Do I Love My Boyfriend Quiz

1. I feel confident we could work through recurring problems rather than repeating the same cycle.

2. I feel emotionally connected to my boyfriend even during ordinary, routine weeks.

3. I feel emotionally safe sharing my fears or insecurities with my boyfriend.

4. If we had a serious issue, I believe both of us would be willing to seek help (talks, counseling, guidance) rather than give up quickly.

5. I believe we can maintain mutual respect even during stressful seasons.

6. When I think about the next few years (career, school, location), our plans seem compatible.

7. We share compatible views on personal growth (therapy, learning, accountability, changing habits).

8. I trust that my boyfriend’s apologies (when needed) are sincere and followed by change.

9. When I think about committing more deeply, I feel mostly calm and clear rather than anxious or conflicted.

10. I trust my boyfriend to keep commitments that matter to me (time, plans, promises).

11. I feel we are moving in the same direction, not just spending time together in the present.

12. I want to keep choosing him even when things aren’t exciting or easy.

13. When I picture my boyfriend, I feel warmth rather than neutrality.

14. Being emotionally close to my boyfriend feels natural to me.

15. We agree on the kind of lifestyle we want (home life, social life, pace of life).

16. We share similar views about family involvement and boundaries with relatives.

17. I can be my full self around my boyfriend without feeling like I have to perform.

18. I feel emotionally “seen” by my boyfriend—like he notices what matters to me.

19. I feel a sense of tenderness toward my boyfriend even when we disagree.

20. I feel sure that my boyfriend cares about my well-being, not just what he gets from the relationship.

21. When I’m upset, my boyfriend’s support helps me feel calmer and less alone.

22. Our approaches to money (spending, saving, goals) seem compatible enough for the long term.

23. I feel emotionally close to my boyfriend even when we are not physically together.

24. I feel emotionally understood by my boyfriend.

25. When something good happens, my boyfriend is one of the first people I want to tell.

26. I feel like I can lean on my boyfriend when I’m stressed or upset.

27. We can make plans together without one of us feeling pressured, trapped, or avoided.

28. I look forward to connecting with my boyfriend at the end of the day (or after time apart).

29. I feel calm in this relationship more often than I feel anxious.

30. If we have a disagreement, I trust we can work through it without threats of breaking up or withdrawing love.

31. I feel emotionally safe being fully myself around my boyfriend.

32. My boyfriend’s behavior feels consistent rather than hot-and-cold.

33. When we disagree, we usually repair and return to feeling close within a reasonable time.

34. I enjoy small moments of closeness with my boyfriend (like quiet time together) as much as big dates.

35. I trust my boyfriend to be honest with me, even when the truth is uncomfortable.

36. I rarely worry that my boyfriend is hiding important information from me.

37. I don’t feel like I have to walk on eggshells to keep things stable with my boyfriend.

38. I generally take my boyfriend’s words at face value rather than doubting them.

39. I feel emotionally close to my boyfriend in a way that’s more than habit or convenience.

40. We can talk about long-term topics (moving, finances, family) without it turning into avoidance or a fight.

41. I don’t feel the need to “check up” on my boyfriend to feel okay.

42. My boyfriend’s affection and attention feel steady rather than unpredictable.

43. I believe my boyfriend has good intentions toward me.

44. I feel secure that my boyfriend won’t use my vulnerabilities against me later.

45. I feel secure about where I stand with my boyfriend (not constantly guessing).

46. I care deeply about how my boyfriend is feeling on the inside, not just what’s happening in his life.

47. Our values feel aligned on the big things that matter most to me.

48. I feel respected by my boyfriend even when he is frustrated with me.

49. I believe my boyfriend would tell me if he made a mistake that affects us.

50. I feel confident that my boyfriend would tell me the truth about something that could hurt our relationship.

51. I can picture a realistic future with my boyfriend that I would genuinely want.

52. My boyfriend and I share affectionate moments (verbal or physical) that feel meaningful to me.

53. I believe we support each other’s long-term goals rather than competing with them.

54. I trust my boyfriend to be loyal to our relationship agreements.

55. I feel secure enough in this relationship to focus on my own life (friends, goals) without fear.

56. I feel proud to be emotionally connected to my boyfriend.

57. We are aligned (or can respectfully align) on whether we want children and what that would look like.

58. When something feels off, my boyfriend is willing to talk it through openly.

59. When we talk about the future, our ideas tend to match rather than clash.

60. I trust his willingness to show up consistently over time, not just when it’s convenient.

61. I miss my boyfriend in a tender way when we haven’t talked or seen each other.

62. My boyfriend’s actions match his words most of the time.

63. When I imagine making big decisions, he is someone I want beside me.

64. I feel a genuine desire to build shared routines and responsibilities together.

65. I feel a warm sense of affection when I think about my boyfriend.

66. Our long-term priorities (stability, adventure, ambition, family, community) are mostly compatible.

67. I trust my boyfriend to handle conflict fairly (not twisting facts or blaming me for everything).

68. I feel genuinely cared for by my boyfriend, not just tolerated.

69. If I share something personal, I trust my boyfriend to handle it with care.

70. When my boyfriend says he will do something, I can rely on it happening.

71. I feel confident that my boyfriend respects my boundaries.

72. I can bring up concerns without fearing my boyfriend will retaliate or punish me emotionally.

73. We have similar expectations about commitment (exclusivity, boundaries, loyalty).

74. We agree on what a healthy relationship should look like day-to-day (communication, respect, independence).

75. I feel proud to be with him and can imagine introducing him into more parts of my future life.

76. We handle responsibilities in a way that feels balanced (chores, planning, emotional labor).

77. We are willing to compromise fairly when our preferences differ.

78. If a major life change happened (job loss, illness, relocation), I believe we would handle it as a team.