Am I a Stalker Quiz
Questions: 15 · 10 minutes
1. Someone clearly says, “Do not contact me again.” What best matches your response in a similar situation?
I stopped, except for communication they explicitly permitted or a necessary formal process.
I sent one final non-threatening acknowledgment and then stopped.
I continued trying to explain, apologize, argue, or obtain closure despite the request.
I refused the boundary and continued contacting them persistently.
2. What role have friends, relatives, coworkers, or children played in your attempts to reach someone?
I did not recruit other people to carry messages around a boundary.
I asked one person to pass along one neutral practical message, then stopped.
I repeatedly asked others to persuade the person, relay emotional messages, or report their response.
I pressured, deceived, or threatened others into helping me make contact.
3. When you wanted information about someone who was not responding to you, how did you involve other people?
I did not ask others to investigate or report on them.
I asked one mutual contact once whether they were doing okay.
I repeatedly asked friends, relatives, or coworkers where they were or who they were with.
I used deception, pressure, or someone’s privileged access to obtain private information.
4. Which description best fits times you appeared where another person was likely to be?
I was there for an independent, legitimate reason and did not use the situation to pressure them.
I changed my plans once in the hope of a chance encounter, then did not repeat it.
I repeatedly timed visits or routes to increase the chance of seeing them.
I waited outside their home, work, school, or another location, or followed them between places.
5. How have you handled gifts, letters, deliveries, or packages when the recipient was distant or unresponsive?
I did not send anything without a reasonable indication it would be welcome.
I sent one modest item, then stopped when it was not acknowledged or welcomed.
I sent multiple items despite silence, refusal, or visible discomfort.
I used repeated deliveries, disturbing contents, or items meant to show that I knew their location or routine.
6. What have you saved or organized about a person outside an ordinary practical need?
Only routine information needed for a current, legitimate shared matter.
A few screenshots or notes after an upsetting interaction, without continuing to add to them.
A repeated record of their posts, movements, relationships, or daily routine.
An extensive file containing private data, addresses, family details, or information gathered covertly.
7. After someone indicated that attention to their online activity made them uncomfortable, what did you do?
I stopped viewing or collecting their updates for personal monitoring.
I checked a public update once afterward, then stopped.
I continued checking their public activity several times despite the boundary.
I used alternate accounts, another person’s account, or hidden methods to keep watching them.
8. How close have you come to entering someone’s private or restricted space without a clear invitation?
I entered only places where I had current permission or an independent right to be.
I remained in a nearby public place hoping they would come out or notice me.
I entered a shared or semi-private area primarily to reach them without invitation.
I entered or tried to enter their home, vehicle, private room, or restricted workplace without permission.
9. If someone blocked one way of reaching them, what did you do next?
I treated the block as a boundary and did not look for another route.
I tried one other ordinary channel once, then stopped when there was no invitation to continue.
I contacted them through several apps, numbers, email addresses, or accounts.
I created deceptive accounts, concealed my identity, or repeatedly bypassed new blocks.
10. What is the most concerning way you have expressed anger, desperation, or a demand for contact?
I expressed feelings without threats, intimidation, property damage, or physical aggression.
I sent an angry or alarming message that did not threaten harm, then stopped.
I implied consequences, struck objects nearby, or used intimidation to frighten them into responding.
I threatened harm, injured someone, damaged their property, displayed or used a weapon, or threatened self-harm to control their response.
11. Which description best matches how you have used another person’s location information?
I used location sharing only while they knowingly agreed to it.
I checked a public location post once mainly to find out where they were.
I repeatedly combined posts, schedules, or sightings to predict where they would be.
I used a tracker, account access, device feature, or other hidden method without their consent.
12. Which statement best describes your access to another person’s accounts or devices?
I accessed only what I owned or had their current, explicit permission to use.
I tried to guess login details but did not enter the account.
I used previously shared access after it was no longer clearly authorized.
I entered an account or device without permission, bypassed security, or installed monitoring software.
13. When messages or calls went unanswered, how did you usually respond?
I left the next move to them after one reasonable message.
I sent one additional follow-up, then stopped.
I sent several messages or called repeatedly within a short period.
I continued persistently over time or overwhelmed them with calls and messages.
14. While traveling, you noticed the person ahead of you. What best matches your behavior in a similar situation?
I continued only for my independent route and created distance if my presence could alarm them.
I followed briefly out of curiosity, then stopped and went elsewhere.
I followed through multiple turns or to a destination to learn where they were going.
I pursued them despite attempts to get away, confront me, or seek help, or I drove dangerously to keep up.
15. During an in-person conflict or attempted departure, what is the most concerning action you took?
I gave them room to leave and did not interfere physically.
I briefly stood in their path but moved when they tried to pass.
I blocked an exit, took their keys or phone, or used my body to prevent departure.
I grabbed, restrained, injured, confined, or forced physical contact on them.