Am I Too Obsessed with My Boyfriend Quiz
Questions: 15 · 10 minutes
1. After an ordinary conversation with your boyfriend, what usually happens in your mind?
I frequently replay details and search for meanings I may have missed.
I sometimes revisit a particular comment if it felt ambiguous.
I often replay parts of it and wonder whether his tone signaled something.
I generally let the conversation pass unless there was a clear issue.
2. When something interesting happens to you, how strongly does the urge to tell him shape the moment?
I enjoy telling him, but I can also simply experience the moment or share it elsewhere.
He is usually my first thought, though waiting to tell him feels easy.
The moment can feel incomplete until I have shared it with him.
I struggle to enjoy or process the moment if I cannot reach him promptly.
3. When you are uncertain about how your boyfriend feels, how do you usually seek reassurance?
I reflect on whether there is a specific issue, then raise it directly if needed.
I ask for reassurance once and can usually accept his response.
I ask in several ways because one answer does not settle the doubt for long.
I repeatedly test, question, or provoke him to obtain convincing proof.
4. A personal deadline is approaching, but your boyfriend wants extra time together. What would most likely happen?
I would postpone the work, even if that puts the goal or deadline at risk.
I would probably shorten my work session and accept some added pressure.
I would finish the priority first and suggest another time to connect.
I would make a modest adjustment if I could still meet the deadline comfortably.
5. Since this relationship became important, what has happened to hobbies or routines that are just yours?
They have mostly remained part of my regular life.
I make less time for some of them, but the ones I value most remain.
Several have faded because I usually prioritize relationship time.
I have set aside most of them and rarely pursue things independently.
6. How do you approach access to your boyfriend's phone, accounts, or location?
I see those as his private spaces unless we freely agree to share something specific.
I sometimes feel tempted to check, but I do not act without permission.
I seek regular access or location updates because they help calm my worry.
I check, demand access, or track him despite discomfort or unclear consent.
7. If you wake up knowing you will not see your boyfriend that day, how much does that fact color the day ahead?
It may cross my mind, but it does not usually set the tone for my day.
I feel some disappointment, then settle into the rest of my plans.
It noticeably affects my mood or makes the day feel less rewarding.
It can make the whole day feel empty or difficult to engage with.
8. If your boyfriend says he wants an evening alone, what reaction is closest to yours?
I can accept it while making my own plans, even if I would have enjoyed seeing him.
I feel a little unsettled and may ask when we can connect next.
I need repeated reassurance that his request does not mean his feelings have changed.
I pressure him to change his mind or keep contacting him throughout the evening.
9. Your message has been unread for longer than you expected. What are you most likely to do?
Wait and assume he will respond when he is able.
Check the conversation once or notice whether he is online, then return to my day.
Check repeatedly or send another message because the silence feels unsettling.
Keep messaging, calling, or tracking his activity until I get a response.
10. Suppose your boyfriend prefers a choice that differs from what you genuinely want. How do you tend to respond?
I often agree with him before fully considering my own preference.
I state my preference and look for a decision that respects both of us.
I may go along with him on smaller matters while protecting choices important to me.
I usually abandon my preference because disagreement or separation feels unbearable.
11. How connected do you currently feel to friends, family, communities, or interests outside your relationship?
Strongly connected; several parts of my life feel meaningful in their own right.
Reasonably connected, although the relationship receives more of my time now.
Somewhat disconnected because most of my energy goes toward the relationship.
Very disconnected; the relationship feels like nearly my entire social or personal world.
12. When you need to concentrate on work, study, or a practical task, how often do thoughts about your boyfriend pull you away?
Rarely; I can usually return my attention to the task without much effort.
Occasionally, especially if something important is happening between us.
Often enough that I lose time or need repeated effort to refocus.
Very often; thoughts about him can dominate even when the task matters.
13. You already have plans you value when your boyfriend offers a last-minute chance to meet. What are you most likely to do?
Keep my plans unless there is a meaningful reason to change them.
Check whether I can adjust both plans without creating much disruption.
Usually rearrange my plans because seeing him feels more important.
Drop my plans almost automatically, even if this disappoints me or someone else.
14. Your boyfriend posts a photo that includes someone you do not recognize. How would you typically respond?
Feel curious but wait for a natural opportunity to ask about the person.
Look at the post or profile for context before deciding whether to mention it.
Search for more clues and ask him for reassurance about what the person means to him.
Investigate extensively or confront him because not knowing feels intolerable.
15. You have an enjoyable evening planned without him. How much of the evening are you likely to spend mentally tracking what he might be doing?
A large part of it; imagining his evening would be hard to switch off.
Several moments throughout the evening, even while I am engaged in other things.
Perhaps once or twice, without it taking me out of the evening.
Very little; I would mostly be present with my own plans.