Love Language Test for Kids

1. I feel loved when a grown-up asks me questions about my day and really pays attention to my answers.

2. When someone makes me a snack or meal, I feel cared for.

3. When a grown-up keeps their promise to spend time with me, I feel safe and loved.

4. If someone compliments me, I remember it for a long time.

5. I like it when a grown-up and I do something together, like a game, drawing, or cooking.

6. I like when someone tells me I did a good job even on small things (like cleaning up).

7. I like hearing “please” and “thank you” in our house.

8. If someone says something mean to me, it bothers me a lot.

9. When a grown-up listens to my story without interrupting, I feel loved.

10. I feel better when someone says, “It’s okay, everyone makes mistakes.”

11. If someone helps me tidy my room with me, I feel supported.

12. When a grown-up notices my feelings and talks with me about them, I feel cared for.

13. I would rather hear kind words than get a small prize.

14. Even a short time together feels special to me if the grown-up is fully focused on me.

15. I feel better about a hard day when I get one-on-one time with a grown-up.

16. I feel left out when a grown-up is home but does not spend time with me.

17. I like when people cheer me on with words during games, sports, or activities.

18. When someone helps me find something I lost, I feel loved.

19. I like when a grown-up joins in my pretend play or games.

20. I get upset when a grown-up says we will spend time together, but then gets too busy.

21. When someone runs an errand with me (like going to the store or library), I feel supported.

22. Helping me calm down (like getting water or finding my comfort item) feels like love to me.

23. I like it when grown-ups notice what I did well and say it out loud.

24. I feel loved when someone says they enjoy spending time with me.

25. If I am stuck on homework, help with it makes me feel loved.

26. If someone says “thank you” to me, it matters a lot.

27. When a grown-up is in the same room but busy, I still feel like I need more attention.

28. I feel encouraged when someone says, “You can do it.”

29. If a grown-up is distracted while we talk, I feel like they do not care as much.

30. I feel happiest when a grown-up plays with me and puts their phone or work away.

31. When I’m sad, hearing comforting words helps me a lot.

32. I feel loved when someone helps me fix something that is broken.

33. I feel cared for when someone helps me plan what to do next (like making a checklist).

34. I feel cared about when someone helps me solve a problem instead of just telling me what to do.

35. I like when a grown-up teaches me something while we do it together (like baking, fixing, or drawing).

36. I like doing puzzles, building, or crafts with a grown-up more than doing them alone.

37. I like having a regular time to talk, like at bedtime or after school.

38. I feel loved when a grown-up lets me choose an activity we do together.

39. I like getting notes, cards, or messages with nice words.

40. It hurts my feelings when people don’t say “good job” even if I tried hard.

41. I like giving compliments to my friends or family.

42. I feel loved when someone helps me with a job I have to do.

43. I like having a grown-up read to me or listen while I read.

44. It makes me happy when someone helps me carry something heavy or hard to hold.

45. I feel cared for when someone says, “I love you.”

46. I feel closer to people when we say kind things to each other.

47. When someone says, “I’m glad you’re here,” I feel really good inside.

48. I like it when someone helps me get ready on time (like finding my shoes or backpack).

49. I like going on walks, errands, or car rides if we can talk together.

50. I like when a grown-up tells me, “I’m listening to you.”

51. I feel happy when someone tells me they are proud of me.

52. I feel important when a grown-up makes a special plan just for us.

53. I try to tell people nice things about them.

54. I feel supported when someone helps me clean up without being asked.

55. I feel loved when someone remembers to do something helpful for me (like washing my favorite shirt).

56. I like when a grown-up sits with me while I do homework or a project.

57. It means a lot when a grown-up does something to make my day easier.

58. When someone does a chore for me, it feels like they care about me.

59. I feel loved when someone tells me I’m important to them.

60. When a grown-up and I laugh together, I feel close to them.

61. When someone packs my lunch, I feel cared for.

62. When I work hard, I want someone to notice and say something kind.

63. I want people to tell me exactly what they appreciate about me (not just “nice”).

64. Kind words make me feel loved.

65. When I am tired, it feels loving when someone helps with my responsibilities.

66. I would rather have time together than a new toy or treat.

67. I feel loved when someone helps me practice something (like reading, sports, or music).

68. I like hearing what people like about me.

69. I like when a grown-up watches me do something and cheers me on (like sports, dance, or a show).

70. I feel supported when someone helps me get to places I need to go (like practice or an appointment).