my father does not love me.
2.
My father supports and approves of my own decisions.
My father lets me make my own decisions and does not take an interest in them.
My father sometimes controls my decisions very strongly and at other times hardly controls them at all; I often cannot understand why.
3.
I often feel angry when I do not receive the help I need from my father in difficult situations.
In difficult situations, my father rarely helps me and expects me to handle things on my own.
In difficult situations, I can always rely on my father to help me.
4. Which statement best describes your relationship with your father?
My father values and respects my personal goals and interests.
My father is skeptical about my personal goals and interests.
My father has very little understanding of my goals and interests.
5. Select the statement that best describes your relationship with your father.
My father's involvement in my life varies from very involved to barely involved.
My father respects my privacy.
My father does not take a deep enough interest in my life.
6. When I need help and support from my father:
When I need help and support, I prefer not to burden my father with my problems.
I often turn to my father for help and support.
I need my father's help and support very much, and I often feel that I do not get enough of it.
7. When I need advice from my father:
I am not always sure that if I ask my father for advice I will get what I want, but I hope I will each time.
I rarely ask my father for advice.
My father is always willing to give me advice when I ask him.
8.
My father shows little interest in how I spend my free time.
My father often changes the limits of my freedom for reasons that are unclear to me.
My father lets me decide how to spend my free time.
9. When talking with my father, I mostly tell him what is happening rather than how I feel about it.
I often share my joys and sorrows with my father about what is happening.
When I share my feelings with my father, I often worry that I will not get the response I am hoping for.
I tell my father mainly about events that happen, rather than about my feelings about them.
10.
unstable.
distant.
close.
1. Which statement best describes your relationship with your father?
My father rarely shows his love for me.
I am sure that, no matter what happens, my father will love me.
Sometimes I am afraid that my father does not love me.
2.
My father supports and approves of my own decisions.
My father lets me make my own decisions and does not take an interest in them.
My father sometimes controls my decisions very strongly and sometimes hardly at all; I often cannot understand why.
3.
I often feel angry when I do not receive the help I need from my father in a difficult situation.
In a difficult situation, my father rarely helps me and leaves me to handle it on my own.
In a difficult situation, I can always count on my father's help.
4. My father values and respects my personal goals and interests.
My father values and respects my personal goals and interests.
My father is skeptical about my personal goals and interests.
My father has very little understanding of my goals and interests.
5. Which statement best describes your relationship with your father?
My father's involvement in my life varies from a lot to very little.
My father respects my privacy.
My father is not involved enough in my life.
6. Choose the statement that best describes your relationship with your father.
When I need help and support, I prefer not to burden my father with my problems.
I often turn to my father for help and support.
I have a strong need for my father’s help and support, and I often feel that I do not get enough of it.
7. When I need advice, my relationship with my father is best described by the following:
I am not always sure that if I ask my father for advice, I will get what I want, but I hope for it each time.
I rarely ask my father for advice.
My father is always willing to give me advice when I ask him.
8. Which statement best describes your relationship with your father?
My father is rarely interested in how I spend my free time.
My father often changes the limits of my freedom for reasons that are unclear to me.
My father lets me decide for myself how to spend my free time.
9.
I often share my joys and sorrows about what is happening with my father.
When I share my feelings with my father, I often worry that I will not get the response I am hoping for.
I mostly tell my father about what is happening, rather than how I feel about it.
10. I would describe my relationship with my father as:
unstable.
distant.
close.