Am I Obsessed with My Crush Quiz
Questions: 15 · 10 minutes
1. Your crush directly says they need some space. Which response is closest to what you would do?
Stop initiating contact and let them decide whether to reconnect.
Respect the request while privately hoping they change their mind soon.
Look for indirect reasons to interact while avoiding an explicit conversation about the request.
Continue contacting them because staying connected feels more urgent than the request.
2. After you send a message and receive no reply, what do you usually do?
Wait and let them choose whether and when to respond.
Consider one follow-up later if there is a practical reason.
Send another message mainly to reduce my uncertainty.
Keep trying through repeated messages or another channel because waiting feels unbearable.
3. How does checking your crush’s social media fit into your typical day?
I may look when something appears naturally in my feed.
I sometimes visit their profile out of curiosity.
I check several times or look for clues about what they are doing and feeling.
I repeatedly monitor posts, activity, or connections even when I intend to stop.
4. How closely is your confidence tied to whether your crush seems interested in you?
Their interest can give me a boost, but it does not define how I see myself.
My confidence rises or falls somewhat depending on their behavior.
My sense of worth feels largely dependent on receiving their attention or approval.
My view of myself is grounded mainly in qualities and relationships beyond this crush.
5. How often do ordinary reminders—such as a song, place, or phrase—turn into an extended train of thought about your crush?
Sometimes, especially when the reminder feels personally meaningful.
Rarely; most reminders pass without holding my attention.
Very often; many unrelated things become connected to them in my mind.
Often enough that I regularly lose a few minutes to those thoughts.
6. During an otherwise quiet hour, how much of your attention usually goes to thinking about your crush?
They may cross my mind once, then my attention moves elsewhere.
I think about them a few times without losing track of what I am doing.
My thoughts return to them repeatedly and take some effort to redirect.
Most of the hour becomes thoughts, fantasies, or imagined conversations about them.
7. Suppose you hear that your crush may be interested in someone else. Which response is closest to yours?
I would feel disappointed while recognizing that their choices are separate from my worth.
I would dwell on it briefly and compare myself with the other person.
I would feel deeply shaken and question what is wrong with me.
It would affect my confidence and mood for a significant part of the day.
8. Your crush invites you to meet at a time already set aside for an important commitment. What are you most likely to do?
Cancel the commitment immediately because any chance to see my crush feels more important.
Try to rearrange the commitment, even if doing so creates some difficulty.
Keep the commitment but look for another time to meet.
Feel tempted to change plans, then weigh how important the existing commitment is.
9. When imagining a future interaction with your crush, which description fits best?
I occasionally picture one realistic interaction and then move on.
I enjoy imagining a few possibilities, usually when I have free time.
I repeatedly revise conversations or scenarios in my head.
I become absorbed in detailed scenarios that occupy substantial time or attention.
10. Your crush has not replied to a message by the time you expected. How does this usually affect your mood?
I notice some disappointment, but my mood remains mostly steady.
I feel noticeably unsettled and need time or distraction to recover.
My mood drops sharply, and it is hard to feel okay until they respond.
I remain open to several explanations and continue with my day.
11. A friend says conversations have started revolving around your crush. How would you most likely respond?
Recognize the pattern and make room for other topics and shared interests.
Feel surprised but try to notice how often I bring the crush up.
Explain why the crush matters so much, though I might later reconsider the balance.
Keep redirecting conversations back to the crush because little else feels as important.
12. On a good day when you have no contact with your crush, how complete does the day feel?
Mostly complete, though hearing from them would have added something pleasant.
Enjoyable in parts, but their absence leaves a noticeable emotional gap.
Incomplete; it is difficult to enjoy much without some sign of attention from them.
Complete in its own way because several other experiences can make my day meaningful.
13. As you are trying to fall asleep, what role do thoughts about your crush tend to play?
They often keep me awake or lead to long stretches of imagining and replaying events.
They appear fairly often, but I usually settle after spending some time on them.
They occasionally appear alongside many other thoughts from my day.
They rarely affect how quickly I settle down to sleep.
14. You are working on something important when a thought about your crush interrupts you. What typically happens next?
I follow the thought for a while and struggle to return to the task.
I spend a few minutes with the thought before getting back on track.
I notice it, briefly wonder about them, and continue working.
I can acknowledge it and return to the task almost immediately.
15. When you are uncertain about how your crush feels, what do you tend to need emotionally?
A little reassurance from friends, followed by time to let uncertainty exist.
Repeated discussion or interpretation to keep my anxiety manageable.
Direct reassurance from my crush; little else helps me feel settled.
Space to acknowledge the uncertainty without making it a judgment about me.