LGBT Quiz

1. I understand the difference between gender identity and gender expression.

2. I actively reflect on who I feel attracted to (sexually and/or romantically).

3. I know what “bisexual” means and that it doesn’t require equal attraction to all genders.

4. I consider how comfortable I feel with the pronouns people use for me.

5. I intentionally explore what gender means to me personally.

6. I know that people can use multiple labels or change labels over time, and that this can be valid.

7. I feel safe using inclusive language (like “partner” instead of assuming gender) in my environment.

8. I reflect on how my gender expression (clothes, hair, mannerisms) affects how I feel about myself.

9. I feel comfortable telling someone when a joke or comment about LGBTQ+ people crosses a line for me.

10. I wonder how much my attractions are influenced by context (people, relationships, environment).

11. I know what “sexual orientation” refers to (e.g., who someone is attracted to).

12. I understand what it means to be an ally (supportive actions, not just good intentions).

13. I try to notice whether my feelings are more about attraction, admiration, or gender envy.

14. If someone says something disrespectful about LGBTQ+ people, I know a respectful way to respond or set a boundary.

15. I feel at ease when LGBTQ+ topics come up unexpectedly in conversation.

16. If a conversation about LGBTQ+ topics became uncomfortable, I could steer it in a safer direction.

17. I understand what “nonbinary” means.

18. I have considered different possibilities for my identity without pressuring myself to decide quickly.

19. I would feel comfortable discussing my attractions or crushes (if any) with someone I trust.

20. I understand that “gender” and “sex assigned at birth” are not the same thing.

21. I feel pressure to hide my thoughts or questions about gender and sexuality.

22. I worry that talking about LGBTQ+ topics could put me at risk (socially, emotionally, or physically).

23. I could ask someone what pronouns they use without feeling awkward or worried.

24. I avoid LGBTQ+ topics because I am afraid of being judged.

25. If I use the wrong pronouns for someone, I know how to correct myself briefly and move on.

26. I feel comfortable sitting with uncertainty while I figure myself out.

27. I have at least one person I could talk to about LGBTQ+ topics and feel emotionally safe.

28. In my current environment, being LGBTQ+ (or questioning) feels dangerous.

29. I avoid showing support (e.g., sharing a post, wearing a pin) because it might cause problems for me.

30. I know what “deadnaming” means and why it is hurtful.

31. I reflect on moments when I feel discomfort or mismatch about gendered expectations.

32. I worry that my privacy could be violated if I explored LGBTQ+ questions about myself.

33. When I’m unsure of someone’s pronouns, I know respectful ways to ask.

34. If someone asked about my identity or orientation, I could set boundaries comfortably.

35. I reflect on moments when I feel especially affirmed or “like myself” in terms of gender.

36. I think about what kinds of relationships feel most authentic to me.

37. I feel tense or on edge when I think about others finding out my feelings or identity questions.

38. I have spent time considering what sexual orientation labels (if any) feel right for me.

39. I feel comfortable hearing people talk about their LGBTQ+ identities without feeling tense or uneasy.

40. I can talk respectfully about LGBTQ+ topics even if someone disagrees with me.

41. I feel comfortable exploring LGBTQ+ resources (websites, books, communities) without fear of being found out.

42. I know what the term “cisgender” means.

43. I know what “transgender” means and can describe it accurately.

44. I have looked up information or stories to help me understand my identity feelings.

45. If I needed support related to LGBTQ+ topics, I would know at least one safe place or person to turn to.

46. I have spent time considering what romantic orientation labels (if any) feel right for me.

47. I know what “asexual” can mean and that it can be a spectrum.

48. I understand the difference between romantic attraction and sexual attraction.

49. I feel confident using gender-neutral language (e.g., “partner,” “they”) when I’m unsure what someone prefers.

50. I feel confident I can choose when and with whom to share personal information about gender or sexuality.

51. I can talk about LGBTQ+ issues without worrying that it will harm my relationships.

52. I feel curious (rather than ashamed) when I notice identity-related questions in myself.

53. I feel safe bringing up LGBTQ+ topics in my current home environment.

54. I am willing to revisit my assumptions about myself if new feelings come up.

55. I avoid assuming someone’s gender based on their appearance or name.

56. I understand that someone can be questioning and still deserve respect without pressure to label themselves.

57. I am open to the idea that I might not fit neatly into one category or label.

58. I would feel safe correcting someone if they used the wrong pronouns for me or someone else.

59. I reflect on whether I experience sexual attraction and how that shows up for me.

60. I think about how my identity might intersect with culture, religion, or family expectations.

61. I pay attention to patterns in who I develop crushes on or feel drawn to.

62. I understand why “outing” someone (sharing their LGBTQ+ identity without permission) can be harmful.

63. If someone reacted negatively to LGBTQ+ topics, I would know how to protect my emotional well-being.

64. I reflect on whether I experience romantic attraction and how that shows up for me.

65. I am open to experimenting with gender expression in ways that feel safe for me.

66. I feel safe being seen as supportive of LGBTQ+ people where I live or work/study.

67. I could imagine my understanding of my identity being different a year from now.

68. I think about what boundaries and needs I have in relationships related to my identity.

69. I have thought about trying different pronouns in some context (even privately).

70. I feel safe attending an LGBTQ+-inclusive event or space (online or in person) if I wanted to.

71. I compare how I feel when I present more feminine versus more masculine (or less gendered).

72. I am curious about different ways people experience gender (including nonbinary identities).

73. I understand why asking “What’s your real name?” can be disrespectful to some trans or nonbinary people.

74. I know what it means when someone says their pronouns are they/them.

75. I know that “intersex” is about variations in biological sex traits, not a sexual orientation.

76. I know why using a person’s chosen name (even if different from legal documents) is important.

77. I understand the difference between sexual orientation and gender identity.

78. I can recognize when a joke or comment relies on stereotypes about LGBTQ+ people.

79. I feel comfortable saying “I’m not ready to discuss that” if someone asks about my identity.

80. I could share that I am questioning (if true) or exploring these topics without fearing serious consequences.

81. I feel I must constantly monitor what I say about LGBTQ+ topics to stay safe.

82. I have questioned whether my gender identity fully matches what I was assigned at birth.

83. I am curious about whether my attractions or romantic feelings might change over time.