Does My Cat Love Me Quiz
Questions: 15 · 10 minutes
1. While you are focused on a quiet task, how often does your cat come by for a social check-in?
Rarely or never
Occasionally, usually passing through without staying
Regularly, pausing nearby or making brief contact
Frequently, deliberately seeking interaction or settling with me
2. What tail posture does your cat most often use while voluntarily approaching you?
Low, tucked, or swishing tensely
Neutral or level, without much change
Mostly upright with a relaxed shape
Upright with a soft curve or friendly quiver
3. Outside of feeding time, does your cat join recurring parts of your day, such as bedtime, morning routines, or relaxing on the sofa?
Almost never
Sometimes, but without a consistent pattern
Often for one or two familiar routines
Very consistently across several shared routines
4. How often does your cat rub their cheeks, forehead, or side against you?
Rarely or never
Occasionally, usually in a specific context such as mealtime
Regularly during greetings or calm moments
Frequently, in several different situations
5. When your cat can rest anywhere at home, where do they usually choose to settle?
In another room or a secluded spot
In the same room, usually at a distance
Near me, such as beside my chair or at the foot of the bed
In direct contact with me, such as on my lap or against my side
6. You sit near your cat without reaching toward them. What usually happens?
They soon move farther away
They stay but remain watchful or poised to leave
They settle into a visibly looser, calmer posture
They move closer or initiate contact themselves
7. When your cat wants friendly physical contact, how clearly do they initiate it?
They generally avoid initiating touch
They sometimes remain available for contact without actively asking
They often offer a head, cheek, paw, or body for contact
They repeatedly seek me out and use clear nudges or touch invitations
8. How often does your cat show vulnerable, relaxed behavior near you, such as deep sleep, unhurried grooming, or sitting with their back turned?
Rarely or never
Occasionally, but usually at a distance
Often in the same area as me
Very often while close beside me or touching me
9. In a calm, familiar setting, how does your cat respond when you walk toward them?
They usually leave before I get close
They stay but closely monitor my movement
They generally remain relaxed where they are
They often close the remaining distance or lean toward me
10. When you return after being away for a while, how does your cat usually greet you?
They rarely change what they are doing or acknowledge me
They look toward me or appear after some time
They come closer, vocalize, or remain nearby
They promptly approach with an animated, friendly greeting
11. When your cat wants activity or company—not food—how often do they specifically recruit you?
Rarely; they usually entertain themselves or rest alone
Occasionally, though their invitation can be hard to distinguish
Often, through waiting nearby, vocalizing, or leading me somewhere
Very often, using clear and persistent invitations directed at me
12. After an unfamiliar noise startles your cat, how do they typically relate to you once the immediate scare passes?
They remain hidden or separate from me for a long while
They emerge but keep their distance
They return to the same area and watch me from nearby
They approach, check in with me, or settle close by
13. After a pleasant interaction ends and you turn to something else, what does your cat usually do?
They leave and do not return for further interaction
They stay in the general area but focus elsewhere
They remain close and sometimes restart contact
They repeatedly re-engage me with play, touch, or social signals
14. You bring out a toy your cat normally enjoys. How do they typically engage with you?
They usually show little interest or leave the area
They watch or make a brief attempt, then disengage
They participate for a while and track my movements
They become highly involved and repeatedly return the play toward me
15. If you make a relaxed slow blink toward your cat from a comfortable distance, what response do you most often notice?
They turn away, leave, or appear uncomfortable
They watch me without an obvious response
They soften or partly close their eyes
They clearly slow-blink back or relax and move closer