Does My Boyfriend Love Me Quiz

1. When we have a misunderstanding, he tries to understand my feelings before trying to ""win"" the argument.

2. He checks in on how I am doing without being prompted.

3. I feel like a priority in his life, not an afterthought.

4. He remembers important dates or events that matter to me and plans accordingly.

5. He encourages my goals and independence rather than feeling threatened by them.

6. He makes me feel secure that I can count on him day to day.

7. He makes plans for the near future with me (not just last-minute meetups).

8. He doesn’t pressure me into physical intimacy, sex, or affection when I’m not into it.

9. He doesn’t keep score or use past mistakes as weapons in current conflicts.

10. He puts consistent effort into staying connected when life gets hectic (work, school, family stress).

11. He reliably supports me when I am stressed or having a hard day.

12. He shares what's going on in his inner world (worries, hopes, fears) with me.

13. When we argue, he focuses on solving the issue rather than “winning.”

14. He keeps promises to me, even small ones.

15. During disagreements, he avoids name-calling, mocking, or humiliating me.

16. He makes an effort to include me in his life (friends, family, plans) when appropriate.

17. He doesn’t use jealousy as a way to control what I wear, where I go, or who I talk to.

18. He can apologize sincerely and talk about what happened without becoming defensive.

19. He can name and express his feelings (for example, ""I'm anxious"" or ""I'm overwhelmed"") instead of acting them out.

20. If he feels overwhelmed, he communicates what he needs without blaming me.

21. If I bring up a concern, he takes it seriously rather than dismissing it as “dramatic” or “crazy.”

22. If he needs space, he communicates it clearly and returns to the conversation later as promised.

23. He respects my time and commitments instead of demanding I drop everything for him.

24. He does not make me feel guilty for spending time with family, friends, or alone.

25. He does not use sarcasm, silent treatment, or coldness to punish me.

26. He accepts feedback (like “that hurt my feelings”) without getting defensive or turning it around on me.

27. He takes my emotional needs seriously and tries to meet them, even if it doesn't come naturally.

28. When I need help (practical or emotional), he makes a real effort to be there.

29. I rarely feel like I am chasing him for attention, time, or reassurance.

30. He makes an effort to resolve practical issues that affect us (money, logistics, responsibilities).

31. He accepts my “no” without trying to guilt-trip me or keep pushing.

32. He respects my privacy (phone, messages, passwords) unless I choose to share.

33. When something matters to me, he treats it as important too.

34. He treats my emotions as valid, even if he doesn’t fully understand them.

35. He listens to my point of view even when he disagrees.

36. He takes the relationship seriously in his choices (e.g., avoids actions that would undermine trust).

37. He speaks about me respectfully to others (friends, family, online), even when we’re not getting along.

38. If I ask for space or time to cool down, he accepts it without punishing me later.

39. He validates my emotions (for example, ""That makes sense"") even if he sees things differently.

40. When he’s upset, he still treats me with basic respect.

41. He can discuss future plans or commitment topics without becoming avoidant or dismissive.

42. When I share something vulnerable, he responds with empathy rather than jokes, criticism, or changing the subject.

43. He makes time for me even when he is busy.

44. When he's upset, he avoids punishing me with coldness or withdrawal.

45. He supports my friendships and doesn’t try to isolate me from people I care about.

46. When something comes up, he gives me a clear update instead of disappearing.

47. He puts in effort to maintain our connection (dates, calls, quality time).

48. He shows up when he says he will (on time or close to it).

49. He is willing to adjust his schedule sometimes to make our relationship work.

50. He asks follow-up questions about my feelings instead of giving quick solutions right away.

51. When he makes a promise or agreement about boundaries, he follows through.

52. During conflict, he can talk about his feelings without shutting down or going silent for long periods.

53. He can tolerate my negative emotions without trying to shut them down quickly.

54. When I express a need in the relationship, he tries to follow through with changes.

55. If I'm stressed, my boyfriend checks in emotionally (not just practically) and asks how I'm doing.

56. He takes responsibility for his part in problems instead of blaming everything on me.

57. He supports my choices about contraception, sexual health, and consent without pressure.

58. He is willing to have uncomfortable conversations about our relationship when needed.

59. He regularly initiates time together rather than leaving it all up to me.

60. He follows through on commitments that affect us (e.g., chores, errands, shared responsibilities).

61. My boyfriend respects my boundaries when I say “no” or “not comfortable.”

62. He respects my physical space and doesn’t block my way, corner me, or intimidate me during conflict.

63. When I ask for reassurance, he responds kindly rather than calling me ""too sensitive"" or ""needy.""

64. He does what he says he will do, even when no one is watching.

65. If he cannot do something he promised, he acknowledges it and makes it right.

66. He is consistent in how he treats me (not hot-and-cold).

67. He takes action to fix things after we have a disagreement (not just words).

68. He remembers and follows up on emotional topics we've discussed before (like concerns or boundaries).

69. I can bring up sensitive topics without it turning into an attack on my character.

70. When I cry or get emotional, he stays present rather than becoming annoyed or distant.

71. I feel emotionally safe sharing my feelings without fearing retaliation or ridicule.

72. He makes consistent effort over time, not only when it is convenient for him.

73. He notices my mood changes and gently checks in rather than ignoring them.

74. He follows through on plans we make together.

75. When I bring up a concern, he stays engaged instead of saying, ""I don't want to talk about this.""

76. He respects my decisions even if they’re different from what he wants.

77. When I tell my boyfriend I feel hurt or upset, he makes space to listen instead of brushing it off.

78. He apologizes when he hurts me and tries to make things right.

79. He doesn’t threaten to break up, leave, or withdraw love to get his way.

80. After an argument, he works with me to repair the connection instead of acting like nothing happened.

81. He expresses affection in emotionally meaningful ways (words, comfort, reassurance) when it matters.

82. He is dependable when something important is on the line (appointments, commitments, family events).

83. If he says he will call or text at a certain time, he usually does.

84. He is willing to hear my perspective even when he disagrees.