Does My Husband Love Me Anymore Quiz

1. He seems invested in building stability with me (home, routines, responsibilities) rather than living separately in practice.

2. He makes time for our relationship a priority, not just an “extra” when everything else is done.

3. He avoids conversations about our relationship or changes the subject quickly.

4. It feels like we live more like roommates than romantic partners.

5. When I try to talk about something important, he gives me his full attention.

6. He checks in with me (texts/calls or asks) to see how I’m doing.

7. He shows interest in planning meaningful time together, not just coexisting in the same space.

8. It feels like he is going through the motions rather than emotionally investing in us.

9. When I try to connect emotionally, he shuts down or becomes silent.

10. He seems to avoid physical intimacy (not just sex, but closeness) with me.

11. He makes or supports shared traditions and routines that reinforce our connection (holidays, weekly habits).

12. When making plans (vacations, events, weekends), he includes me rather than deciding on his own.

13. If I ask for time to talk, he is willing to set aside time for it.

14. We can talk without it turning into criticism, sarcasm, or contempt.

15. Affection (hugging, kissing, holding hands) has noticeably decreased.

16. My husband talks about our future together in a positive, concrete way (e.g., next year, five years).

17. He responds to my attempts at closeness with jokes, sarcasm, or changing the topic.

18. He includes me in conversations about plans, decisions, or changes that affect us.

19. He rarely initiates shared plans like dates, weekends, or time together.

20. There is less warmth, playfulness, or friendly connection between us.

21. My husband seems emotionally unavailable when I try to talk about how I feel.

22. I feel heard and understood when I share my feelings with him.

23. He shows up for important moments in my life (appointments, family events, celebrations) when he reasonably can.

24. He seems uninterested in resolving issues and would rather let problems sit.

25. He seems annoyed by my presence or by small requests for connection.

26. He shares what’s going on in his life with me (feelings, stress, goals).

27. He makes efforts to maintain closeness (date nights, check-ins, shared activities) without me always initiating.

28. He seems less proud of me or less supportive of my goals.

29. He doesn’t notice or respond much when I try to be affectionate toward him.

30. He responds to my messages or calls in a timely, considerate way.

31. He is willing to work through relationship problems instead of avoiding them or shutting down.

32. I feel comfortable bringing up sensitive topics with him.

33. We regularly spend quality time together that feels connecting.

34. He supports my goals (career, health, personal growth) in ways that feel sincere and consistent.

35. He follows through on promises he makes to me, even when it’s inconvenient.

36. We laugh together or share small moments of enjoyment most weeks.

37. He shows interest in my thoughts, opinions, and experiences.

38. When I’m upset, he tries to understand what I’m feeling rather than dismissing it.

39. He shares less about his thoughts, worries, or feelings than he used to.

40. He seems to confide in me less and keep more of his life private.

41. He notices and responds when I need comfort or reassurance.

42. He considers how his choices will affect our relationship before acting.

43. He avoids making future plans that include me (even small ones).

44. Even when he’s busy, he makes time to connect with me in small ways.

45. He seems indifferent to how his actions affect my feelings.

46. He makes joint financial or household decisions with me rather than keeping me out of the loop.

47. He speaks about “we” and “us” more than “me” when discussing major decisions.

48. When we disagree, we can talk it through without shutting down.

49. He is more critical of me than he used to be.

50. I feel like my husband keeps an emotional “wall” up around me.

51. He seems relieved when we don’t have to spend time alone together.

52. He is transparent about his schedule and priorities in a way that supports trust and partnership.

53. He seems distracted or checked out when we are together.

54. When conflicts happen, he still behaves like we are on the same team.

55. We have meaningful conversations about our day-to-day lives (not just logistics).

56. We have a sense of being a team when dealing with everyday responsibilities.

57. We talk openly about our relationship (needs, concerns, and hopes).

58. He rarely asks about my day or follows up on things that matter to me.

59. He makes me feel chosen and prioritized in ways that signal long-term commitment.

60. He is willing to make compromises so our plans and needs can both be met.

61. When I’m upset, he responds with irritation, defensiveness, or impatience.

62. He demonstrates reliability in day-to-day responsibilities that affect us both (chores, childcare, errands).

63. He gives short, minimal answers instead of having real conversations with me.

64. He makes an effort to resolve misunderstandings instead of avoiding them.

65. He is less interested in doing things together, even simple daily activities.

66. He takes my concerns about the relationship seriously and makes changes when needed.

67. He acts warmer or more engaged with others than he is with me.

68. He spends more time away from me (work, friends, hobbies, screens) to avoid interacting.

69. When I need comfort, he is less likely to offer reassurance or a caring response.