Toxic Relationship Test

In 10 minutes, clarify whether your relationship shows unhealthy patterns like control, jealousy, disrespect, or broken trust. Get a clear results summary with red flags, strengths, and next steps for boundaries, communication, and support.
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March 25, 2026
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example score
12/20
Emotional Safety & Anxiety (ES&A)
Measures how emotionally safe versus anxious you feel in day-to-day interactions, including fear of conflict and walking on eggshells.
Lower Anxiety / Safer
Moderate Anxiety
High Anxiety / Less Safe
06Lower Anxiety / Safer713Moderate Anxiety1420High Anxiety / Less Safe
A score of 12 falls in the Moderate Anxiety range, suggesting you sometimes feel tense or emotionally guarded in the relationship even if not constantly.
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3/20
Protective Factors & Boundaries (PF&B)
Measures relationship strengths that support safety and health, including respectful communication, accountability, trust repair, and effective boundary-setting.
Low protective factors
Some protective factors
Strong protective factors
06Low protective factors713Some protective factors1420Strong protective factors
A score of 3 falls in the Low protective factors range, suggesting boundaries and repair behaviors may be inconsistent or hard to maintain right now.
example score
26/40
Toxicity Red Flags (TRF)
Measures how often and how strongly unhealthy relationship patterns such as disrespect, manipulation, control, jealousy, chronic criticism, broken trust, and boundary violations are present.
Low red flags
Moderate red flags
High red flags
013Low red flags1426Moderate red flags2740High red flags
A score of 26 falls in the Moderate red flags range, suggesting several recurring unhealthy patterns that may be affecting safety, trust, or emotional comfort in the relationship.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Feeling unsure and anxious
41%OF USERS
People who feel tense, second-guess themselves, or “walk on eggshells” and want clarity on whether patterns like control, jealousy, or criticism are red flags.
After a major incident
34%OF USERS
People who recently experienced a blowup, betrayal, or repeated boundary crossing and want to assess how serious the situation is and what to do next.
Supporting someone you care about
25%OF USERS
Friends or family members who are worried about a loved one’s relationship and want a framework to understand warning signs and offer support.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Emotional Safety & Anxiety (ES&A)
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10.6
Normal range
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Protective Factors & Boundaries (PF&B)
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5.8
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2.68.9
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20
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Toxicity Red Flags (TRF)
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17.3
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1024.7
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40
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Frequently Asked Questions

What does this quiz measure?
It screens for common indicators of unhealthy relationship patterns, such as disrespect, manipulation, control, jealousy, chronic criticism, broken trust, boundary violations, and persistent anxiety. Results summarize potential red flags and protective factors based on the responses.
How long does it take and how many questions are included?
Estimated completion time is about 10 minutes. The questionnaire includes 63 situational questions.
Is the results summary a diagnosis?
No; it is informational and not a clinical diagnosis. It is not a substitute for evaluation by a licensed mental health professional.
How should the questions be answered?
Answer based on typical patterns over time rather than a single incident. Use the most accurate option even if more than one seems partly true.
What should be done if the results indicate serious concerns or safety risks?
Consider seeking support from a licensed professional or a trusted service provider for safety planning and guidance. If there is immediate danger, contact local emergency services.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment
Toxic Relationship Test

Toxic Relationship Test - Symptoms and Signs

Wondering if your relationship has become unhealthy? This Toxic Relationship Signs Quiz helps you reflect on common patterns like repeated disrespect, manipulation, control, jealousy, chronic criticism, broken trust, boundary violations, and feeling anxious or “walk on eggshells.” Answer a set of situational questions to get a results summary that highlights potential red flags and protective factors, plus practical next steps for communication, boundaries, and support resources. This quiz is informational and not a diagnosis.

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